How much money do you spend on your woman?

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Hello all,

Alot of guys on here talk about how to get the girl and quite frankly I find that to be the easy part... My question to you gentlemen is... How much do you normally spend on going out with your woman? I'm not looking for responses from people who treat woman like recycleable garbage or cheap asses who try to get there woman to pay for everything..
 

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I'm not looking for responses from people who treat woman like recycleable garbage or cheap asses who try to get there woman to pay for everything..

damn !!!! :(




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www.costofsex.com

If you make $2000 per month, you should be getting $100 from the sum calculation.

If you make $4000 per month, you should be spending only $200 per time.

This is a helpful calculator as to tell me if I'm wasting "too much money/time" on the girl.

/please note that costofsex is used for entertainment, but I use it to help me reduce costs/time.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Why the concern with money, is that the only reason she is around? Is it that you are concerned you are spending too much or not enough to keep her around? Why not date women who just enjoy your company no matter how much you spend? There may be a difference between a wh0re and a call girl but but they are both in it for the money, that's what makes a good woman such a catch. She isn't in it for the money.

Here's something else to consider, do you think she worries about how much she spends on YOU??

Just something to think about...
 

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I usually do pay (but if they offer, I have no problem with that) but it's never really that much. I probably wouldn't be interested in someone with extravagant tastes anyway. Let's say 50.00/70.00 for a dinner out, 20.00 for a lunch, 20/30.00 for admission/tickets to something (not major concert obviously). We have fun, and it's not that expensive.
 

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I spend however much I feel like spending, but I don't pay every time either. I brought my girl coffee and lunch at work two times this week, but last weekend, she paid for all my drinks on Saturday night.

It has to be a give and take.

Money is always replaceable.
 

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I don't spend much of anything on a girls anymore.
Maybe that is because most of the girls I'm dating are just not worth much of anything to me. If however, I did find a girl that was amazing I would only spend money as I felt like it and as I felt it was appropriate.

I think that you shouldn't spend your money on a girl until she proves herself to you.

when you do spend money a girl friend it shouldn't cost you anymore than 300 to 400 per year.

birthday gift and a christmas gift and a few small things but that is about it.

if i spent money on all the girls I'm dating i would be broke. A DJ has a list of girls and it shouldn't cost him a cent to maintain that list.

let her buy her own stuff don't blow your money on a hot girl.

I recal going into a clothing store with a hot girl i was dating. You should of seen how nice she was being to me... She almost had me buying something for her. But then I realized that she was full of it. So I told her that I had no intention of buying her anything because she isn't my girl friend.

Anyway, my point is don't spend money on a girl unless it is appropriate and you would look like a total jerk if you didn't
 

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Maybe, and I mean MAYBE $70 dollars a month, and I make 6 figures.

I MIGHT take a girl out to eat every once in a while, but I usually go to the movies or go the golf range. I never buy gifts, only on very special occusions, and when I do they are never very expensive.
 

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The quote from a fellow Don Juan that is in my sig. :

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“ You NEVER pay as a supplicative or bargaining measure, though. The reward that she gets for her affection is YOUR affection. The reward she gets for her sex is YOUR sex. The second you start buying her stuff to keep her around, keep her entertained in your presence, etc...you're compensating for not having what it takes to seduce the woman, and that's totally unacceptable. “


nuff said.



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$40 per date, no more than 3 dates and at least half of that should be spent on alcohol. That's $120 per prospective girl. Stick to the 3 strikes rule - If she hasn't put out in 3 dates she wont be. When a woman makes you wait for sex, the sex is never worth the wait. Most times, when you hook up it's an immediate chemical attraction anyway, anything else and you know the girl has an agenda and you aren't first on that priority list. Women love to tell you they have 'rules', so should you. No gifts, no nothing until she meets with YOUR approval, not the other way around.

If you can make it look like you've spent more, all the better, but do not spend more than $40 (on her). That may sound cheap but it's a key to success.
 

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I never spend more than 15$ on a first date. For two reasons, first, it keeps you creative and original trying to meet the 15$ limit. And second you wont have all kinds of dough invested in some B!tch. If she ends up cool then awsome. If she thinks you should have spent more money then she is a gold digger and you dont want her anyway. LOL

You wouldnt make the first monthly payment on a car you were just test driving , would you?
 
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