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How do you yall cope with the bullshvt from women

SirFratserlot

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And still be able to maintain confidence. Srs, its always a failure in the short or long run. I feel like shvt right now and I see multiple topics similar to whst happened to me. It just makes me want to quit.
 

Mr Wright

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Simple. The more women you in circulation, the less you care. Being able to walk away is very powerful.
 

Who Dares Win

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Just dont take them seriously and dont invest anything in them, use the same attitude you would use on a beer pong match.
 

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SirFratserlot said:
And still be able to maintain confidence. Srs, its always a failure in the short or long run. I feel like shvt right now and I see multiple topics similar to whst happened to me. It just makes me want to quit.
you know most of the people on SS should stop b!tching like a cvnt and get a pair of balls in their sacks...

we see people saying "ah i wanna quit,ah i cant handle women ..."
or others "i want to fVck a blonde HB8 but i wanna do it while i sit here behind my laptop, playing WOW and munching donuts"
^ REALLY? im not talking about the OP ,but some posters actually have that mentality.what do they have to offer to the girl? a limp d!ck from hours of fapping in their mommas basement :cuss:

also when i see a pic of the same posters, im like "damn....no wonder they don't get laid"
dudes you have to do 4 basic things,
1.GYM
2.hair cut + fashion make over
3.some ball$
4. a life (this is the most important one)

now to all the whiners....go get bent over a monkey bar and ask your mommy to check if you really have a pen!s or just a long ****or!s :yes:

/end of rant
this is not towards the OP btw....just play it cool man, women are like kids, dont take 'em seriously
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

VladPatton

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You just have to blow them off until the next cute one comes along. When she does, you'll be inspired to game her all over again. Yes, you may need a break to get your head back, but it'll return. The whole secret is to game the ones that you already feel have an interest in you.
 

zinc4

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they are all emotionally retarded...don't take their insults or rejections seriously......it's like taking a kindergartner's insults seriously
 

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First up... you quit, you lose!

Second... find another reason to be confident other than whether or not women talk to you nicely.

Is there something that you do well? Focus on that. If there isn't, then Switch's four basics are a good start, especially numbers 1 and 4.
 

NewAndImproved

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You're not good with women yet, then, OP.

People talk about abundance, which is definitely part of it. The more women you have in your rotation, the less precious each becomes.

But the other side of abundance and experience is simply that you trust the process not the result. A good freethrow shooter in the NBA doesn't panic for several reasons:

1. He's been there many times before and has made way more shots that he's missed. He got good by practicing far more than Shaq and D12 do.

2. He privileges his mechanics over everything else (trash talk, fan chatter, important moment in the game). He just goes through his routine and shoots.

When you're new at this, you're not confident in your abilities at all. Once you get used to the mechanics of attracting a whole bunch of women and knowing that you can reproduce those results again and again, you'll have confidence.
 

Down Low

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You'll grow out of those feelings.
 

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Its you, not the women. Understand that first and then you'll be able to overcome.
 

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The easiest solution to her rudeness (real or imaginary) is to do nothing. If she says something you don't like, or even if it might have been sort of rude, you don't reply. Wait her out. It's usually the next day. Or 2 hours later. If it takes 3 weeks you wait. She will write back. When she does, never mention the incident. If she apologizes, accept her apology and never mention it again. If she doesn't reply, her interest level was too low for it to matter.

This process trains them to only do things you like, the way you train a cat or dog. Reward good behavior, do not respond to bad behavior.
 

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I cope with the bull**** from women by purging emotion and suppressing the ego.

I learn to embrace pure logic. It is not logical to be affected by the emotions of a woman. I draw state from within. I am enough, I do not need a woman to complete me.

Once you reject the idea that you need a woman to feel happy you will find it easier to be less outcome dependent on your interactions with women, which will translate to a more positive response from them.

If you want to quit, then do it, maybe that’s what you really need right now.

Become happy by yourself. Once you attain independent happiness in solitude, you will come across as less needy and this will be more attractive to women
 

If you want to talk, talk to your friends. If you want a girl to like you, listen to her, ask questions, and act like you are on the edge of your seat.

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