How many of you are in TOTAL control?

[Naughty Ninja]

How many of you are in TOTAL control over a woman? My guess is NONE of you.

And how many of you want to be in total control over a woman?

IF you desire or are in total control you'll have ZERO respect for that person.

 

[handle]

Why would I want total control?

 

[Naughty Ninja]

Why would I want total control?

It seems most people on here are looking for a girl to be a love slave to them or they'll wilt and die.

No one can be satisfied with TOTAL control over ANYONE. People need a challenge. Too many people on this site are ALWAYS looking for the upper hand.

I believe you gain it when you stop worrying about the PUA DJ ninja bullsh!t tactics and stay immune to any of the crap.

Do you. Strive to better YOU. And not worry about all this nonsense.

You remain non-chalant, care free, and strive to improve yourself. People will wonder and it will draw them to you.

Even IF they are after you at that point. You need to not revert to trying to please others or control them. It makes you come off as not trying, and not caring and people start to crave you as a challenge.

 

[allbeef]

This is some seriously deep s---. This is John Kreese style serious s---. Making me think way too much at this or any hour.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8lUt0Ile00
Watch this for inspiration and truth. True Ninja skills. Remember, all of life pertains to the DJ and the DJ pertains to all of life.

 

[runner83]

It seems most people on here are looking for a girl to be a love slave to them or they'll wilt and die.

No one can be satisfied with TOTAL control over ANYONE. People need a challenge. Too many people on this site are ALWAYS looking for the upper hand.

I believe you gain it when you stop worrying about the PUA DJ ninja bullsh!t tactics and stay immune to any of the crap.

Do you. Strive to better YOU. And not worry about all this nonsense.

You remain non-chalant, care free, and strive to improve yourself. People will wonder and it will draw them to you.

Even IF they are after you at that point. You need to not revert to trying to please others or control them. It makes you come off as not trying, and not caring and people start to crave you as a challenge.

And the best way to do this is to....

.... SPIN MORE PLATES...

....that way you don't care so much about any one particular girl since you know you have options, and as a result, you are more likely to be laid back and not try to control her.

 

[betheman]

I think most on here are after more control over their own dstiny with women rather than direct control over women.

there will be the odd psychopath who seeks to control and destroy a woman as there will be women who do the same

 

[Atom Smasher]

I'm personally here not to exert control over women, but rather to develop influence with them.

Also, we men find ourselves in a very unique period of time, where male/female relations are topsy-turvy due to contrived social experiments. I want to be a part of the wave of men who are going to help educate society (verbally and through demonstration) about how far afield we have become and about how to get back to the natural order.

But I don't think many of us here desire to control women. It's all about developing infuence, the very infuence that the media has taken away from us for the past few decades.

 

[bukowski_merit]

I've had what i would consider total control over two different women.

Both times it was an extremely BORING relationship (except for the sex part.) And my attraction for them seemed to die pretty quick.

And both times the women became obsessive with me after i put distance between us.

Just my experience....

 

[RedZone]

A relationship should be based on respect not on total control.

 

[JLW]

You don't have control over anyone or anything....except control over your own actions maybe.

 

[NoCommitments]

I had the misfortune of having a beautiful (much younger) girl obsessed & undeniably controlled by me..I didn't love her & wouldn't realize that till yrs later when she decided to to break up...& believe it or not I was distraught...Why??? Loss of Control
You see I'm known by all my friends as the DJ so control was always my friend. But this was different. Now I was with someone who was madly in love with me...control didn't seem so enticing to me anymore & feelings were hurt
So in sumary yes I was & can be in total control over a woman. I have that ability. BUT...take it from experience ,it is Never good to think about people/women as controlling entities. This whole gaming lifestyle is about having fun. Everyone having fun Not just controlling someone. A true DJ is thanked not regretted!!

 

[Alle_Gory]

There's no such thing as total control.

 

[Energy25]

It seems most people on here are looking for a girl to be a love slave to them or they'll wilt and die.

No one can be satisfied with TOTAL control over ANYONE. People need a challenge. Too many people on this site are ALWAYS looking for the upper hand.

I believe you gain it when you stop worrying about the PUA DJ ninja bullsh!t tactics and stay immune to any of the crap.

Do you. Strive to better YOU. And not worry about all this nonsense.

You remain non-chalant, care free, and strive to improve yourself. People will wonder and it will draw them to you.

Even IF they are after you at that point. You need to not revert to trying to please others or control them. It makes you come off as not trying, and not caring and people start to crave you as a challenge.

Great post. This is so true. People on here get too caught up in all this BS...Just have fun and be you and improve yourself wherever possible. People will come to you.

 

[Huffman]

Yeah. Everytime I had too much control I got bored and broke up with them... life is unfair

 

[Warrior74]

You don't have control over anyone or anything....except control over your own actions maybe.

Ding we have a winner. You cannot even control your body. If you develop cancer or a disease, you cannot control that. The only control any man has in this world is own actions. That's it. Turn right/turn left. Be nice, be a prick. Eat now, eat later. Take this job, quit this job. Screw her, dump her. Only your actions are under your complete and total control. People who crave control over others find their world crumbling at some point.

Why do pimps have to slap hoes? If they had them under complete control, that wouldn't have to happen right? She would be a automaton right? But she's not and thus not under complete control. All external control is illusion.

 

[Naughty Ninja]

At least we have normal posters who realize you cannot totally control others actions or be in total control

All you can do is be the best person you can be. If someone is interested, their actions will speak. If not, move on and try again with someone else.

There are no foolproof tactics in life. Accept the fact, learn from your mistakes or others and move foward.

Anyone who thinks they will always have the upper hand is delusional and if they did would quickly become bored.

 

[NoCommitments]

All very excellent points guys!!!

The only thing I dont agree with whole heartedly is the idea that people can't, in some fashion or another, be controlled. Webster's definition of control is: to exercise restraining or directing influence over
Dont think I'm defending it in anway & I do feel it's immoral in every way, but there are obsessive women(& men) out here that do fall into that 'controlled' category. They, themselves, sink into relationships where they are "controlled". everything from where to go for dinner to when & where they're having sex is all "controlled" by one person!
Granted I know one's feelings can't be controlled, those are the power of the self, but everything else is 'more comfortable' for them under the influence of ONE person.

I had this relationship for years. It sucked the life out of any happiness, joy & love. I fell into the trap of a girl needing 'daddy' to take care of everything. I controlled every single thing in her life..sorta like an enabler. not helping someone to grow & blossom.

For the nube's tryin to build a gaming strategy for dominance & slavery you're wasting your time!! it always blows up one day

All my girls now are happy & feel like Queens in a castle! Im a gentleman with all of them & no strings attached. Its very rewarding & refreshing

 

[Groovy]

Warning off-topic

You cannot even control your body. If you develop cancer or a disease, you cannot control that.

That isn't true at all, at least that's what I believe. You have 100% control over your health. Sure, sometimes your body is sending you signals, perhaps that is what you "can't control". Of course, if you haven't eaten, your body is going to make hunger, that maybe you can't control... But that isn't worth even to argue imo because it's completely necessary, if you don't have that, you're screwed! It's amazing we can't control these things. Even sometimes anxiety is caused, in my opinion, by a chemical unbalance, it's just a SIGN, in many cases perhaps it is a sign that you must eat something. You're lacking something. Either that, or you're genuinely scared (for example, scared that people won't like you, which obviously you can change, it's your decision to think what you want). This is just what I think, don't ask me for scientific basis, at least now I don't have them, but it seems to make total sense to me. Think about it at least. But there is no discussion if you don't want to be sick, you're not, it's 100% psychological, at least I believe in that and I never got sick anymore. What is more, I believe I'll never be sick again in my life hehe. To me that is not worth discussing even, all diseases are curable by doctors + willpower... ALL... I am sad I even had to to say this. But it's ok, some of you maybe haven't thought about it yet, maybe once you do you'll agree with me!

 

[JustLurk]

Warning off-topic

That isn't true at all, at least that's what I believe. You have 100% control over your health. Sure, sometimes your body is sending you signals, perhaps that is what you "can't control". Of course, if you haven't eaten, your body is going to make hunger, that maybe you can't control... But that isn't worth even to argue imo because it's completely necessary, if you don't have that, you're screwed! It's amazing we can't control these things. Even sometimes anxiety is caused, in my opinion, by a chemical unbalance, it's just a SIGN, in many cases perhaps it is a sign that you must eat something. You're lacking something. Either that, or you're genuinely scared (for example, scared that people won't like you, which obviously you can change, it's your decision to think what you want). This is just what I think, don't ask me for scientific basis, at least now I don't have them, but it seems to make total sense to me. Think about it at least. But there is no discussion if you don't want to be sick, you're not, it's 100% psychological, at least I believe in that and I never got sick anymore. What is more, I believe I'll never be sick again in my life hehe. To me that is not worth discussing even, all diseases are curable by doctors + willpower... ALL... I am sad I even had to to say this. But it's ok, some of you maybe haven't thought about it yet, maybe once you do you'll agree with me!

While I agree that humans have an amazing amount of control over their bodoes, and that willpower can have amazing effects, it is nothing short of insulting to suggest the millions of people dying of various diseases just have to get the right doctor and "will" it away. I'm not saying it's not possible but I am saying that it is, if true, at the very least tragic.

 

[handle]

Total control sucks, that should be obvious. Who wants a minion as a partner?