how do you get the attention of the girl everyone else is giving the attention 2?

[Not Quite There]

ok, your in a bar or club, there is a real stunner, shes getting a lot of attention and she knows it.... obviously you want to stand out by NOT giving her the attention, but you still got to get her initial attention on you. any ideas?

 

[Helter Skelter]

Pretend your a really good looking guy.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Also you could say, "Isn't it really cool being from the same area as the fab four"

 

[Helter Skelter]

If that's to sutle you could say

"Isn't it really cool being from the same area as the Beatles"

gauge her reaction and then proceed.

 

[Not Quite There]

lol, trust me that line would never work in liverpool.

i don't think young people in liverpool generally care about the beatles anymore.

liverpool is its own differnt culture, hard to explain, best to see it ona saturday night when literally the whole city goes out! when all the girls come out in the shortest skirts ever, so much fake tan they look orange and died blond hair everywhere!!!

mutton dressed as lamb i think.

 

[Helter Skelter]

Or you could say a guy from the internet by the name of Helter Skelter told me I should say this to you.

fill in the blank____________________________________

Or you could say "so what's your favorite Beatle song"
answer______blah blah

Then you could say mine is "Helter Skelter"

 

[Helter Skelter]

Ok, I'm outta ideas..........anyone else?????

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by Not Quite There
ok, your in a bar or club, there is a real stunner, shes getting a lot of attention and she knows it.... obviously you want to stand out by NOT giving her the attention, but you still got to get her initial attention on you. any ideas?

what i would recommend in this case is to go next to her and order a drink... then when the barman asks you to pay, you point to her and say "she's paying for it".. this will immediatelly get her attention, and when she sais something along the lines of " excuse me? no i'm not paying for it!" then u pay for it while looking at her and saying "Well done" and u walk away.

At this point she will be thinking " what in the world was that about? and why did he just say " Well Done" to me? " Now as you can see, she is already thinking about you and NOT about the other guys staring at her...

Now.. Later on at the club/bar etc keep an eye on her and make sure that u run into her again, and when u do she will 99% look at you and expect you to say something, so this is when u call her over to come closer to you, and when she comes u say " is there a reason u are looking at me funny?" and then she will start to open up and say something like " Well i was wondering what that was about at the bar, and why did u say "well done?"" so u say something like " so you are saying that only guys can buy WOMEN drinks?" and then she will say something like " well no, but that was kinda random and i dont even know you" ( she might also add that its rude) and then u go on to say " well maybe buying me a drink would contribute in getting to know me" (after saying that u give her a little wink) and then she will probably ask " and why did u say well-done?" ( if she doesnt bring it up, then u can, but she probably WILL ) then u say " well the last time i said to the barman that the lady was paying for the drink she did without questioning me or anything, and i dont like that about a girl, i like a woman that will stand up for herself, but after questioning me and standing up for herself, it would still be great if she ended up buying me the drink ( end this sentence with a brief "cute" laugh)

After saying all that, u can start talking about general stuff and even ask her to dance with you... then after spending some time with her u get her number and maybe more

Well anyways... this technique has worked pretty well on MOST of the girls that i have used this on, so give it a try and let me know how it goes

Laterz...

 

[rhsarrow17]

simple:

make it obvious that you're not gonna give her your attention. if shes being crowded by guys and theres no chance of her even noticing you, just approach her and mention how it seems like shes "busy fighting off guys, so if [she'd] give [you] [her] number," you could save the getting to know each other for another time.

 

[rhsarrow17]

Originally posted by rhsarrow17
simple:

make it obvious that you're not gonna give her your attention. if shes being crowded by guys and theres no chance of her even noticing you, just approach her and mention how it seems like shes "busy fighting off guys, so if [she'd] give [you] [her] number," you could save the getting to know each other for another time.

oh yeah I forgot to add

and IMMEDIATELY walk away like you dont give a ****.

 

[Climax]

Originally posted by rhsarrow17
simple:

make it obvious that you're not gonna give her your attention. if shes being crowded by guys and theres no chance of her even noticing you, just approach her and mention how it seems like shes "busy fighting off guys, so if [she'd] give [you] [her] number," you could save the getting to know each other for another time.

what makes you think that she would just give you ( a total stranger ) her number? For all she knows, ur just ANOTHER guy asking her for her number

 

[*29*]

Just walk up to another girl and bust on her. Because you're such an awesome DJ, you both will be having fun and laughing. Make sure the popular girls sees this. She'll then be interested to see what it's like to interact with you in person, call it jealousy if you will. If she doesn't, it's her loss.

 

[AFK Protector]

Originally posted by *29*
Just walk up to another girl and bust on her. Because you're such an awesome DJ, you both will be having fun and laughing. Make sure the popular girls sees this. She'll then be interested to see what it's like to interact with you in person, call it jealousy if you will. If she doesn't, it's her loss.

good stuff. All the guys on this HB9.9 means you have free 9.8s and all the shat under that.

that rhymed!

anyways, also maybe walk by smile and wink and say, "let me know if you need a stick to beat htem off" or some **** to show you see her and acknowledge her popularity, but then go on with the night and paaarrttaayy.

 

[spidersense]

nice suggestion aequitas, that puts you in the place of having the power

 

[spidersense]

a very important thing to remember, is that YOU DON'T CARE if she gives you attention. And if you do, work on that. So what if she does or doesn't like you, there are 1000000 other women out there, and many of them are hotter, that you can get.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Originally posted by Not Quite There
ok, your in a bar or club, there is a real stunner, shes getting a lot of attention and she knows it.... obviously you want to stand out by NOT giving her the attention, but you still got to get her initial attention on you. any ideas?

Drop a hankerchief and bend over slowly to pick it up and see if she stares at your buttocks and offers to pick it up for you!

Do what normal men do and approach and tell her that you would like to see her in a more private setting - say, "give me your digits and lets arrange a rendezvous point!!"

 

[alphamale1]

aequitas nice response.

I agree with aequitas response

however i think when u say that thing about the
she's paying for it".. this will immediatelly get her attention, and when she sais something along the lines of " excuse me? no i'm not paying for it!" then u pay for it while looking at her and saying "Well done" and u walk away.

i like it.....its different and its knocking her off the pedestal she has put herself on.

Maybe after that dont look at her. Dont even analyse her, walk past at her like she doesnt exist. this will mess with her mind and make her think 'why isnt he looking at me. am i not hot enough or had this guy ****ed hotter women than me, does he not blondes? does he prefer brunettes' The exception to this rule is u must be hot or sexy or good looking or tall dark handsome or tall and handsome. No chick is going to stare at a guy who is butt ugly unless she sees that when u walk,u mean it.

nice aequitas..

Ben

 

[sixtyfwee]

I like aequitas suggestion, I may steal that

I would probably use a Ross Jeffries opener here:

'Thats a lot of attention your getting, but tell me this..... (long pause) If I were to approach you, and your REALLY want to meet me, what would I say?'

Give her answer straight back to her, in the same tone, wording, and posture

This usually gets a smile. Then:

'Isn't is better when you get EXACTLY what you want (self point), its a shame all those other guys (gesture away) dont GET IT'

Then fluff, or pattern or what ever...

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

no helter, you got it wrong, you say "isnt it fun to be a scoucer" "make with the tea jeeves" now what happened to the thread about tea.

ok now for real, what you got to dois apporch her, but do not give a sh!t about her do not make her out to be a princess, neg hit her lightly if she is 'up herself' basicly stand out from the crowd

just an exmaple, but if she was to sya she is a model just say somthing like "ouch thats tough, wouldt wana be in your shoes" she will be like "whats that supsoed to mean" and you just say "oh nothing dont wory, i just feel soprry for you"

so basicly do not make her seem so grand, make her work for your approval.

 

[Climax]

Sounds like fun...

Just 1 more thing that i read somewhere once which i have not tried yet, but seems to be a fun idea...

Make a little card that sais " Smile if you want to sleep with me"

Most chicks will not be able to help it and they will smile. A very attractive woman wouldnt expect a guy to do this kind of thing, and she will also be attracted by your confidence.. so ya... After this she will be in a joking mood etc and then the 2 of you could get to know eachother a little better and do what u wanna do Sounds like fun and i think that i'll actually try it sometime soon

Laterz...