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How do you guys deal with oneitis now?

Komodo

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How do you guys deal with liking a girl then being rejected by her.I ask beacause I wonder if anyone of you have come up with some new things?
 

Blaaaaat

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Move on as quick as possible.

But if you were a real DJ, you would be able to filter those girls out of your dating system.
 

Starman

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this is another st00pid thread...how do you deal with oneitus??

Grab your balls and be a man knowing there are over 3 billion other girls out there
 

davelmn2003

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I've heard that finding a new girl will cure you pretty much...in the meantime, hang out with your friends and try not to be alone and to have time to think.
 

Blaaaaat

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Actually, i got dumped yesteday.. so today I played my guitar for eight hours straight to release my aggression (which is a constructive way to deal with the pain), and tonight im going to get drunk with my friends, and try to hit on the woman.
 

Blaaaaat

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Well, I have no fcvking clue, but i was somewhat prepared, I was suspecting this to come, but in her emails she gave me just enough hope that there wast still a chance... . I felt like **** yesterday, but I'm not really depressed anymore, i'm getting used to this ;)

But she didn't gave me any reason, I hadn't see her for a couple of weeks, she was on a vacation, but yesterday she came to me, kiss on the cheeks (wtf!?!) and started talikng to me like nothing was changed, in this conversation she mentioned this cute guy she had met on this vacation (at this moment I didn't know what/how to react) , and went on with talking like nothing was going on... showed me some foto's of her little sister... I just acted likeI didn't care and didnt say much, just looked at her untill she went away.

I'm really pissed that she can tell me this like she doesnt give any **** about my feelings, she knew that I liked her alot. It showed to me that she hadn't any fcking respect for my feelings, and i really want to tell her that she has no style for showing this less off respect to me, I'm not some fvcking chump. Fvck her.
 
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drixsa

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Originally posted by Komodo
How do you guys deal with liking a girl then being rejected by her.I ask beacause I wonder if anyone of you have come up with some new things?
i deal with it by not having that problem at all

i never really let myself care for any girl that i havent known for that long

i never would put my all my hope in one girl that way im never disappointed

when i left for 2-3 weeks over the summer one of the girls i was seeing decided to get back with her ex.

it suprized me that i cared about her at all, since i had 3 others girls at the time

for a day or 2 i was pissed more than anything b/c i felt like i wasnt a good enuf DJ.

it really stopped bothering me when i realized that there were 4-5 better looking woman who were more interesting that wanted my time
 

iqqi

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i just realize that 90 % of the time, no, 99% of the time, if they aren't into you it really doesn't have anything to do with YOU. wrong time, wrong place, wrong body type, just random crap that has nothing to do with who YOU are as a person. maybe some other time it will happen. and hold no anger, cuz it usually isn't their fault that it is the wrong time, place, or what have you.

plus i have too huge an ego to let anyone get me down for too long:D
 

DJjazzyJeff

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I just think about the times that I have been to Guatemala, mexico and other third world countries and how bad they have it there just makes girls seem a lot less important.
 

PEACEDJ

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I run outside 2 miles. Running cures alot, try running when your crying and everything be better after you ran for a while:D .
 

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Blaaaaaat, your in Amsterdam for crying out loud. Go smoke some pot, drink some shroom tea, drink some alcohol, bang a whor, wake up the next day and repeat as necessary until you have gotton your ex outta your system

By the way, how good is Absinyth? I hear its daaaam good. Its not legal here in the US, but I hear its hella good. For those of you who don't know what absinyth is, its sorta like a beer and shroom ****tail.....:)
 

Starman

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blu you can order absinthe on the net from europe and have it delivered to your door

do a net search for "absinthe online"
 

Blaaaaat

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Originally posted by myfriendblu
Blaaaaaat, your in Amsterdam for crying out loud. Go smoke some pot, drink some shroom tea, drink some alcohol, bang a whor, wake up the next day and repeat as necessary until you have gotton your ex outta your system

By the way, how good is Absinyth? I hear its daaaam good. Its not legal here in the US, but I hear its hella good. For those of you who don't know what absinyth is, its sorta like a beer and shroom ****tail.....:)
Haha, I stopped smoking pot 3 years ago, I only smoke once in the 3 months (for a good night sleep). I smoked my last joint in front of a police station, with police officers walking in and out, hehe :) Mushrooms where great (really, there is nothing like mushrooms!!!!!!) but i'm done with the shrooms also. I'm pretty drunk right now, i've been out with about ten friends drinking alot of beer! I don't **** wh0res.. not my style. And time will get my ex out of my system.

But Absinyth??? never heard of it, I've got some "friends" that deal drugs, but Absinyth doesn't sounf formilliar(sp?). Is it something like XTC ???!?
 
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