How do you tell when a girl is interested?

[silverfox]

Here's my thing, apart from sucking at approaching half the time, I do manage to start some reasonably good conversations with girls but I never know if they are being social/friendly/polite or are genuinely interested.

Today I was on a train journey with several delays. I ended up chatting with the girl I was sitting next to. Every time there was an announcement about the delay we would make the odd comment to each other and for the last half hour or so of the journey we talked pretty much non-stop.

I found out what she had been up to for the weekend (a friend's wedding), where she had been on holiday this year, her dream job, movies she loved etc. This is where we really clicked as we would recommend movies to each other and most of them time we had seen them or had them on our to watch list.

We had good eye contact, she was smiling and she was also asking me a few questions about where I lived, worked etc. but not as many as I was asking her. I asked the odd question to see if she would mention a boyfriend but she never did. She also didn't say outright she was single (but I guess why would she?)

When we got to the terminus I asked her name and told her mine and we walked off the platform together. She had to go one way and I went another so we waved and off she went. Afterwards I was playing it all over in my mind and wondered if I should have just asked for her number - now I know there will probably be a resounding chorus of, "of course you idiot!"

I am always reluctant to mess up a nice chat if she is just being friendly so I wish I was better at recognising interest. In the past friends have been surprised when I haven't asked a girl I was talking to for her digits because as far as they were concerned she was giving off all the right vibes.

How could I have found out if she was interested or was she interested anyway from the what I have written about our conversation? How do you guys know when a girl you are talking to is interested?

 

[Local Celebrity]

Usually when she laughs at things that aren't even that funny. You seemed like you had a good chat going, at the end of it, I would've simply said "I enjoyed this conversation, why don't you give me your number so we can continue it"

If she flat out says "No" most likely you'll never even see that chick again, what do you have to lose?

 

[Hitman10000]

Have you ever been to the Strip Club in your life? Man, all those women give me eye contact and touch me and talk to me like I'm a king, but they always seem to ask if I can join them in a private room from which I would have to open my wallet for them to gyrate their asses in front of my face for a couple minutes.

Give me a break dude, make a post if you are dating someone or if you have some interesting things you noticed about women than your own mental opinion. Do a search on interest level and save space on this site.

 

[Phyzzle]

Bottom of page:

DJ Bible, first post, questions for Newbies.

 

[squirrels]

When you go to kiss her, she doesn't turn away.

Dude, you can tell. Even when you can't tell when she's interested, you can tell when she's NOT. So persist unless she gives you negative language.

Lots of girls will object, but they wont' STOP you.

 

[MrCode]

You are asking a pointless question. Just assume all women you talk to are interested in you romantically. Then go from that point of view.

You are just afraid of rejection. Asking for a number and being denied is way better than looking back and wondering "what if?" I mean look at this post.

 

[KarmaSutra]

How do you guys know when a girl you are talking to is interested?

Is she sitting on your face . . .:yes:

 

[TheLadiesMan]

You'll know... there are obvious signs. They want to talk to you, they want to be near you, digits, kino... they tell you they are leaving their boyfriends, stuff like that.