casaanova said:
Girls like to have guys "sweat" them, or blow up their phones to build up their ego. Sometimes they give their number out to guys they don't like for this very reason. It's all part of the game - forget about her, there are way more in the field
This, my friend, is what we call a "lie." It's what guys like to tell themselves so they don't feel like a girl is singling them out purposefully to not talk to them. "It's not that she doesn't want to talk to me - she just treats ALL guys like this to build her ego."
Bullcrap. And, if the girl IS doing it for that reason, you don't want to be dating her in the first place.
As for the original OP: You should only have to call/text a girl ONCE. Real talk: if they like you, they're not going to make you ask them a bunch of times, or act like their phone doesn't work, or give you some excuse about not getting your text or call. If they like you, they'll answer the dang phone or return your dang message and say "yes" to the date.
No, really, it's that simple. Don't make this whole dating thing harder than it needs to be. You call and she picks up to accept date? She likes you. You call and she doesn't pick up or return your call? She's passively aggressively telling you she doesn't like you. Hope this helps!
-Harry Wilmington