Doc Love's "System" is geared for the male who wants to filter out all the gold diggers, professional daters, structured/inflexible women, takers, psychos, self centered females, flakers, etc., i.e. HIGH MAINTENANCE women who are not what you want for an LTR. Doc Love's System is for men who want a woman for the "long haul" and not really meant for an ONS.
His System is about the 3 Cs that make up a man: Confidence, (Self Control) and Challenge. Challenge is the woman's Achilles Heel. Challenge makes her wonder where she stands with you. It raises her Interest Level in you. It keeps on her toes. Being a man, you clearly convey to her that you'll walk away from her if she disrespects you in any way.
He teaches guys how to gauge a woman's IL which cuts through everything. Anything but a "YES" from a girl means "NO". He talks about the "Reality Theory" which says if you continue to do things wrong with women, you can expect the same results every time.
He tells guys to always ask for the Home Phone Number and to wait 7 to 9 days before calling her to set up a date. When you do call, you say "Hi, this is Jerry." (You don't say "Hi, this is Jerry Baker, the dude who spoke to you last week at Macy's.") If she says "Jerry who?", that's a red flag that she didn't remember you because you didn't make a good initial impression on her. If you had wowed her and if her IL in you was high, she would have exclaimed "Jerry! Why haven't you called me until now?!!"
On your first date, you keep it light by being funny with her. No heavy subjects such as politics, race, religion, abortion and sex. Talk about positive things. No touching her (no kino); let her touch you (a sure sign of high IL), Resist spilling out your guts to her (let her dredge the information out of you over time). The less she knows about you, the better since she relishes a man of mystery. Women are born detectives; they love to wriggle the information out of a man. Allow her to do it in stages.
At the end of the first date, go for the "Smooch Test" to again test her IL If she turns her cheek away, she's a professional dater who dated you because she would rather be out with you than to stay home and watch TV or she's an attention who*e whose boyfriend was out of town and she needed to be entertained by you. The Smooch Test will save you a lot of time and money.
For the first few dates, don't plan dates for a Friday or a Saturday. If she asks you "How come we don't go out on a weekend evening?", she really likes you. Let her say "I love you" first. To keep a woman's IL high, practice Romance, Affection and Respect on her.
Don't be like other guys who are always talking about sex on the first date. Let her broach the topic. You're a stranger to her and you're talking about something so personal and private so quickly? (I KNOW SOME OF YOU DUDES WOULD DISAGREE WITH DOC LOVE ON THIS TOPIC.)
He teaches to NEXT a girl who just broke a date. That was disrespectful of her. Don't rationalize why she did it. She did it and that's the Bottom Line. Women with high IL do not break dates. Girls who like you alot make it easy on you. They'll keep dates and they'll show their high interest but touching you alot, by smiling, by laughing at your jokes, by offering to pay for the meal from time to time, by giving you massages, by offering to cook dinner. If they can't make it for a date, they'll counteroffer.
Doc Love says that the first 60 days are the most important since 90% of the time, she'll dump the dude. If you do things right by being a challenge, by the end of 60 days, she'll find reasons to keep you since she's invested so much time in you and you've kept her IL sky high.
Doc Love's System is passive not proactive. Most guys tell the girl right off the bat that she's beautiful, that he likes her alot, gives her flowers and takes her to fancy restaurants. Doc Love says "No gifts for the first 60 days and thereafter a small trinket after she said "I love you and will you marry me?"
Doc Love's System is such that it takes away the rejection card from the gal and places it in the hand of the man.
