How do you guys control yourself when it comes to this?

[Paper Crane]

Anytime I'm doing well, getting tons of puss, dating hot girls, etc, I always get this confidence and security to where I just feel like talking to and flirting with more and more women.

Right now I got a perfect situation, and still meeting girls off Tinder and other plates to sleep with. I got in trouble with my main fwb and told myself yo I need to stop this before I mess up everything (Like I usually do). The tables for me certainly have changed as I went from having 2 average plates and not much attention from hotter girls to having sex daily and multiple plates that I would have never dreamed of having before.

However being a "serial dater" I've had so many girls just up and leave after some point or just cut things off. While I dont care about that stuff anymore I know that I need to relax a bit. But I find that the more I've been having sex, the more sexual I am throughout the day. I can imagine this is what its like to be sex addicted. Best part, is , women are so receptive to me now. The same flirty stuff that would get awkward smiles or uncomfortable body language before has turned into girls holding their smiles for a long time, staring dead into my eyes/at me or laughing at trivial stuff.

 

[SirBigBell]

Anytime I'm doing well, getting tons of puss, dating hot girls, etc, I always get this confidence and security to where I just feel like talking to and flirting with more and more women.

Right now I got a perfect situation, and still meeting girls off Tinder and other plates to sleep with. I got in trouble with my main fwb and told myself yo I need to stop this before I mess up everything (Like I usually do). The tables for me certainly have changed as I went from having 2 average plates and not much attention from hotter girls to having sex daily and multiple plates that I would have never dreamed of having before.

However being a "serial dater" I've had so many girls just up and leave after some point or just cut things off. While I dont care about that stuff anymore I know that I need to relax a bit. But I find that the more I've been having sex, the more sexual I am throughout the day. I can imagine this is what its like to be sex addicted. Best part, is , women are so receptive to me now. The same flirty stuff that would get awkward smiles or uncomfortable body language before has turned into girls holding their smiles for a long time, staring dead into my eyes/at me or laughing at trivial stuff.

There are certain things about dating that are hard to pin down scientifically, and this is one of them. Women subconsciously can smell your appeal to and success with other women, and dive in for a peace of the action. The more pvssy you conquer, the more other women want you.

I have experienced this phenomenon in the past myself. Between 2008 and 2010, i had a consistent rotation of 7 plates, hitting one plate each day of the week. It got to a point where physically I was constantly tired from fvcking. I burnt out and the fun from it started to dwindle. It started to feel like a job, and thus i started to drop plates to create rest time.

I know exactly the dynamic you are describing.

 

[Paper Crane]

There are certain things about dating that are hard to pin down scientifically, and this is one of them. Women subconsciously can smell your appeal to and success with other women, and dive in for a peace of the action. The more pvssy you conquer, the more other women want you.

I have experienced this phenomenon in the past myself. Between 2008 and 2010, i had a consistent rotation of 7 plates, hitting one plate each day of the week. It got to a point where physically I was constantly tired from fvcking. I burnt out and the fun from it started to dwindle. It started to feel like a job, and thus i started to drop plates to create rest time.

I know exactly the dynamic you are describing.

I for sure can learn from that. I'm pretty big on nutrition, science, spirituality, etc and from a neurological standpoint, I know that having sex really often can kinda leave you mentally drained of happy chemicals. Did you experience anything like that? I also know from a biological standpoint that the semen contains tons of nutrients. To combat that I've been eating alot of nutrient rich foods, lots of salmon, vegetables, fruits, etc. I also take some supplements but nothing major.

 

[SirBigBell]

I for sure can learn from that. I'm pretty big on nutrition, science, spirituality, etc and from a neurological standpoint, I know that having sex really often can kinda leave you mentally drained of happy chemicals. Did you experience anything like that? I also know from a biological standpoint that the semen contains tons of nutrients. To combat that I've been eating alot of nutrient rich foods, lots of salmon, vegetables, fruits, etc. I also take some supplements but nothing major.

I dont know if I could say I felt drained of happy chemicals, but i certainly felt physically tired of the whole routine. I was fvcking one bird a day 7 days a week for 2 years straight. For a guy who lasts at least 40mins a round, thats quite a lot of work. And you have to remember that with each one it wasnt just a case of hello, bang bang, bye bye. I had to give them the full nine yards of the girlfriend experience: entertaining, going to the movies, out for meals etc. Doing that every evening after work and then dropping 2hours of top notch sex afterwards. It took its toll.

As any young cat out there, i wanted as much pvssy as I could get. But when the abundance came it all became too much. It became a job and I started to yearn for oneitis. Be careful what you wish for guys

 

[mrgoodstuff]

There are certain things about dating that are hard to pin down scientifically, and this is one of them. Women subconsciously can smell your appeal to and success with other women, and dive in for a peace of the action. The more pvssy you conquer, the more other women want you.

I have experienced this phenomenon in the past myself. Between 2008 and 2010, i had a consistent rotation of 7 plates, hitting one plate each day of the week. It got to a point where physically I was constantly tired from fvcking. I burnt out and the fun from it started to dwindle. It started to feel like a job, and thus i started to drop plates to create rest time.

I know exactly the dynamic you are describing.

It's very true, it becomes part of your image and they can sense it. Your actions and behaviors will be calibrated differently if you are getting pvssy when you want it.

 

[FuzzX]

Question, have you ever met anyone that you enjoy being with AFTER SEX?

It's easy to control when you value someone as more than just a pair of tits when you're horny.

Can you imagine cheating on your best buddy, stabbing him in the back and then walking away? No, it's the same when you meet the right girl.

10 one's do not equal 1 ten.

 

[Lookatu]

I don't know and wonder about you young bucks sometimes. You are only 25 so wondering what you have to look forward to later in life if you are going this fast? A lot of guys end up burning out, not being able to be sexually satisfied in the long run(ltr, marriage), start having ED problems earlier than normal(in their 30's), etc.

I know you don't want to hear it and my younger self would've been the same. But knowing what I know now, I always advocate it is better to sleep with one girl many times rather than sleep with many girls one time for young guys. This is long term thinking and is more sustainable to maintaining happiness in the long run with someone and feeling fulfilled.

As @FuzzX said, it is far less damaging long term if you found a cool girl that you ACTUALLY liked beyond just sex. This bring more meaning and fulfillment and damages you less in the long run IMO.

I'm of the belief that this kind of lifestyle can be more damaging for younger guys because they are still discovering it. But once you have lived a certain amount of life(LTR, marriage, kids), it is less damaging for guys like @Espi if one chooses that lifestyle later in life. My $.02

OP, you should come back to this thread 10 years from now and see if you agree or have changed your mindset. That would be interesting.

 

[EyeBRollin]

DISCLAIMER: I'm old (50).

3 plates MAX at a time has been my mantra for the past 10 years or so.

Seems like anything more than that, for me, is just a waste of my time and energy.

I agree with this and I’m only 31. Three is my limit. I try to keep the pipeline open at least. Though I recently stumbled into an LTR and am realizing the financial benefits of not having to take multiple broads out in a week.

 

[TheProspect]

I've had to resort to saying 'Baby' during sex out of fear I'll say the wrong name to the wrong girl.

Lmao same bro, I've learned the hard way multiple times!

I once called a chick by her sister's name and I never even hooked up with her sister so I don't even know how I managed that, but the sex promptly stopped lol

 

[TheProspect]

I agree with this and I’m only 31. Three is my limit. I try to keep the pipeline open at least.

I agree with both of you, and I'm only 27 lol.

Outside of logistics, I easily mix up what I've said to who and frequently have an interaction like this or similar to this,

Me: "I thought I told you that?"
Chick: "Umm... That must have been some other chick"

Lol. Not that I hide anything or mislead them, they know I currently date non-exclusively, but with a plate I usually have some degree of companionship, otherwise I don't enjoy being around them if they aren't fun to be around beyond sex.

Though I recently stumbled into an LTR

Interesting. You are exclusive with her? When did this start and how's it going?

 

[EyeBRollin]

I agree with both of you, and I'm only 27 lol.

Outside of logistics, I easily mix up what I've said to who and frequently have an interaction like this or similar to this,

Me: "I thought I told you that?"
Chick: "Umm... That must have been some other chick"

Lol. Not that I hide anything or mislead them, they know I currently date non-exclusively, but with a plate I usually have some degree of companionship, otherwise I don't enjoy being around them if they aren't fun to be around beyond sex.

I’ve done this a lot and it’s hilarious how much an honest mistake helps you. I’ve called plates the wrong name, got birthdays messed up, etc. Women are so deranged LOL

Interesting. You are exclusive with her? When did this start and how's it going?

Two weeks ago. She got real aggressive in her pursuit. Stepped up the pursuing. Cooked. Introduced me to her family. Then she pinned me down and said no more girlfriend benefits until you get rid of your other girls. I demanded her phone and she let me go through her social media and dating inboxes. Whatsapp, everything. The rest is history.

 

[RickTheToad]

Anytime I'm doing well, getting tons of puss, dating hot girls, etc, I always get this confidence and security to where I just feel like talking to and flirting with more and more women.

Right now I got a perfect situation, and still meeting girls off Tinder and other plates to sleep with. I got in trouble with my main fwb and told myself yo I need to stop this before I mess up everything (Like I usually do). The tables for me certainly have changed as I went from having 2 average plates and not much attention from hotter girls to having sex daily and multiple plates that I would have never dreamed of having before.

However being a "serial dater" I've had so many girls just up and leave after some point or just cut things off. While I dont care about that stuff anymore I know that I need to relax a bit. But I find that the more I've been having sex, the more sexual I am throughout the day. I can imagine this is what its like to be sex addicted. Best part, is , women are so receptive to me now. The same flirty stuff that would get awkward smiles or uncomfortable body language before has turned into girls holding their smiles for a long time, staring dead into my eyes/at me or laughing at trivial stuff.

Stop caring what they think, as you are, and just plow through the females as you were. Just be forewarned, keep doing that and you'll start to look at females the way the toad does... Sex options and possible offspring; nothing more. They are basically a vessel to me. I don't like to think that way, but that is what happens when you go through a enough of them and are just basically numb.

 

[TheProspect]

I’ve done this a lot and it’s hilarious how much an honest mistake helps you.

Lol it's funny too because I ain't even trying to stir competition anxiety or apply deliberate game I literally just get fvcking mixed up and get "caught" but you're definitely right in that it helps, seeing that it's a sincere mistake that shows you have options

Two weeks ago. She got real aggressive in her pursuit. Stepped up the pursuing. Cooked. Introduced me to her family. Then she pinned me down and said no more girlfriend benefits until you get rid of your other girls. I demanded her phone and she let me go through her social media and dating inboxes. Whatsapp, everything. The rest is history.

Boom! Nice bro. Hope you enjoy it in the moment, whether it works out or not.