Hey there, Dav is back again. Class and rehersal has KILLED me timewise.
Anyway, I come to all you wise men with another situation.
I was with one of my lady friends today, nice little asian number by the name of Janice. Like Jamie, the two of us have been attracted to each other before, and always the other was with someone else (i seem to make that happen alot...-.-)
She and I were Drivin back from town when she suddenly broke down crying. I got concerned so I pulled over and asked her what was wrong.
Long story short, she and her Bf called it quits. Not exactly the most clean breakup either. So, she was crying and what not and I didmy best to calm her down and she asked me to take her back to her dorm. (One thing ive learned about this girl, when she says she wants to be alone, she means it!)
Anyway, backstory aside, this got me thinking...
How soon is too soon to move in on a gal?
How does one start a relationship with a girl, without being written off as "on the rebound" or as a person she went to in "Desperation"?
I seem to remember Doc Love being asked a question like this, but i cant seem to find that post anymore...
Anyway, im interested in any viewpoints on this. This isnt me asking for advice, this is just the curious wonderings of how you other Dj's handle these situations.
Anyway, I come to all you wise men with another situation.
I was with one of my lady friends today, nice little asian number by the name of Janice. Like Jamie, the two of us have been attracted to each other before, and always the other was with someone else (i seem to make that happen alot...-.-)
She and I were Drivin back from town when she suddenly broke down crying. I got concerned so I pulled over and asked her what was wrong.
Long story short, she and her Bf called it quits. Not exactly the most clean breakup either. So, she was crying and what not and I didmy best to calm her down and she asked me to take her back to her dorm. (One thing ive learned about this girl, when she says she wants to be alone, she means it!)
Anyway, backstory aside, this got me thinking...
How soon is too soon to move in on a gal?
How does one start a relationship with a girl, without being written off as "on the rebound" or as a person she went to in "Desperation"?
I seem to remember Doc Love being asked a question like this, but i cant seem to find that post anymore...
Anyway, im interested in any viewpoints on this. This isnt me asking for advice, this is just the curious wonderings of how you other Dj's handle these situations.
