How many times call girl before give up?

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Girl told me to call her but she doesn't pick up or return my phone call 3 times (I call her only once a day).

What should I do now? Why girl told me to call her but doesn't pick up(she said she has no boyfriend)

Now almost 2 weeks still no response from her.
 

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Once should have been enough. One call, and one text without desperation.

Your attention should be focused on the other chicks you are talking to. You are talking to other chicks at the same time, right?
 

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I sent a text message to a girl after the first date and she didn't respond. Already understood she's not interested. So do you need to get the hint she's not interested.

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When a woman likes you, she will move mountains to see you. Time to cut bait and fish elsewhere.
 

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Atom Smasher said:
When a woman likes you, she will move mountains to see you. Time to cut bait and fish elsewhere.
THIS.

You should never have to chase a woman. When they like you, they make themselves accessible.

Never chase. Never play their game.

You should propose your plans, desires and suggestions to her. If she doesn't go along with them, she doesn't like you and its time to move on. Its really that simple, but most men don't spin enough plates so they get hung up on ONE woman and over-pursue her... which just makes the situation worse.

Typical beta male faggot behavior --> Wanting someone who doesn't want you.

Remember men.. the #1 qualification a woman must have to keep your attention is being FUN to pursue. If you're stressing over someone you JUST MET.. that's a bad start. You really think the situation will improve? :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 

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I was with a plate the other day and this guy kept calling her and texting her and was just being such a chump . He didn't get the hint. If you have to call more than once I wouldn't even bother with her. Take the hint, she isn't interested.

AtomSmasher said:
When a woman likes you, she will move mountains to see you. Time to cut bait and fish elsewhere.
I am finally seeing this to be true. Seriously. This who is really interested in me moves around her study times, her track practices, and personal sh1t to be with me. Anyone who disagrees with this and says it isnt true has never had a woman with high IL ever. This is 100% true.
 

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Scoozii said:
Girl told me to call her but she doesn't pick up or return my phone call 3 times (I call her only once a day).

What should I do now? Why girl told me to call her but doesn't pick up(she said she has no boyfriend)

Now almost 2 weeks still no response from her.
Bradd80 said it best....2 strike rule
 

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Girls like to have guys "sweat" them, or blow up their phones to build up their ego. Sometimes they give their number out to guys they don't like for this very reason. It's all part of the game - forget about her, there are way more in the field
 

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casaanova said:
Girls like to have guys "sweat" them, or blow up their phones to build up their ego. Sometimes they give their number out to guys they don't like for this very reason. It's all part of the game - forget about her, there are way more in the field
This, my friend, is what we call a "lie." It's what guys like to tell themselves so they don't feel like a girl is singling them out purposefully to not talk to them. "It's not that she doesn't want to talk to me - she just treats ALL guys like this to build her ego."

Bullcrap. And, if the girl IS doing it for that reason, you don't want to be dating her in the first place.

As for the original OP: You should only have to call/text a girl ONCE. Real talk: if they like you, they're not going to make you ask them a bunch of times, or act like their phone doesn't work, or give you some excuse about not getting your text or call. If they like you, they'll answer the dang phone or return your dang message and say "yes" to the date.

No, really, it's that simple. Don't make this whole dating thing harder than it needs to be. You call and she picks up to accept date? She likes you. You call and she doesn't pick up or return your call? She's passively aggressively telling you she doesn't like you. Hope this helps!

-Harry Wilmington
 

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Scoozii said:
Why girl told me to call her but doesn't pick up(she said she has no boyfriend)

Now almost 2 weeks still no response from her.
Attention *****. She gets off having multiple guys that she has no interest in calling/texting her. For these women male attention is like a drug they can't get enough of.

I call once and leave ONE message. If she doesn't call back then I leave it at that.
 

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Yes call her only once and leave a message. Don't waste your emotional energy or your time. Girls do whatever they feel in the moment, so sometimes they give out their number. If Tom Cruise called do you think he would get 3 times no response. Your just as valuable as any so called star, act like it. One call is doing her a favor. Focus on other girls.
 

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Another vote goes in for the two strike rule. Anything more, and ain't nobody got time fo dat.
 

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It would be easier if girls just told you they aren't interested instead of being massive b1tches and ignoring your phone calls as if their vaginas are worth a million dollars. It's all part of the manipulation game.
 

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LMFAO said:
It would be easier if girls just told you they aren't interested instead of being massive b1tches and ignoring your phone calls as if their vaginas are worth a million dollars. It's all part of the manipulation game.

girls who let guys know they arent interested whether by telling them in person or by not answering their messages or being very cold and direct about it i LOVE these girls!

i agree i wish girls were like this. then us guys can move on to girls who are interested and not waste either parties time.
the girls who are like this i want to send u a message saying thank you!!!
 

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Agreed. It's the ones that string you along, reply to your texts, etc but still have no intention of going out. In my opinion, those hoes are the worst ones out there.

lamobatsman said:
girls who let guys know they arent interested whether by telling them in person or by not answering their messages or being very cold and direct about it i LOVE these girls!

i agree i wish girls were like this. then us guys can move on to girls who are interested and not waste either parties time.
the girls who are like this i want to send u a message saying thank you!!!
 

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i wouldnt mind them ignoring my phone calls! that wud be a clear indication for me also! as long as they dont lead me on!!!
 

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Women who are interested in you won't confuse you.

Drop her ass for she is an attention wh0re and is not interested in your sorry ass. Your princess is in another castle, so move the hell on and spin more plates. Those are the facts.

Get equipped.
 

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