How should I deal with this girl?

[SoulMan13]

So there's this girl I've been gaming for about 2-3 weeks at college. I managed to number close at the end of the second week. We are in a couple of the same classes and she's been giving me IOI's frequently.

We have been spending most of our lunch breaks together and talk for at least 2 hours around 3 days a week. She never initiates a face to face conversation, it is always me, however, she is receptive and attentive when I approach her. If she sees me she will just give me a really big smile and carry on walking and if I don't initiate a conversation we won't talk. She initiates text conversations, but when I respond to her texts she just ignores them and doesn't reply. (I did respond to the texts around 3-4 hours late as I was busy). Also, on my birthday I didn't receive any text, call etc from her to wish me a Happy Birthday. It's possible she could have forgot, however, she did mention it to me the day before while we were discussing what present she should give me lol.

Should I freeze her out? What would be the best way of implementing the freeze out? Or do you have any other suggestions/ideas about what I should do about this girl? I have no problem moving on if you think it would be best.

Thanks

 

[expos]

So there's this girl I've been gaming for about 2-3 weeks at college. I managed to number close at the end of the second week.

Way too long. You need to number close faster than that and get that first one-on-one date or invite her somewhere and isolate her. The more direct you are with your intentions, the more they will follow your lead. You realize that some guys have probably banged her on the second date right? That could have been you.

We have been spending most of our lunch breaks together and talk for at least 2 hours around 3 days a week.

Way too much talking. You are not mysterious to her at all and not making her hamster wheel spin. You should brief funny texts and ask to meet and that's it. You are becoming her friend.

and if I don't initiate a conversation we won't talk.

She has low interest in you.

She initiates text conversations, but when I respond to her texts she just ignores them and doesn't reply. (I did respond to the texts around 3-4 hours late as I was busy). Also, on my birthday I didn't receive any text, call etc from her to wish me a Happy Birthday. It's possible she could have forgot, however, she did mention it to me the day before while we were discussing what present she should give me lol.

Even lower interest in you now. You are becoming a validator/orbitor.

Should I freeze her out? What would be the best way of implementing the freeze out? Or do you have any other suggestions/ideas about what I should do about this girl? I have no problem moving on if you think it would be best.

Thanks

The only thing you can do is go completely cold and indifferent around her. Don't respond to texts for awhile. Spin some plates to get your mind off of her. If she contacts you, respond briefly and aim to set up a date as soon as possible. Something like "good to hear from you, I'm going to XXXXX and I think you should come along." If she flakes on that message - NEXT HER.

 

[Uncharted]

Please tell me that you're talking to other girls. You're at college. There are probably thousands of hot girls on campus. No need to worry about this one girl with low interest.

Move on. If she reaches out then she might have a little bit of interest. If not, she has none. Don't waste any more time. You are becoming an orbiter/friend.

 

[PlayHer Man]

Welcome to the FRIEND ZONE my dude. :crackup:

How did this happen? --> Hesitation leads to masturbation.

Women are not stupid. They know that 99.9% of straight men who engage them WANT TO F*CK THEM. That's right. She knows you want to f*ck her the minute you ask for her phone number. So once she gives it out.. its just a question of how much balls you have. Will you be bold and f*ck her like a real man OR will you be a beta fag and chit-chat on the phone, go shopping and eat lunch together while waiting for her to take the lead?

At the very least you should be mouth kissing by your second meeting with her. Once too much time passes without any sexual move made.. she will usually assume you're a beta and friend zone you like there's no tomorrow.

Live and learn. I say go in for a kiss the next time you see her. She will likely reject you. Then you can move on. Don't beat yourself up.. just avoid this fag behavior with the next girl.

 

[instantnoodles]

Yeah, P-Man is right, SoulMan. I know a guy and he barely touches the girl he's with it. I'm afraid he will end up in the friendzone too.

You either get the girl or you just become a Gay Best Friend which a lot of girls like lollll.