sparky0000 said:
and you are proud of that?
Never really thought of being proud about it, it's just what happened. Both of these women were really just glorified FBs for me. I actually learned quite a bit about how women age, their sexually marketability as they age and this phase of a woman's maturity with respect to what's been conditioned in them from these women - and I got laid quite a bit while I doing so too. Both of them met my physical standards and I wanted to try it out with an older woman.
I also found out that hitting it with older women was almost too easy since the imperative for older women (particularly divorced ones) is to affirm themselves and their waning sexual marketability after their mid 30s. And nothing gives them more affirmation than a 22 y.o., muscular guy to show off to their also aging girlfriends and their overweight ex-husbands while getting sexual gratification too.
As I said this makes it too easy for guys just coming into their own with women and it kind of gives them a false sense of desirability. The ease of approach and the degree of success young guys have with older women rarely translates to women their own age since they have completely different priorities for the criteria a man needs to get her intimacy. This then leads guys to "prefering" older women because they're easier and the fear of rejection is marginalized, when what they need to do is learn to approach and close with all kinds of women, younger, older or their own age. All that's not to discourage a guy from hitting it with an older woman, just a warning not to let yourself become too wrapped up in the ease of it all.