Back in highschool, one could say, I was at the botom of the social heirarchy. I was nothing like what I am now. I see that as a learning experience to understand the "heirarchy". I used to always try to be like the "cool kids" and the harder I tried the lower I sank. As soon as I was fed up with the heirarchy, stopped dressing, acting like the cool kids, and started going to school in my pajamas and hair messed up, I started becoming popular. I realized this, followers follow the alpha male. The alpha male is brave. Opposite of bravery is not cowardism... in our society, the opposite of bravery is conformity. I became poplular because I chose not to conform. Through dumb luck, I found a formula that had the potential of giving me status. But is the status all we need? There are so much more than just that. For example, the mind set. I believe that to be the most important key. Act as if, and so you shall become. Do you know how in high school, there is this guy that says he could get any girl he wants... and what pisses you off is that he really can? And to make it worse, hes not all that great looking!!!! Why? Its the MIND SET! Act as if... you're the man, and you will become the man. Be forwarned, you will get haters. I have some people that hate, but I know this, I'm better than they are, I have what they want, I can do things they cant, and hell, I make more money than them and probably their parents combined! Let them hate, it only makes me more alluring to the ladies. The mind set is something that I discovered back in college. If I knew all this in high school, I would have ran havock with the ladies across the entire campus. So if I come accross being ****y, offensive, or seem to be stepping on toes. Its because I was once the laughing stock of the school, but changed. I know that it can be done, and that its not even hard. All I have to say is if you all want it, grow some balls and take it.
Recap, dont be like the cool kids, thats what everyone is trying to do. By doing so, you become casual. If you are casual, you become a casualty. Be different.... be yourself.
Act as if. Dont be fake about it though. If you believe it, and truely want it. It has to happen in your mind before it happens in life.... not the other way around. People say, I'm a player when I am able to play the ladies. If that is your mindset, you will never have it. A champion boxer is not made in the ring, he is made in the locker room and in the gym. In the ring is where he proves it, and that is all.
This is something that I have realized and come to unerstand. It would have worked for me in high school, but it was not appearant to me untill much later.
Just to let you have a slight understanding of my character. I dress in all designer names. Versace, Armani, Ferrigamo, Gucci. I drive a sport compact show car and bump classical music. The best comparison to me would be Sebastian from the movie "Cruel Intentions". When I went to college, I went in a suit sometimes, but worn casually, or even a formal over coat. Obviously that is far from becoming a casualty. If you're going to try something crazy, you have to pull it off. How do you pull it off? The most important person in your life of a player must accept it first.... YOU.
Recap, dont be like the cool kids, thats what everyone is trying to do. By doing so, you become casual. If you are casual, you become a casualty. Be different.... be yourself.
Act as if. Dont be fake about it though. If you believe it, and truely want it. It has to happen in your mind before it happens in life.... not the other way around. People say, I'm a player when I am able to play the ladies. If that is your mindset, you will never have it. A champion boxer is not made in the ring, he is made in the locker room and in the gym. In the ring is where he proves it, and that is all.
This is something that I have realized and come to unerstand. It would have worked for me in high school, but it was not appearant to me untill much later.
Just to let you have a slight understanding of my character. I dress in all designer names. Versace, Armani, Ferrigamo, Gucci. I drive a sport compact show car and bump classical music. The best comparison to me would be Sebastian from the movie "Cruel Intentions". When I went to college, I went in a suit sometimes, but worn casually, or even a formal over coat. Obviously that is far from becoming a casualty. If you're going to try something crazy, you have to pull it off. How do you pull it off? The most important person in your life of a player must accept it first.... YOU.
