I halfway know the answer to that,but what about someone who feels inexpereinced or behind? Mostly with dating,sex,social things. My problem seems to be,for some reason or another,I either can't talk to girls,whether its approaching/attracting,or just going up and talking to them,or having them miraculolusly coming to you. For someone who feels average,I would have to work twice as hard,yet for feeling as I have been out of things for so long,I feel like I am behind,have alot of catching up to do,and for that reason,that may scare people off,or no one would want to be with me. I do have some symptoms of love shy,which can be read about here,http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Love-shyness, if you haven't already. Or perhaps it is late bloomerness,or lazyness.