How do you guys make women prove themselves to you?

[LTG71]

I don't really make them prove anything. I simply make note of their behavior and if it's positive keep seeing them and if it isn't I move on.

This works on everyone you meet. I let people reveal themselves and decide if I want to keep engaging with them. We tend to give women more leeway were as if a guy is an azzhole, you cut them off without thinking twice. First, do I find her physically attractive? Second, do I find her character attractive?

 

[recoveringsimp2024]

tahg

By assuming status over her. It's in the way you speak to a woman that she will qualify herself. Lighthearted teasing, mostly, or asides about "other" women.

E.g. she says or does something and you say "oh, you're one of those girls."

Or "women that do xyz annoy me."

But you can't take this stuff too seriously. Don't force it and keep it playful. The more important thing is you're not qualifying yourself to her. A woman doesn't need to prove herself to you to build attraction, but the reverse will certainly repel her.

that’s the realest advice i’ve read on this thread, thank you big bro

 

[Gamisch]

What does she need to prove? I geuss it is all related to your expectations.

I assume that every woman I meet is a 304. I've been on way to many dates to reason otherwise. She can prove me wrong, if she doesn't; no hard feelings.

I like it when a woman is willing to invest in me. Could be time ,money ,attention and preferably a combination of those three.

 

[The Duke]

Replace "prove" for "qualify" herself. That's what matters. She is just like all the others until she convinces you otherwise.

Voice your expectations. Let her know when she messes up(in a playful teasing manner). Watch how she responds. She will start explaining why she isnt one way or another. Push/pull the attention you provide. When you do she will figure out you aren't so needy and you probably have options.

I always award points when they do something I like and take a way points and make fun of them when they do something dumb. Have fun with it.

This is how you switch the game on her. You stop chasing her and she starts chasing you.

Who works for who? If she wants hired she needs to qualify why she is worthy.