falconslax89
Senior Don Juan
ok so her is question i have been pondering over recently..i know this is long but i just wanted to give details..
now usually i have found the more you act indifferent toward a girl the more attracted to you she will become, granted there was initial attraction in the first place. as in dont answer their pointless "whats up/im bored" texts. act busy even if your not. etc...my question is how do you know how much indifference to show but not come off as not being interested. i would think eventually would girls get tired of it?
case in point i met this real cute girl at the movies the other day. id say maybe a 7, heres a pic.
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...rrent=29758_1291916694193_1118541011_3072.jpg
so anyway i went to the movies with my two friends the other day, a guy and a girl. i saw her working there and thought she looked familiar. i asked her her name and told her i remembered her from somewhere when she told me she had been to my house with her ex boyfriend, a friend of mine but not too good of one. she informed me they broke up and told me some lame story..then our movie started so we went inside.
i came out to go to the bathroom a while into the movie. she was standing behind the ticket counter so i went to talk to her. as soon as she saw me across the room she smiled and said something to me.
i came over to her and told her that we should hang out soon now that she is single and she agreed. we made small talk for awhile and then i told her to put her number in my phone. i left by telling her we would make her ex boyfriend "jealous" while smiling and she did the same.
so i wait maybe 4 days then text her to hang out that night but she is closing and says we should another night. i tried to use texting to my advantage by telling her i liked her movie theater outfit on her. she said she looked nerdy in it and i told her nerds are sexy. she replied with "yea you are.."
so...
she texts me a few nights later at like 2 am telling me to come to some party shes at and to pick her up. i ask her where and she tells me its about 20 min from my house. its late and im not about to let her use me as a taxi service so i dont reply.
she texts me two days later at midnight telling me shes going to another party. i was at UofA a few hours away but tell her we can hang when i get back if shes lucky.
so three hours later she texts me "wanna fuvk," i dont reply. the next morning she texts me "omg im so sorry for that last text." i dont reply.
two days after this i run into her at a party. she is pretty intoxicated, im buzzing. we go on the back deck to smoke and im hoping for a little action but it was filled with people. we go back in and i end up losing her at the party, not that i really cared. so once again around 3am she begins texting me to take her home. i have already left the party and am on my way home so i ignore her. (she lives atleast 30 min away..screw that)i tell her she can stay with me, but am then informed she doesnt want to leave her friend alone.
about 30 min later she texts me "i wanted fucj..." and i say "not bad enough." she says "oh yes huh, i just love my friends more." i respond "they can join!" she says " im not like that." i dont respond.... she texts "guess you are huh." i dont respond.
so the next night she once again tells me to come get her at like 3 am, this time like 40 min away. i tell her i have school in the morning and she apologizes for bothering me...she continues to send me one or 2 apologetic texts and says its probably better i didnt come anyway. i dont respond. this way like 2 nights ago.
so what do is your guys take on this...you might be saying "why the **** havent you nailed this girl yet.." well for one she always texts me late as hell. also she usually expects me to drive some ungodly distance, so im not sure if shes just trying to use me for that(obviously not working) and unless im guaranteed ***** im not doing it. do you think eventually she will think i am not interested or is this exactly what i should be doing here...one of these nights should i just go give it a shot at 4 am? another problem is im at home with my parents for the summer..hard place to bang a girl.
any input appreciated...thanks guys!!!
now usually i have found the more you act indifferent toward a girl the more attracted to you she will become, granted there was initial attraction in the first place. as in dont answer their pointless "whats up/im bored" texts. act busy even if your not. etc...my question is how do you know how much indifference to show but not come off as not being interested. i would think eventually would girls get tired of it?
case in point i met this real cute girl at the movies the other day. id say maybe a 7, heres a pic.
http://s91.photobucket.com/albums/k...rrent=29758_1291916694193_1118541011_3072.jpg
so anyway i went to the movies with my two friends the other day, a guy and a girl. i saw her working there and thought she looked familiar. i asked her her name and told her i remembered her from somewhere when she told me she had been to my house with her ex boyfriend, a friend of mine but not too good of one. she informed me they broke up and told me some lame story..then our movie started so we went inside.
i came out to go to the bathroom a while into the movie. she was standing behind the ticket counter so i went to talk to her. as soon as she saw me across the room she smiled and said something to me.
i came over to her and told her that we should hang out soon now that she is single and she agreed. we made small talk for awhile and then i told her to put her number in my phone. i left by telling her we would make her ex boyfriend "jealous" while smiling and she did the same.
so i wait maybe 4 days then text her to hang out that night but she is closing and says we should another night. i tried to use texting to my advantage by telling her i liked her movie theater outfit on her. she said she looked nerdy in it and i told her nerds are sexy. she replied with "yea you are.."
so...
she texts me a few nights later at like 2 am telling me to come to some party shes at and to pick her up. i ask her where and she tells me its about 20 min from my house. its late and im not about to let her use me as a taxi service so i dont reply.
she texts me two days later at midnight telling me shes going to another party. i was at UofA a few hours away but tell her we can hang when i get back if shes lucky.
so three hours later she texts me "wanna fuvk," i dont reply. the next morning she texts me "omg im so sorry for that last text." i dont reply.
two days after this i run into her at a party. she is pretty intoxicated, im buzzing. we go on the back deck to smoke and im hoping for a little action but it was filled with people. we go back in and i end up losing her at the party, not that i really cared. so once again around 3am she begins texting me to take her home. i have already left the party and am on my way home so i ignore her. (she lives atleast 30 min away..screw that)i tell her she can stay with me, but am then informed she doesnt want to leave her friend alone.
about 30 min later she texts me "i wanted fucj..." and i say "not bad enough." she says "oh yes huh, i just love my friends more." i respond "they can join!" she says " im not like that." i dont respond.... she texts "guess you are huh." i dont respond.
so the next night she once again tells me to come get her at like 3 am, this time like 40 min away. i tell her i have school in the morning and she apologizes for bothering me...she continues to send me one or 2 apologetic texts and says its probably better i didnt come anyway. i dont respond. this way like 2 nights ago.
so what do is your guys take on this...you might be saying "why the **** havent you nailed this girl yet.." well for one she always texts me late as hell. also she usually expects me to drive some ungodly distance, so im not sure if shes just trying to use me for that(obviously not working) and unless im guaranteed ***** im not doing it. do you think eventually she will think i am not interested or is this exactly what i should be doing here...one of these nights should i just go give it a shot at 4 am? another problem is im at home with my parents for the summer..hard place to bang a girl.
any input appreciated...thanks guys!!!
