How do you properly game a chick with her parents?

[OTB]

Okay, So today I was on the riding the train when I saw a 16 year old HB-8 get on the same train car.
She was immediately giving me the "Fvck me eyes" and I was about to approach her ------> BUT as soon I was running a couple of smooth openers through my mind her fat & ugly mom showed up out of now-where! :cuss:

And although I still could have opened up this mother/daughter two-set.....
I didn't wanna go in completely unprepared :nervous:

So I have a question for all of you more-experienced PUAs & Don Juans:
(I'm sure that I'm not the only one who thought about this)
How the Hell do you properly approach & open a Hot Babe with her parents or her family all around her?

Lately, I've seen this phenomenon occur quite frequently....
I also view my lack of skill/expertise in this area as inherently crippling, many potential oppurtunities have gone to waste in similar situation like this....

Help me out here guys!

 

[619joe]

The only time I ever did something similar (at work) was when I was waiting a table for a wedding and I waited for parents to be gone/distracted to make my move.I hadnt gotten the number as she was leaving so I signalled her to come to me while her parents were talking to someone else

I wouldnt really try it much though bud your just putting yourself into a hard ass position and your 17 like me so I fully understand.I just eye **** them and be on my way but I let her know whats up.Just tell youself "no worries she digs me anyways" and go find some other girls easier to approach.Its really creepy man especially for girls our age and parents know whats going down they are not stupid

 

[schttrj]

well, in this case, i would probably not approach her, too much work, unless i get a reason to start a talk with them. its not a set but real ppl with real social circuitry and they are controlled by that. we are free minded, they are not. and the first thing is comfort. you cannot just push her into anything.

anyways, to your question, two ways of approaching and opening her: if you are sure she digs you, go direct in a subtle way, like you know her from school, the girl knows you are interested and jsut putting up a fake thing to meet her or else, just go indirect, start the talk with any of her parents and be a part of the group and then slowly take it from there so that no one is objecting to that. and one thing, parents like good guys, not nice guys though.

 

[chinwaggler]

Perhaps you could speak to their family in general then direct your attention to the girl. If the family likes you then they won't mind if you ask for her number. Well, they'll mind less.

 

[02hero]

Perhaps you could speak to their family in general then direct your attention to the girl. If the family likes you then they won't mind if you ask for her number. Well, they'll mind less.

Yeah, work on the mother, if she likes you, chances are the daughter will too....

 

[Snow Plowman]

These situations are interesting...

You must talk with the mother...it brings a lot of fun to it because I usually have the mother qualify her daughter to me and when I talk to the daughter the mother will stand and watch...No problems...

I've been in this situation tons of times and yesterday on the train station a 7set with mom was coming by and I start ancing all crazy...the girls love it...but I never realized the mom was trying to pull them along...I didn't see the mom...and as a result the whole group left...it didn't matter that they were super into it...

Also stop thinking just try and see what happens...I wouldzve never known you could open a 2set by having the obstacle help you get the target...this was all done by going direct....

 

[Effington]

My suggestion would be to joke with the mom. It's obvious you're not into her but if she likes you then you'll have a better chance getting thru her to the daughter. On the train is a tough spot, though, I probably wouldn't try. Good luck, though.

 

[Anchorman]

you dont try to game her in front of hjer parents. As soon as her parents see you going after her, they will ****block you and make sure you never touch that pvssay. instead, work on disarming the parents. Just let your personality shine and try to get on the parents' good side. If you can accomplish that, it will work greatly in your favor. Whatever you do, do not come off as a sleezeball to her parents, or you're done.

 

[izza]

Dude, gaming a girl in front of her parents can sometimes be much, much easier than building rapport with her alone. Think about it this way, who cares about her more than anybody else in the world? Her parents. Nobody on earth wants her to find a great, motivated, thoughtful quality guy more than them.

You sell her parents on you and they will push her into your arms. Winning over her friends is good, her parents is even better. Even if she's in teenage rebellion mode, if you build the right vibe with her too, this is just easier than ever.

Also, I have really liked the times dads have pushed their daughters on me. That's a huge compliment.

Izza

 

[OTB]

its not a set but real ppl with real social circuitry and they are controlled by that. we are free minded, they are not.

That's a really interesting point (although I don't really understand what you mean by that......

PLEASE, expand on that thought!

if you are sure she digs you, go direct in a subtle way, like you know her from school, the girl knows you are interested and jsut putting up a fake thing to meet her

Hahahaha!

In your opinion of such a circumstance, you would say that the chick would play along with you while still fully knowing that you are spouting pure Bull$hit just for the chance to talk to her?
(This type of behavior is pseudo-AFC in my opinion)

On the other hand, it seems like it might just work in some cases:
You've had experience and success using this approach?

 

[OTB]

Dude, gaming a girl in front of her parents can sometimes be much, much easier than building rapport with her alone. Think about it this way, who cares about her more than anybody else in the world? Her parents. Nobody on earth wants her to find a great, motivated, thoughtful quality guy more than them.

You sell her parents on you and they will push her into your arms. Winning over her friends is good, her parents is even better. Even if she's in teenage rebellion mode, if you build the right vibe with her too, this is just easier than ever.

Also, I have really liked the times dads have pushed their daughters on me. That's a huge compliment.

Izza

WOW Izza!

That's the greatest / most ingenius advice I have ever heard on this entire thread!

You have put this so-called problem into a totally different frame and thought about it in such a counter-intuitive way!!!

This is such an unorthodox way to think about it BUT,
It truly is easier to get to a girl by going through her parents than going through her friends! :crackup:

Thanks for opening up mine & everyone else's minds to this -----> Mad Props!

 

[OTB]

if you show them '2 girls 1 cup' they'll think you are a very responsible young man.

Wow, fuzzx! -----> Was that your pathetic attempt at Internet humor?!

What was even the point of posting that in this thread? Please Fcukin tell me....

Maybe that's the way you got up to the level of "Master Don Juan" and typed up a $hitload of posts......


You my friend, are an Epic FAIL

 

[izza]

WOW Izza!

That's the greatest / most ingenius advice I have ever heard on this entire thread!

You have put this so-called problem into a totally different frame and thought about it in such a counter-intuitive way!!!

This is such an unorthodox way to think about it BUT,
It truly is easier to get to a girl by going through her parents than going through her friends! :crackup:

Thanks for opening up mine & everyone else's minds to this -----> Mad Props!

I am particularly flattered because the goal of my posts isn't so much to be right or wrong, or to be agreed with, but rather to frame things differently. I think that is done too rarely on this site, which is ultimately pretty conservative (ie it has a DJ "Bible" of truths). I view it like giving people another tool.

Anyway, thanks for the compliment, I really appreciate it.

Also, I really enjoyed your quotes. I hope you don't mind if I borrow them from time to time.

Best wishes,
Izza