How far in advance should you schedule a date?

GreatHornedOwl

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I asked this plate I was spinning last Saturday afternoon if she was in the mood for drinks later. She told me she was busy. Do you think it's always a good idea to give a couple days notice?
 

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How are you meeting these women?

Most women who are not your primary girlfriend won't agree to same day dates. They feel that disrespects their time and they also want to appear busy, even if they are sitting at home making TikTok or Instagram videos.

With newer women, I've tried to schedule 2-3 days out in the future with my initial date offer.
 

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If you want to increase the chances of her being available, yeah. Nothing wrong with asking for the same day, but do have realistic expectations. You should ask in advance especially if it's for a Friday or Saturday, most people make plans in advance for those days.
 

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Well for drinks yeah, like if your gonna invite her over for an hour, ok, but drinks are different
 

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Years. Because I don't do dates. In fact, they'll be asking me at this point. Thanks for the job interview opportunity lady, but no, I got better sh!t going down in my free time.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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Ask her when she’s free to bypass the scheduling/guess game bull shvt. If she’s interested she will let you know
 
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