How often to call?

[Wolve]

Told this girl we were gonna hang out this weekend in school on friday. So I called her last night, but no answer. I figured whatever, but should I call her up tonight too? Seems kind of desperate.

 

[penkitten]

its ok to call her again , its not desperate.

what is desperate is when people get carried away with it.

have you ever seen that commercial for that movie where the guy gets the chicks phone number and goes immediately to the pay phone to call her. well shes not home from being out yet, and heck he just met her an hour ago. he proceeds to leave a message to ask her out for a date or meet up. he gets cut off. what does he do? yes, he calls back.
he continues to keep calling back until there are a dozen messages.
then he feels that she is avoiding him and truth be known, she isnt home yet.
so he is still at this payphone calling her, and now he is upset thinking she is playing him and he starts leaving messages like " i dont think its going to work out "


that was a great example of being extreme or being desperate. dont do that ! haha

 

[True Wolf]

How often to call? How ever often you want. If you get called desperate, then you just got some free education.