I know part of this post would probably make some of you laugh. So, as is expected... at 33 years old I'm getting a lot of pressure from my parents to start thinking about getting married. Not that I've been evading the issue...I just haven't yet stumbled across someone with whom I think I felt sufficient chemistry with in order to make such an important decision and it's not a race, nor am I attempting to compete with anyone. Some people find potential wives sooner than others. In my home country where I have currently been working on a contractual basis now for almost 4 years, it's a very big deal if a man isn't married by my age and people start proposing/suggesting potential mates.
My question is to those of you who are currently married, thinking about getting married at some point soon or who just have marriage in your minds as an eventual future plan...how much of a role did (or would) physical attraction play in terms of the selection of your mate or future mate? I know it's often said that equal consideration should be given to character and intellectual ability but for me personally, if marriage is a lifetime commitment, I'd want to settle with someone that I feel very attracted to physically, so that I don't later regret my choice and end up feeling tempted to cheat on my spouse.
To me, physical attraction (irrespective of race) means a woman with wide hips and a big, curvy booty/phat ass. Especially the kind of ass that shakes when she walks and whom you could guess must have a big booty just by looking at her from the front in terms of the wideness of her hips. I was driving in really heavy traffic here about a year ago and to this day I deeply regret this lost opportunity. I saw a woman walking toward me who fit the description I have just mentioned to a "t." But with no way to pull over and in the hastyness of the motorists behind me, I couldn't catch up with her. I almost hit the car in front of me in distraction. The unfortunate thing though is that a lot of women who fit this description, probably aware of what they have...aren't always the best role models in terms of conduct/attitude. Finding a level headed woman who fits such a description is often rare.
And oh my...it's amazing what today's younger women do. I met one about a month and a half ago over here who told me she's 22 years of age. Indeed she looked much younger than me facially. She confided in me that she almost got married to a man four years older than myself (that is, 37 years old). Yet she looks relatively innocent. She's relatively skinny but her ass is something else-she's guitar shaped. I met her in a club and she had jeans on. She had a very unique apple bottom thatI found extremely hard to resist. I just couldn't afford to let her go. I need a woman with the phattest ass imaginable.
My question is to those of you who are currently married, thinking about getting married at some point soon or who just have marriage in your minds as an eventual future plan...how much of a role did (or would) physical attraction play in terms of the selection of your mate or future mate? I know it's often said that equal consideration should be given to character and intellectual ability but for me personally, if marriage is a lifetime commitment, I'd want to settle with someone that I feel very attracted to physically, so that I don't later regret my choice and end up feeling tempted to cheat on my spouse.
To me, physical attraction (irrespective of race) means a woman with wide hips and a big, curvy booty/phat ass. Especially the kind of ass that shakes when she walks and whom you could guess must have a big booty just by looking at her from the front in terms of the wideness of her hips. I was driving in really heavy traffic here about a year ago and to this day I deeply regret this lost opportunity. I saw a woman walking toward me who fit the description I have just mentioned to a "t." But with no way to pull over and in the hastyness of the motorists behind me, I couldn't catch up with her. I almost hit the car in front of me in distraction. The unfortunate thing though is that a lot of women who fit this description, probably aware of what they have...aren't always the best role models in terms of conduct/attitude. Finding a level headed woman who fits such a description is often rare.
And oh my...it's amazing what today's younger women do. I met one about a month and a half ago over here who told me she's 22 years of age. Indeed she looked much younger than me facially. She confided in me that she almost got married to a man four years older than myself (that is, 37 years old). Yet she looks relatively innocent. She's relatively skinny but her ass is something else-she's guitar shaped. I met her in a club and she had jeans on. She had a very unique apple bottom thatI found extremely hard to resist. I just couldn't afford to let her go. I need a woman with the phattest ass imaginable.
