How do you start seducing a Woman

[amoka]

There is a new girl next door neighbour in my apartment complex that seems to show a great interested in me. The very first time I met her, she told me she is bored and needed something to do. I invited her to come to my complex for a movie in which she shows a great appreciation. She came to my apartment and we both watched a movie together, alone. The night was a bit boring for her, I sensed, since I did not make any preparation for movie with a girl that night. While the movie was rolling, she spotted my sister's picture on the wall and asked if that was my girl friend. Having watched the movie "Deliver Us From Eva", I told her that was actually my wife and not my girl friend. I could sense a feel of displease in her eyes due to the response. About 10 minutes later, her phone rang and she said it was her boy friend that is calling her and is planning to visit her that night. We barely had any meaningful conversation that night since I'm not good at carrying on a conversation with girls. She left the room, cold and disappointed, about five minutes after the call. I told myself "that was it. I scrolled up. She will never come to my room again." The following evening, there was a knock on my door and I opened it. There she was standing by the door looking beautiful. I invited her in and asked what she would like to do. She seemed to have no idea of her mission or coming to my room. I suggested to her if she would like to go watch a movie; to which she responded yes. We could not go to the movie theatre to watch any movies because I figured it would be more economical to rent movies and watch them as many times as she would like than to go to the movie theatre and watch a single movie ones and that's all. She seemed to have liked the idea of renting instead of watch. So we rented two movies... all were her selection. We came home and watched the movies together. I wanted to sleep with her but did not know how to go about it. One thing came up to me: ask her for massage. Surprisingly, she obeyed to massage my back. About a minute in the massage, somehow we started kissing and I started touching her breast and so forth... She seemed to have loved it and so did I. But about during minutes later she said she can't do this anymore because I have a wife and that my wife will not be please with me when she finds out that I have been messing around her back. I had to tell her the real truth at that moment because I know what I really want. I told her that was my sister and she is not my wife. She found it very difficult to believe but I was able to convince her and she later accepted it. I though I accomplished something by telling her the "real truth" but no. She said, she said she can't do this anymore because she really love her boyfriend and that that she does not was to cheat on him. At this point I reached a point of no return and tried to convince her again to forget about her boyfriend but all my effort were futile. We ended up just talking the entire night without doing anything at all. I got fed-up and just don't know what to do. She again came to my room but I just don't know what exactly to tell her to seduce her. I need a conversation start not only on her but on any other girls. Many girls come to my room who are will to have sex with me and I'm willing to have sex with them but I just don't know how to start the conversation. Can someone with the expertise provide help? Thanks

 

[ER!C L!VE]

I like gunwitch style / my own style when it comes to getting sexual with a woman once she's in your home.

Here's Gunwitch's style:

The close.

Once isolated, the words "why don't you come sit with me"? or "why don't you come lay down here?" are CHAMPION. Of course in a broom closet you just press up against the wall and start kissing. At home after you get her laying with you or sitting on your lap ect, you start to touch her even more at this point, stroking her hair saying it smells nice (HER HAIR YOU PERVS), you then get a good eye contact going and go in for a kiss, give her a soft light kiss with no tongue at first, keep this going until things progress to French kissing, give a good 30 minutes of foreplay to get her REALLY turned on so that she doesn't give last minute resistance. Clothes don’t come off for 15-20 minutes, panties don't come off for 25-30 minutes. Then you are on your own, I’m not godamn Dr. Ruth.

14.1 the last minute problem with sex. This happens sometimes, she'll say "I don't know you enough" ect. When this happens don't get mad or upset ect. Just say, "I understand" or "ok, this is nice though huh?" then go back to necking and making out. Eventually go back in for the sex, if happens again say "I understand" and go back in for more kissing and making out, and repeat until it goes through. Hell even if she never gets ready, what have you got better to do than make out with some hot little number? You've got no real "make the ho say no" style of getting a close or getting a rejection to work with at this point, as she already has said no but MAY change her mind. DO NOT struggle or tug or bear weight on her at this stage, as that is considered rape. Use persistence not force, and you'll be ok.

My style:

She's at your place. No one else is there. So, take her by the hand, Say something along the lines of "let me give you a tour of my place!" (with a big suggestive simile!), lead her into the bedroom, turn her towards you, grab her by the waist and you both lean towards each other and start kissing. Then, move towards the bed, lay down (or fall down) on it while you're both still kissing. Clothes will quickly come off and you'll be banging really quick.. Make sure you have a condom!

 

[amoka]

I'm completely out of game. I sometimes consider myself a looser because there are several girls who are interested in me but just don't have the courage to confront them. And whenever I confront them, everything seems to be successful. In infact, most of them come to my place for movies and stuff like that but I just don't know how to start a conversation with them that would lead to sex. My problem is the fear of being rejected. It will be hard to look back in their faces should I get rejected. Do you all feel the same way? Any suggestions as to how I can overcome such fear?
I'm at a point that I'm willing to try anything.

 

[ER!C L!VE]

Bro, you've gotta just do it. I'm scared to death of public speaking, however I've done it on several occasions. I know guys who would puke before high school wrestling matches because they were so nervous, but they'd still go out and wrestle.

You need to trust that it'll work out. Know that the girl wants you to do it. Know that the girl thinks it's your job as the MAN to be the initiator of kissing, sex, etc. Know that the girl will think you're lame if you don't initiate sex. Girls expect you to initiate intimacy - ESPECIALLY whey they come to your house for NO REASON!

 

[legolas]

You can read my PM and go for it if you want, in the meantime I would suggest inviting the girl(s) over and having some fine wine and maybe food (although I do not reccommend it if you want to get them tipsy) and put on some music. Then as a topic of conversation ask her questions about herself like:

What do you like to do for fun.
What would you do if you had a million dollars
What is your favorite place to go and relax (is it beach, resort, skiing whatever)
Talk about a movie you saw
Talk about her life dreams or her dreams as a little girl. What did she want to become when she was little.

The guy I PMed you about has something he calls the ego-reflect system. If you buy that product I told yo about, you can email him and have him send it to you.

 

[noit77]

Hi !
I think that you are in not a bad position at all !
You have your own flat, you have girls coming
from time to time to your flat or somehow
stumble upon them... So you have to have
something which attracts them. I am
wondering if it is your money or your looks ?
What do you think ?
I haven't had a girl visiting me for the last
three years.
I think there is quite some potential, i would
suggest to work on your conversational
abilites, humor, learn how to cook and invite
her for dinner or such things.
Greets,
Carl

 

[Desdinova]

The two best things you can do:

Fun: Just have fun! Be playful with her. You got your own place. Invite chicks over to watch a move (don't matter what you put on). Take a pillow and bean her one. Make sure she's got a pillow too! Tickle her. Poke her for fun. Anything to get the connection between the two of you on a more comfortable level. Treat her like she's your little sister.

Kino: Touch her nonsexually, then slowly make it more sexual. Play with her earrings, stroke the hair out of her face, examine her nails/rings.

Oh yeah, if they ask about your "girlfriend" status, tell them you have 17 girlfriends, 4 wives, and 8 engagements.

 

[wheelin&dealin]

Originally posted by amoka
My problem is the fear of being rejected. It will be hard to look back in their faces should I get rejected. Do you all feel the same way? Any suggestions as to how I can overcome such fear?
I'm at a point that I'm willing to try anything.

I would say that about 98% of people fear rejection. How do you overcome this... go get rejected! Get rejected so many times that you don't give 2 sh*ts about the next time it happens.

I can remember the days when I used to be gut-less and fear rejection and I really can't give you a tip that will help you overcome it other than suck it up and go for it.

 

[amoka]

Originally posted by noit77
Hi !
I think that you are in not a bad position at all !
You have your own flat, you have girls coming
from time to time to your flat or somehow
stumble upon them... So you have to have
something which attracts them. I am
wondering if it is your money or your looks ?
What do you think ?
I haven't had a girl visiting me for the last
three years.
I think there is quite some potential, i would
suggest to work on your conversational
abilites, humor, learn how to cook and invite
her for dinner or such things.
Greets,
Carl

I don't exactly know what feature of me that attract them so much, although some say I have wonderful personality. I'm nice to them with a hope that they'll like me back ( which they do). But I just don't know how to escalate from friendship level to girl-friend-boy-friend level.

 

[amoka]

Still Flirting with Me....

My next door neighbor still flirts with me although I told her we can only be friend. Well, let me spill down the whole story. I tried to seduce her several days ago but was unsuccessful because of inexperience with the game. I felt embarrassed later on and told her we should just be friends, and nothing more, since she has a boyfriend with whom she claims to love so dearly. I met her boyfriend but never spoken to him or anything but I'm sure they're deeply in love. He does not stay with her, he lives in a different city and come once a fortnight or maybe twice and that is it.

After all this, she calls me and says "are you home?"… When I say no, she says "oh can I call you back?" and never calls back again... I think of her too almost all the time. She got such a great body which I'm sure is every man's dream to have someday. Sometimes I knock on her door just like a friend would do to say hello but she invites me in and allow me to sit on the bed and she sits right beside me. When we talk, she often says she is bored and would like to do something fun. Since I already told her we are just friends, it is very difficult for me to propose anything sexual or even think of thing we can both do together for fun. She smiles to me as if to say "come here baby". I feel reluctant to take any action...

That's not all, she still comes to my room. What for? To watch movies. Is this girl still interested to have sex with me or does she just want to be friends. I just need some suggestions... should I invite her in and try all over again? Or would she decline again… it will be terrible should I fail again though…..

 

[resilient]

Give her a massage the next time she says she's bored. I can't think of any time a girl has turned down a free massage! Dude, who cares about the boyfriend who comes in once in a fort night. She's obviously bored to tears and needs some male attention/contact. So give her some little by little until you're ready to roll with it. Good luck!

 

[Heretolearn]

You obviously want to have a girlfriend person so..........

Find some other girls!
'
Works for you as you get to meet others and this girl will end up jealous if she did like you anyway.

 

[amoka]

"You obviously want to have a girlfriend person so.......... Find some other girls! ' Works for you as you get to meet others and this girl will end up jealous if she did like you anyway"

This is exactly what I planned to do. The problem is it is very difficult for me to find a girl that I would like. I don't want to get anybody who will love me and I end up not loving her later on, you see.