How do you win?

[MackJr]

If you consider the way this whole tihng is set up, a woman can have no personality, no redeeming characteristics, and still get laid and get attention from men at least initially.

On the other hand, a man has to have looks, skills, and possibly property to get women.

do the math real quick, and women are almost always set up to win.

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At this point you'll say, "suck it up", or something like that to make me accept the fact. I don't mind accepting that it's easier for a woman to have relationships in our culture, but what I would like is a way to WIN.

Something set up so that I win, meaning quite specifically, I come out on top.

No win-win bull****, that's just another name for "let's just be friends"

It could just be a matter of framing, but it's something I'd like to know.

 

[Climax]

My 2c......

Well over the years that’s just how the world has "evolved", that "men chase women". But its not really like that all the time. If you are a very good looking guy, you WILL have women running after you, just like very attractive girls always have men running after them. And if you are not an attractive woman, then chances are, are that guys are NOT going to be running after you, and same goes for men.

The main reason, in my opinion that its easier for girls to get laid etc, is because men tend to think with their d!cks more than they think with their brain. And a lot of men will f*ck anything with 2 legs (female) because they just don’t think they can do better.

So over all, girls are brought up thinking that its the guys job to approach and hit on girls etc, so they expect it to be done to them more than THEM doing it to men. But I really think that it has a lot to do with looks. If you are hot, girls will hit on u, if ur not hot, girls wont hit on u. And visa versa.

So to answer your question: If you want to win, MAKE urself a winner. Work out, have a good social life, start getting experience and confidence with women, strive t accomplish your goals in life, go buy urself some stylish clothing, ........., etc etc.... Get my point?


Laterz...

 

[JonJack]

Wow! If you really want to set yourself up to almost always win, you really have to do major amounts of work to even come anywhere close to it. First you'll have to become wealthy. Then you'll have to buy lots of flashy expensive stuff. Then you'll have to work out and groom yourself well. Next you'll have to be funny and have a life filled with interesting experiences to share with her. After that you'll have to be a pro in bed. Lastly, you'll have to earn the respect of most people to increase your overall stature.

Do all that and I guarantee you that you'll almost always win. Otherwise, you'll just have to be content in losing most and winning some. That's the way it is man, and if you cannot accept that fact, then you're just like a lot of other people who just complain about the inequalities of their life but are unable to bring themselves to do what needs to be done because they feel that they deserve it all since they're so special.

First things first, accept the fact that it is extremely difficult to almost always win. If you still want it, then go do what it takes.

 

[RaWBLooD]

Originally posted by JonJack
Wow! If you really want to set yourself up to almost always win, you really have to do major amounts of work to even come anywhere close to it. First you'll have to become wealthy. Then you'll have to buy lots of flashy expensive stuff. Then you'll have to work out and groom yourself well. Next you'll have to be funny and have a life filled with interesting experiences to share with her. After that you'll have to be a pro in bed. Lastly, you'll have to earn the respect of most people to increase your overall stature.

Do all that and I guarantee you that you'll almost always win. Otherwise, you'll just have to be content in losing most and winning some. That's the way it is man, and if you cannot accept that fact, then you're just like a lot of other people who just complain about the inequalities of their life but are unable to bring themselves to do what needs to be done because they feel that they deserve it all since they're so special.

First things first, accept the fact that it is extremely difficult to almost always win. If you still want it, then go do what it takes.

I always win.:woo:
Why cant he

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by RaWBLooD
I always win.:woo:
Why cant he

Maybe you innately have what it takes to win. Maybe you know what it takes and you went and did what it takes to win. Maybe you're lying. Maybe he just can't because of his circumstances. Maybe the two of you are two totally different human beings with different physical aspects, different experiences and different personalities. Just because Michael Jordan was damn good in basketball doesn't mean you can be as good as him. Anyone who is exceptional in anything and has tried to mold others to be as good as them know this.

 

[Tomb]

If you want to win, make more money.

 

[Alphathree]

Lol you don't need "money" to win, that's such crap, nor do you need to be a supermodel.

Look, imagine an HB9 looking at you with puppy dog eyes. You're not turned toward her, just turn your head slightly to see her face. She puts her hand on your lap. You push her hand off your lap. You don't need her. Why? Because she's meaningless to you because you have a bunch of other options.

Trust me, having that power pulsing through your veins is awesome. Once you have a woman attracted to you and you just keep amplifying it, she has no power left, and you win.

It's true: to do this you have to stop letting the thing between your legs control you, among other things.

 

[spider_007]

Pack up and move to Alaska. That's my plan

 

[Abbott]

Here are the three elements you need to win. If you have enough if one it'll help a LOT, but ideally you'll have a combination of all three.


- Looks
- Money
- Social Clout and/or Status


I don't feel these need explaining, as they should be pretty obvious.

Ben

 

[Vibe]

If you want to always win, play something easy.

If you want to feel good when you win, play something hard.

~Vibe~

 

[OneArmDeeJay]

Originally posted by Vibe
If you want to always win, play something easy.

If you want to feel good when you win, play something hard.

~Vibe~

I like that

 

[CrotchSniffer]

Your assessment that women always win is based on the false assumption that they always get what they want. Sure the ladies can get laid much easier than most guys, but sex is not the main objective of women. You are projecting yourself and your desires on them and that is why you see our gender as the collective "losers" in the game.

Of course women love sex. That's a given. But most of them are after relationships because emotional stimulation is king in the world of females. And this is something they struggle to find, because real men are such a rarity these days. Sure they could fukk a thousand chumps, but the point is finding someone worth fukking!

If you really take the statistics apart, we are about equal in terms of finding what we want in this game.

Don't be so quick to hang your head in defeat because the surest way to lose is to give up on yourself, (even more so on your gender.)

 

[Visceral]

Originally posted by Vibe
If you want to always win, play something easy.

If you want to feel good when you win, play something hard.

~Vibe~

True, but what about feeling good when you lose?

 

[CrotchSniffer]

Originally posted by Visceral
True, but what about feeling good when you lose?

Nobody likes to lose...so just look at it like you have won some valuable experience.

 

[Visceral]

I misspoke; I should have asked about how to not feel any worse when you lose. How do you keep loss from depressing and discouraging you?

 

[Vibe]

Originally posted by Visceral
I misspoke; I should have asked about how to not feel any worse when you lose. How do you keep loss from depressing and discouraging you?

Hmmm, well there is always some negativity associated with losing. But when it really matters, it is never a true loss. Think about it like this. If you win the lottery, that's great. If you lose, it's not like you were REALLY expecting to win anyway so it doesn't really bother you too much.

But if you train for months to compete in a triathlon and then you end up coming in second place, you will feel it because you worked so hard to get there and thought you really had a chance. But at the same time, how much did you learn through your training? Didn't you feel great those last few months? Didn't you feel healthy, with-it, and like you had a drive to do something great? Wasn't that worth it?

So I guess the real test is to be able to find the value in everything you do, whether it is a "win" or a "loss." So next time you lose, figure out what it was that caused you to lose and then work on fixing it. You can only come out better for it.

Remember, you cannot base your self worth on whether you succeed or don't succeed! Your self worth is completely independent of the outside world. Everything that MATTERS is inside you. If you find your own inner value, you will find equal value in everything external.

"The world is your mirror..."

~Vibe~

 

[MackJr]

Originally posted by CrotchSniffer
Your assessment that women always win is based on the false assumption that they always get what they want. Sure the ladies can get laid much easier than most guys, but sex is not the main objective of women. You are projecting yourself and your desires on them and that is why you see our gender as the collective "losers" in the game.

Of course women love sex. That's a given. But most of them are after relationships because emotional stimulation is king in the world of females. And this is something they struggle to find, because real men are such a rarity these days. Sure they could fukk a thousand chumps, but the point is finding someone worth fukking!

If you really take the statistics apart, we are about equal in terms of finding what we want in this game.

Don't be so quick to hang your head in defeat because the surest way to lose is to give up on yourself, (even more so on your gender.)

I don't think they want emotional stimulation. If that were true, they'd go after the more sensitive, emotional men. They want power. And something else, but I'm not sure what that is.

I did come up with a slightly different perspective. We're talking about HB8-10s on this board. UG5s aren't quite so difficult, because they usually weigh more, don't have as much beauty, etc.

So maybe they're trying as hard as they can to be HB10s. They have to work out and get anorexic to get to that point. If that's the case, then it's not so bad if an HB10 can get laid all the time becuase she has to work for it.

still, I think an UG5 could get laid more easily than an AFC, but maybe I'm wrong.