How do you stay Alpha in a Beta's World???

[Speculator E]

A short question. How do you stay alpha if everyone else are beta?

If you work in an office environment and your co-worker are beta to the N degree. So you have to tone down your alpha-ness when at work and play nice, friendly, and submissive like everyone else.

If your friends and family are all clueless AFC, but you got no choice unless you want to be alone.

Sadly, I think modern society is a beta's world and you have to play by their rule if you want to succeed in it. An alpha may be strong but he's severely outnumbered. And what's worst is that the more time you spend with these beta, the more that it starts to rub off onto you and before you know it your game start suffering due to all the submissive behavior you pick up.

What does everyone else think?

 

[backseatjuan]

Betas need someone to follow. To truly be an alpha your presence must make others feel good about themselves, to be secure around you. If you were beta in the past around a group you will be perceived as one, so you must leave them behind.

 

[Speculator E]

This isn't about being a beta in your group of friend or even the alpha. Your friends are supposed to be your equal who have mutual respect for one another. You don't try to out alpha your friends. If you do then you're an *******.

But the problem is all your friends are all stuck in the beta/AFC mentality. You can't get them to open their eyes because they are trapped deep in the beta matrix. So you as an enlightened alpha have no choice but to tone down your DJ knowledge because your friends are sensitive beta's that can't handle the fact that they just suck with women.

However, that doesn't make them bad people. Just because they aren't good with women like you are doesn't mean they are bad friends. But it would be nice if one of them was as alpha just so you can have someone to relate to. Get it?

 

[Who Dares Win]

In the work place just keep a low profile, dont stay higher than others but put your step down when someone try to overcome you.

Outside your workplace feel free to be a jerk, not only because it works on women but because its refreshing and addicting you release your true nature.

And dont underestimate other men, given the wrong example they'll be more than glad to follow and be grateful that you shown the way.
I got a couple of erasmus students from sweden who were sissies after years of conditioning there, after few months with us they turned into any feminist nightmare and any b1tch dream, Im sure that even now that they came back they still live better than before.

 

[ezio]

And what's worst is that the more time you spend with these beta, the more that it starts to rub off onto you and before you know it your game start suffering due to all the submissive behavior you pick up.

What does everyone else think?

that is the reason i keep coming to this site, it helps me maintain my frame and not relapse into AFCness. check out tariq nasheeds podcasts, rollo and roissy's blogs are equally helpful. your best bet though is to make friends with other alpha guys

 

[alxrose04]

Dont apologize for your alpha tendencies. Like someone said in a response above, they need someone to follow. I would only caution that attitude at work because people have egos and you don't want to make a bad name for yourself. But outside of work try to look for people that are at a higher level than you. Get out of your town and find those people because your comfortable state is a home and you dont grown when you're comfortable. But seek out higher level people.

 

[Packers2010]

This isn't about being a beta in your group of friend or even the alpha. Your friends are supposed to be your equal who have mutual respect for one another. You don't try to out alpha your friends. If you do then you're an *******.

this is the Main reason why i left all my high school friends in the dust.

all they would do is try out alpha me, and i wasn't even alpha to start with. so i just left them. it was the best thing i could have done. i feel so much better for doing it and now i don't even look back.

 

[thechallenger]

When keeping it real goes wrong!