in a relationship...how important is it to have a female friend?...i'm not gay but i really don't have any female friends...i usually go out and just skate with guys and just never had time to meet girls...i do have a girlfriend though that is gorgeous as hell from head to toe that i want to keep...i'm just wondering if my not having female friends will somewhat hurt me in the long run.
How important are female friends?
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FatHuntresS
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uh, dont worry about it. thats completely normal, if u meant a female normal friend, then their just like your guy friends, treat them like how u treat your friends, so their equally important. even when a group of guys friend, u have some better guy friends, and closer and u think that they are more important, its the same with the female friend. unless you want to fvck the girl then thats a different game.
Themanthatcan
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Well it doesn't really HURT. But it sure does help alot. Try to make friends w/ everyone. Even the ugly girls. Why? Because ugly girls have friends too. (sometimes really good looking friends....). Using C&F on the ugly girls too will make you seem more interesting, and they'll notice.After that, they'll go run and tell they're friends how cool you are.From that point it's smoothe sailing.
Female friends don't really happen for most guys that are playing their cards right. There are colleagues, and I guess you can be friends with your sister's friends or your male friends' wives,sisters, etc.
Real truth: If a girl's attracted to you, she'll never be your friend. If you won't date her, then she'll either remove herself from the friendship or continue to be your friend until she's found someone else. I've experimented with female friends and this is always the outcome. If she's not attracted to you, rejected you, or she has a bf or another guy to make her feel attractive then she can be your friend.
Real truth: If a girl's attracted to you, she'll never be your friend. If you won't date her, then she'll either remove herself from the friendship or continue to be your friend until she's found someone else. I've experimented with female friends and this is always the outcome. If she's not attracted to you, rejected you, or she has a bf or another guy to make her feel attractive then she can be your friend.
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For an ugly shmuck like me? It can be a good thing. I don't have many, but some of the ones I do have a friendship with, they're beautiful. A lot of my female friends are really cool, in addition...vagrant said:in a relationship...how important is it to have a female friend?...i'm not gay but i really don't have any female friends...i usually go out and just skate with guys and just never had time to meet girls...i do have a girlfriend though that is gorgeous as hell from head to toe that i want to keep...i'm just wondering if my not having female friends will somewhat hurt me in the long run.
Not that I'm searching out hot chicks to be my friend just for the social appearance (far from it, in fact), but having female friends who are attractive CAN be a good thing.
I don't have many female friends because most flake out quickly. But the ones I do make genuine friendships with, they're great people, so I'm not always annoyed with them at the end of the night.
And on occasion, when they feel threatened, who do they flirt with and cling to? I'm the likely guy. I look great having a woman with her arm around mine. She gets to feel protected, and I look like her defender (which I can be). I get to feel manly by being the hero, and I have the beauty with me.
Plus, some of the women know about fashion and things like that, so it's even better. They get to be all girly and make me look great from time to time, (I don't do it more than twice a year.) and I look better as a result.
WC2
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I've seen many posts since I've joined that swear by female friends. I for one don't necessarily agree.
Look, if you have a female who is a friend, fine. But don't go looking for female friends. Women aren't going to like you because you are friends with them, but because you tap into a special part of them that is not a friend.
As far as other women being attracted because you hang out with other women, maybe so. But when the going gets tough, just because you have a lot of girl "friends" around you, doesn't mean you're going to ease into a hookup that much easier. You still have to talk to the girl, and do everything that you had to do before.
Look, if you have a female who is a friend, fine. But don't go looking for female friends. Women aren't going to like you because you are friends with them, but because you tap into a special part of them that is not a friend.
As far as other women being attracted because you hang out with other women, maybe so. But when the going gets tough, just because you have a lot of girl "friends" around you, doesn't mean you're going to ease into a hookup that much easier. You still have to talk to the girl, and do everything that you had to do before.