how strong if an IOI is it when someone mirrors you?

[jvick]

lately ive been spending more time watching peoples' body language, posture, and just how they carry themselves. probably the biggest surprise was i noticed a fairly hot coworker mirroring me. for about an hour we had to sit at this big table and listen to a presentation(she was right next to me). anyway id change how i was sitting in the chair and how my arms were and she would follow suit, usually within seconds. ive had people mirror me other time, but never seen it this strongly. weather i just didnt pick up on it or what im not really sure.

 

[WC2]

I don't know if I would look that far into it man. I get all the IOIs I need by watching a woman's eyes and facial expression. Her "mirroring" you could just be something subconscious that doesn't necessarily mean shes attracted.

 

[wjh]

Well mirroring, when it comes to women, 99% of the time is a good thing if you're looking to make a move. If anything I would look at it as her being open to your advances. It's subtle but it's there. You should act in kind. If it were any other location (not work), like school, I would recommend opening with some basic convo, etc.

I wouldn't recommend that here though because she's your coworker... That's another topic however.