How do you handle a party girl?

[One on One]

I'm currently working on a party girl and I've got good rapport and I think she'd be willing to do some stuff with me However the problem is that I only hang with her at clubs so far. I'm afraid if I ask her out to a non-party situation, she'll smell a guy who wants a relationship and run. Now I don't want a relationship, but I can't isolate this girl at the clubs. We usually meet at the club and both have our friends around. Anybody have any tips on how to isolate her or any general tips on party girls?

 

[isotope]

invvite her over to drink with a few friends... that way its like a small party, but theres ways to talk, play cards or whatever

 

[htemorp]

invite her to lick your balls...doesn't that directly related to partying?

 

[am4591]

Get in good with her friends first, then isolate her. Or maybe your friends could hit on hers, leaving you to concentrate on your girl.

 

[thissucks003]

Originally posted by dave134
Anybody have any tips on how to isolate her or any general tips on party girls?

Isolate her after the bars close. "Let's go back to my place, I just don't feel like sleeping yet. I have some wine and beer and we could just chill". Your perfect setup to bring her home after the bar closes. She won't get the "I want a relationship vibe" because that is not the typical date.

TS

 

[One on One]

Is there any way I can ask her on a date? I don't have many friends that like to party anymore.

 

[DJ Logic]

Dates are for AFCs man. Get a nice conversation going and then tell her "Hey its been nice talking to you, we should continue this sometime, why dont you give me your #?" Call her up a few days later and say. "Hey what are you doing right now?"

she'll say whatever.

Then you say. "Forget that sh!t! I am much more exciting! Tell you what..I am heading over to BlaBla Cafe, let's get together for some tea and stimulating conversation"

If she is interested at all, she will take the bait.

Good luck, and may the schwartz be with you!

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by DJ Logic
Dates are for AFCs man. Get a nice conversation going and then tell her "Hey its been nice talking to you, we should continue this sometime, why dont you give me your #?" Call her up a few days later and say. "Hey what are you doing right now?"

she'll say whatever.

Then you say. "Forget that sh!t! I am much more exciting! Tell you what..I am heading over to BlaBla Cafe, let's get together for some tea and stimulating conversation"

If she is interested at all, she will take the bait.

Good luck, and may the schwartz be with you!

I got her number already and we've talked on the phone several times. When I said date, I didn't mean real date either, I just meant alone time. You've got a good idea, I'll just go somewhere and tell her I'm there and invite her to come. She's taking a trip for a few days soon so she won't be around for a while...I'll probably wait until she gets back.

 

[thissucks003]

Originally posted by dave134
Is there any way I can ask her on a date? I don't have many friends that like to party anymore.

I thought you said:I'm afraid if I ask her out to a non-party situation, she'll smell a guy who wants a relationship and run.

Asking her out on a traditional date sets her mind that you might be looking for a relationship, which is what you said you don't want. Which one is it, a relationship or a hookup?

My feelings are that you are much more likely to convert a hookup into a relationship since this gal is just looking for fun. Work on the hookup part first, then we'll deal with the relationship aspect of it next.

TS

 

[One on One]

Originally posted by thissucks003
I thought you said:I'm afraid if I ask her out to a non-party situation, she'll smell a guy who wants a relationship and run.

Asking her out on a traditional date sets her mind that you might be looking for a relationship, which is what you said you don't want. Which one is it, a relationship or a hookup?

My feelings are that you are much more likely to convert a hookup into a relationship since this gal is just looking for fun. Work on the hookup part first, then we'll deal with the relationship aspect of it next.

TS

This girl is a bit tricky to figure out. On the one hand, she is a party girl who has tons of friends, on the phone a lot, etc. On the other hand, she is actually very mature, not flaky, and intelligent. So, I'm torn if I would want a relationship or not at this point. I need to get to know her better. However, one thing I'm sure of is that she's got a SMOKING BODY and I want some action!!

So, what I want to do now is:

a. get some action on our first hangout/date
b. find out if she is relationship material
c. keep it light

Does that help?

 

[DJ Logic]

bingo!

 

[One on One]

She's on a trip to another city right now and will probably be back early next week. I plan to call her a few days after she gets back and see if she is going to the club this weekend and tell her I'm going. Then, I do the dancing, kino in the club and get my solid wingman to take out her friend. Then, I try to get her to chill back at one of our house's. If the friend can't be completely ditched like that, I'll call it a night and ask her over to watch a movie in a few days. Good plan?