you need to talk to a woman as soon as you see her. when you hesitate and loiter around and come back to her it's just too weird. she will think this guy is not masculine. if I am too nervous one day to talk to a woman and I see her the next day and I am not nervous anymore, will her brain still categorize me as that guy who couldn't talk to me the first time? how long does it take her brain to reset? one hour? one day? one month?
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how long does it take a woman's brain to reset?
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There is a reason why they say you only get 1 change to make the 1st impression.
There is also a reason hypergamy is at epic heights nowedays. Because women will be quick to dismiss a dude. As we know now, this can happen in both the early and the later stages of dating ,courting or whatever you call it. Women are raw creatures without a " subtlety filter ". So if you are awkward than that's just what you are. If you pick yourself up and game her right, kudos to you.
That being said, I think Alan Wats came up with the great quote: you are under no obligation to be who you were 5 minutes ago."
its not so much about women resetting their mind, more about you as a man resetting your own mind. I've approached women twice sometimes, making fun of the fact the 1st time didn't went as planned and stiĺl managed to get her number and even fck her. But you just gotta be aware it is kinda lame/ pathetic in a way. Remember, SHE missing out on YOU. You are the prize!
No need to overthink this. At the end of the day every woman you meet will see the product of your past experiences, and you just pick it up from there. Even if her rejection was a part of making you that product. Best example of this is nerdy dude hits gym and gets better career to increase his SMV, and then comes back for a second try.
There is also a reason hypergamy is at epic heights nowedays. Because women will be quick to dismiss a dude. As we know now, this can happen in both the early and the later stages of dating ,courting or whatever you call it. Women are raw creatures without a " subtlety filter ". So if you are awkward than that's just what you are. If you pick yourself up and game her right, kudos to you.
That being said, I think Alan Wats came up with the great quote: you are under no obligation to be who you were 5 minutes ago."
its not so much about women resetting their mind, more about you as a man resetting your own mind. I've approached women twice sometimes, making fun of the fact the 1st time didn't went as planned and stiĺl managed to get her number and even fck her. But you just gotta be aware it is kinda lame/ pathetic in a way. Remember, SHE missing out on YOU. You are the prize!
No need to overthink this. At the end of the day every woman you meet will see the product of your past experiences, and you just pick it up from there. Even if her rejection was a part of making you that product. Best example of this is nerdy dude hits gym and gets better career to increase his SMV, and then comes back for a second try.
Dean Raymond
Don Juan
Women respond to the emotion of the moment to the point where a guy could approach and get rejected but then in the same day approach with more energy and a higher vibe and be accepted,
Attraction is not a logical process it is an emotion that is triggered by your behavior, therefore if you have a hang up or an insecurity what tends to happen is a mental script is played in the mind where you are consciously and unconsciously playing the script out in your head which is then displayed in your behavior.
It is not the actual form of insecurity that is causing the rejection, it is the fact that you believe the insecurity. Being nervous is not the problem its only when you allow the fact that you are nervous to dictate, so if you was to approach the same women with the same belief she would probably reject you not because she remembers that you was nervous before, but because your behavior is the same and not triggering attraction.
Attraction is not a logical process it is an emotion that is triggered by your behavior, therefore if you have a hang up or an insecurity what tends to happen is a mental script is played in the mind where you are consciously and unconsciously playing the script out in your head which is then displayed in your behavior.
It is not the actual form of insecurity that is causing the rejection, it is the fact that you believe the insecurity. Being nervous is not the problem its only when you allow the fact that you are nervous to dictate, so if you was to approach the same women with the same belief she would probably reject you not because she remembers that you was nervous before, but because your behavior is the same and not triggering attraction.