how does sex affect a relationship

[mrsoy]

i was just wondering if anyone here has any experience with sex
affecting the relationship with your girl positively/negatively.

ive been with this girl for about 2 weeks and she told me shes getting the pill and she wants to have sex. (we're both virgins)
believe me i have noooo problem having sex with her haha. just i have a friend and her and her boyfriend dont like eachother,they are together just for sex and hate to sound like some hopeless romantic or something gay but thats not my idea of a good thing.

anyone got any input?

 

[Pimpster]

If she's a virgin, and you guys have sex at that age, she'll become verrrry attached so be ready. Sex changes a lot.

 

[NBA23]

True.. True

 

[tracy Jaks]

Sex in a relationship,can go one way or the other, either shell become attached to you or it will be just sex. Somwe people are in a relationship because the sex is so gtreat its the only good thing in the relationship.

And some people dont have sex very often because it is special and should be treasured, but once you take the plunge youll know if the chick is right for you.

 

[Biz]

sex will definitely change your relationship....girls get more emotionally attached to you.....but if you're serious about the relationship...don't make it look like that's all you want bc it'll come back to bite you in the ass...

 

[eba]

or something gay

What's wrong with homosexuals? I love homosexuals. We all should.

Also, you don't know if your girl is taking the pill. She can't just take it one day out of the week. She has to take it EXACTLY the way it specifies or you could have a child or abortion on your hands. Just some (un)helpful(?) from the truest DJ on these forums.

 

[kevbo]

i've put deep thought into this myself. i have friends who've had sex who turned out with a stronger relationship (of course, i never see that guy anymore. he's always at work, home, or his gf's house... had i not been at choir camp i might have gotten to hang out with him this weekend as far as i hear, but oh well), and i have a friend who's gf dumped him quite a while after the sex. now she hates him for taking her virginity 'cause her new bf's a virgin and is waiting 'til marriage for sex (mind you, they've done everything possible but actual sex).

i guess it really just depends on the people, the type of relationship, how long it's been going, etc. 2 weeks you say? lucky bastard . you've got an easy one. me and my gf are virgins too, and she says that she's waitin for marriage (though i know she's not entirely sure that she'll wait that long. i think that if i make the right moves, she'll open up).

well, i guess that wasn't much help... but then again, i'm obviously not experienced there.

 

[DJ Fedorov]

I say go ahead and do it. She's a virgin and so are you so it'll be something special for both of you and she WANTS to do it so more power to you. I don't think sex affects a relationship negatively unless the guy just uses her for the sex and leaves her which isn't cool if she's a virgin because they usually have an emotional connection along with it and that's just an @sshole thing to do. Me and my GF were both virgins (16 at the time) and had been together for about 2-3 months before and everything was great and we're still together at 6 months now. Word of Caution: One thing that people told me and I later found out myself; once you 2 do it once you'll be at it like rabbits wanting to do it all the time, hehe. Also if she's going on the pill, I would still use a condom or at least make sure that she takes them correctly cause you don't need no pregnancy. We recently had a pregnancy scare and then she finally got her period and it was a big relief. Anyways I feel like I'm blabbering so Good luck man, and have fun with that

 

[madamehelpsalot]

Funny things happen

I am sorry to say this to guys but not all girls become that attached after sex. Some girls have some confidence and a brain that they realize that some guys are only after that one thing sex. It has been my experience that most guys I know get more attached than girls. But that is only an observation. If you are worried about it bring it up in a conversation. She will maybe think the question is weird but if she is offering sex she wont be as attached as you think.

 

[drixsa]

listen sex can make things better or worse

but if things arent good, sex definatley wont fix em

by the sounds of it you have a very good verbal chick

which is very important

try to be responsible about it and dont go tellin everyone

 

[RawkinKaoticStyle]

a couple more dates consumate the mating ritual /

soon you will encounter the habitual lier/

the sex was soo good it set your body afire/

but why are you still with this nutt/

everytime they come around you get this feelin in your gut/

you wanna tell them raise up but your mouth stays shut/

when you start to think about how good they F----/

when the sex gets old, youll wind up stuck/

so heres some words of windom that will help you with the chore/

count up their IQ before you let them through the door/

MURS' words