How I got out the FRIEND ZONE....

Badmannaz

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Well about two days ago would mark the 3rd friend to ****-buddy in the past 6 months...but this one was a little different....about a couple days ago i ended up sleeping with one of my closest best friends and a girl i totally thought i would never get...when dressed to impress she is HB9 and model-like body and great smile...It's been numerous occasions where we fooled around in the past but she would pull the "we are just friends" card...so i asked what's the big difference now? how did i get her standing in front of my bed with just her panties on? well well i always heard them talk about it but never knew it would be true...with just a little knowledge I FOUND OUT IT ALL HAS TO DO WITH CHANCE....

I believe almost every guy can sleep with that hot chick who is the friend for the simple fact it all has to do with maxamizing your chances

1st i had to make the cross over from low to high status male
A. She saw me with other women....always...
before her i had been with other girls and she knew about all of them...we would go to the club and she would see me on alot of girls...many times she would come over and f*ck my game up and now i believe she did it on purpose due to jealosy. i disagreed with anything i didnt believe in when she talked...but i also was the funny person that i naturally am...having a mind and not trying to impress is the KEY for this to work

2nd. We stopped kicking it all the time..and we got in a fight...
B. As i got smarter on the subject i stopped kicking it with her all the time...i stopped calling her...she started calling me..i got pissed at her and i expressed it withought any regards to her feelings...she cried...i apologized...she rejected my apology....4 days later she called me up saying she missed me ;-)...this is when u step out the FRIENDzone to BOYFRIENDzone... guys she has sex with are not her close friend at the moment of intercourse for the simple fact a FRiend is something she knows...there is no mystery...girls have s3x with guys they dont know or feel they dont know but they can feel the power of the unknown within him which gets those panties w3t lol:moon:

Now this is were the water gets hot so before you go doing this you have to be in a state of mind of a high status male which is "I DONT GIVE A f*ck" If she's not disposable and she doesn't feel that way then you have failed at perceiving yourself as better than her...now i actually stumbled on this by complete accident..i was mad and wanted her ..to feel the same way i made her cry...but because we've had so many great times together...when i guy treats a woman like SH*t she then becomes nostalgic (means she starts thinking about when you where a great guy). ANd usually thats what makes a person fall in love...

3rd..when the moment comes...you better be ready...
C.So me and my friends all go out to a party just chillen she txt me asking me were am i going tonight...i told her i was going to this party and she was like me and my friends are going to...lol she wanted to see me...we got there and she gave me a big hug when she saw me...while in the party i didnt really pay attention to her because i was on other girls :up: what she had on had me like turned on big time..but i still had to play it cool...we just so happen to be leaving the party together and i invited her over my crib after the party to just kick it...i was over there with my homie so it took the whole idea of me trying to f*ck her out of her mind...

well basically with that type of combo she basically said "im spending the night" now she's spent the night before but nothing happened...i basically went about it like i had went about it with every other girl before her...but just a little 4play was a must!! you'd be suprised how far you could have went with a chick but the thing u failed to do was turn her on completely...she came really quick i had got minez in too so it was good...

now she said it'll never happen again but then i also heard that before we did it too so..lol

never believe what a girl says...believe what she does...her body wont lie
 

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When a girl and a guy are "just friends" it means :

1. they already Fed and may F again wen she is ready
2. he is waiting to F wen she is ready
3. He is gay/Bi and will still F if she wants to
4. He tried to F and she rejected him many times but may let him F her someday so he is her friend..

MALES AND FEMALES WERE NOT DESIGNED TO BE "JUST FRIENDS" one person always wants to F the other or both do... You woman will have males friends and she will F them from time to time and there is nothing you can do about it ... except make sure you have some female friends to F from time to time..

Womens' logic is "what you don't know , did not happen"
 

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maaan i love this site. big help all the time. im gonna go piss off a couple chicks i know rite now!
 

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When I first saw the title of this thread,I think I almost jumped out of my chair. I was like,"Yes! Somebody finally found a way out of the friendzone!" But after actually reading it,imo,he didn't get out of the friendzone with this girl. In fact,he wasn't ever in it with her. Yeah,I agree with the tips he gave on being seen with other women,and even the getting into a fight is a good move because it stirs up her emotions. However,the part that dashed my hopes is when he said that the girl was someone with whom "on numerous occasions in the past he fooled around with". To me,that's not friendzone. All he did was rekindle a spark he had with some girl in the past.

The kind of friendzone I'm talking about is when you like a girl,hang around her a lot and spend a lot of time talking to her about whatever,then after doing that for a couple of months,then you ask her out and she pulls the LJBF card. When you've spent a lot of time around her and have never revealed your true interest,so she only sees the platonic/nonsexual side of you. Then,when you finally show your romantic,she has the "eww" response because the thought of sex with you had never even crossed her mind,because she see you as a brother. That's the kind of friendzone I mean.
If you can find a way out of that,hey,you're the man.

Sleeping with some girl that you've already fooled around with a long time ago,that's not the same thing. Seems to me all you did was reheat an old flame.
 

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This sounds similar to an experience of mine......

This girl was interesting. She was my friends girlfriends friend. Met her and the first night was making out on the streets. I texted her etc etc but eventually got bored (and fooled around a few times). Like 5 months later I was at my friends girlfriend's 18th at the pub. I saw this girl I had fooled around with but rather through master DJ skills, I simply ignored her because I was scared of talking to girls I had rejected. Literally ten minutes before the end of the party (after rampant alcohol abuse) she jumped on me and started making out. Ten minutes later I found myself in a room with her, with her asking if I had protection. I simply ignored her and talked to different girls. This prompted her to want me, a way in which she hadn't wanted me before (possibly leading to my rejection of her a few months before lol). I think the message here is simple. My experience and the OP have one striking similarity, both girls had already placed the aforementioned men in the 'banging-zone' on first encounters.
 

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Igetit! said:
When I first saw the title of this thread,I think I almost jumped out of my chair. I was like,"Yes! Somebody finally found a way out of the friendzone!" But after actually reading it,imo,he didn't get out of the friendzone with this girl. In fact,he wasn't ever in it with her.
Yup I had a similar reaction and I was ultimately disappointed. Badmannaz doesn't even seem to be the kind of guy to fall into the friendzone.
The kind of friendzone I'm talking about is when you like a girl,hang around her a lot and spend a lot of time talking to her about whatever,then after doing that for a couple of months,then you ask her out and she pulls the LJBF card. When you've spent a lot of time around her and have never revealed your true interest,so she only sees the platonic/nonsexual side of you. Then,when you finally show your romantic,she has the "eww" response because the thought of sex with you had never even crossed her mind,because she see you as a brother. That's the kind of friendzone I mean.
If you can find a way out of that,hey,you're the man.
You mean pull a Maxtro®? :p

Getting out of that type of friendzone is a real accomplishment.

Heck if I ever have sex with that black girl, the next thing I'd do is climb up my roof and jump off because I know I can fly. I might as well turn blue and walk around nude.
 

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Well I'm officially out of the freindzone. Too bad she holds me in lower regard than to people she doesn't even know.

So when you try to get out of the friendzone, make sure she doesn't dislike you.
 

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DonGorgon said:
When a girl and a guy are "just friends" it means :

1. they already Fed and may F again wen she is ready
2. he is waiting to F wen she is ready
3. He is gay/Bi and will still F if she wants to
4. He tried to F and she rejected him many times but may let him F her someday so he is her friend..

MALES AND FEMALES WERE NOT DESIGNED TO BE "JUST FRIENDS" one person always wants to F the other or both do... You woman will have males friends and she will F them from time to time and there is nothing you can do about it ... except make sure you have some female friends to F from time to time..

Womens' logic is "what you don't know , did not happen"
Yeah so this is a fact. Women sure don't mind having guy friends since it's just additional ego boosts for them. Usually it's guys that are bit*h like that don't mind being friends in hopes of getting into their pants.
 

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GuanYu said:
Usually it's guys that are bit*h like that don't mind being friends in hopes of getting into their pants.
Yup, that's a 100% fact. Also those guys fail 99% of the time. Every once in a while a guy may get lucky but it's such a small occurrence.
 

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Heck if I ever have sex with that black girl, the next thing I'd do is climb up my roof and jump off because I know I can fly. I might as well turn blue and walk around nude
:crackup: dr mahnhattan classic joke
 

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good job bro!
ive been learning so much recently, and applying some things to damage control.
thanks for posting
 

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DonGorgon said:
When a girl and a guy are "just friends" it means :

1. they already Fed and may F again wen she is ready
2. he is waiting to F wen she is ready
3. He is gay/Bi and will still F if she wants to
4. He tried to F and she rejected him many times but may let him F her someday so he is her friend..

MALES AND FEMALES WERE NOT DESIGNED TO BE "JUST FRIENDS" one person always wants to F the other or both do... You woman will have males friends and she will F them from time to time and there is nothing you can do about it ... except make sure you have some female friends to F from time to time..

Womens' logic is "what you don't know , did not happen"
well for the most part this is true but I have friendships with girls that don't fall into one of these. Though in those cases one of us just wasn't available when we met.
 

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Igetit! said:
When I first saw the title of this thread,I think I almost jumped out of my chair. I was like,"Yes! Somebody finally found a way out of the friendzone!" But after actually reading it,imo,he didn't get out of the friendzone with this girl. In fact,he wasn't ever in it with her. Yeah,I agree with the tips he gave on being seen with other women,and even the getting into a fight is a good move because it stirs up her emotions. However,the part that dashed my hopes is when he said that the girl was someone with whom "on numerous occasions in the past he fooled around with". To me,that's not friendzone. All he did was rekindle a spark he had with some girl in the past.

The kind of friendzone I'm talking about is when you like a girl,hang around her a lot and spend a lot of time talking to her about whatever,then after doing that for a couple of months,then you ask her out and she pulls the LJBF card. When you've spent a lot of time around her and have never revealed your true interest,so she only sees the platonic/nonsexual side QUOTE]
Igetit! said:
lol it's funny you say that...i knew her for over a year...and i've never kissed her....i've been LJBf'd so many times but because of my looks and personality idk i got lucky..lol who am i kidding i seduced her ;-)!!



well since the do happened i basically haven't spoken to her.. i txt her once the day after then called the day after that and still no response so GUYS you can't have both..you can't excpect to be a her Buddy buddy and f:up: ck her...i've found out guys they f*ck are not close friends...there the guys they don't know that well (if that makes any sense) or atleast a mystery...so after the sex is done please be ready for...

1.excpect to lose a friend (its gonna get rocky lol)
2.expect for her not to hang with you all the time
3.expect her to be different around you (nervous)

but yea idk what your saying but i was definatley friendzoned before and after but i've reached zero tolerance...you gotta ask yourself when u meet a girl... "do i wanna SCR*W or do i WANT A SISTER" and we all know you dont need a sister...especially if you already got one..lol you can't be a FRIEND if your scr*wing her... it doesn't make sense..but that's how it goes

i dont plan on calling her back i said f*ck it....i dont have time to wait on no female...seriously i would love to have a relationship but you gotta play the girls who wanna play...and i would break a heart if i got into a relationship because it would be a about the relationship and not her at all...call me an a$$hole but that's how it goes...its not a pretty life...your pretty much alone...but you do get PVssy...so if you like the girls attention more than you think the pVssy would be dont do it..if you really wanna F*ck her then go ahead...most likely i ruined my friendship lmao!! but i just dont care anymore...happy sarging!!
 
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