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How many girls want to "Sow their oats"?

Groverz

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Been thinking about this for a bit with my ex. Wondering if part of why she dumped me is she wants to "sow her oats" and go out and have fun. She never seemed like a girl that would do that but she does live with someone who basicly slept her way through Europe and talks about it literately daily. She is not like that anymore but it seems like someone just need to get it out of their system.

Honestly that does not really bother me much, she is 28, if that's what she needs to do to learn who she is or more about herself fine with me.

She never had the college experience like some people, and neither did I but I never needed to.
 

CrimsonPanther

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she dumped you because she isn't attracted to you. whatever the reason, forget her and find someone better:)
 

Darth_Qurashi

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Dude don't even worry about that **** man. From experience I've had answers to questions like that before and it turns out the answer doesn't even matter. It makes no difference to you. If anything it just holds you back because of all the time you waste by dwelling on something in the past.
 

pdx1138

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Would she want to sow oats if she was living with Brad Pitt?

Fvck no!

"sowing oats" = not interested in you.
 

DragonBlood

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Is this a joke?

I would have already lost most of my interest in the woman ANYWAY even if that was the reason. Sure, maybe being more fun would have stretched things out but the result would have been the same.

She wasnt really that into you if she just dropped you out of the blue. Find someone better.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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