how do you get a gril to climax during sex?

[lordson]

now i havn't been getting much outta my LTR becuase she just hasnt been wanting to do it that often anymore

and my theory is that she doesn't climax much whenever we have sex

i reckon she would about 5% of the time, and i have no idea how to fix it

i always finish her off with my fingers afterwards though, and shell climax about 70% of the time on that, the other 30% she tries to fake it, but i can instantly tell, and i just give up and pretend that i didn't know she faked it

she used to always say "we have the best sex" or some variation of that afterwards, even if she didn't climax, but thats stopped in past months

is there anything i possibly do to make her climax during sex? we have 4-5 positions, so its not variation thats problem, and i can last however long i want, but she always encourages me to climax first.

i have a slighlty, emphasis on the SLIGHTLY, smaller than average little man

thanks alot fellas

 

[The Truth]

Foreplay is essential here. I personally like to get her to climax once before sex if possible or bring her very close, because it makes it easier for her to climax again during sex.

Like a boiling pot, it takes time for her to heat up, so have patience!

However it could be HER who is making it difficult. If she's not relaxed enough or not letting go, it will be difficult for her to climax.

 

[Tomatoes]

No worries man. Help is here!!!

2 posts I made a while back im sure will help you with these issues.....

Read them threw.

Post what you think.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102593

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=102274


Sarge On!

 

[SELF-MASTERY]

Get a bigger ****

 

[pooparu]

Well I mean you could always spread some aluminal foil all over the top of the grill and just smother some nice olive oil all over then stick it in, that should get it off.


Oh...you meant girl. Woops.

 

[Vulpine]

lordson, the answer is far more simple than you are making it seem.

The question is not "how to during" because you have the order of events mixed up. You don't ever "finish up with..." because you should've "started out with...", follow?

If you get the woman off before, then she'll continue to get off during. The extra foreplay pays off in three (or more) ways:
1. She'll be getting off, not just once - likely more.
2. When a woman has an orgasm, the vagina becomes engourged with blood and the cervix drops closer to the vaginal opening. What this means to you is that if you get her off BEFORE intercourse, her puzzy will be tighter, and you will hit her cervix with your d!ck (known as "cervix tapping"). This not only makes you seem "bigger" to her, but also gets her off more (not to mention feels better for you).
3. Since she already got off, it doesn't matter how long you last: you already got the job done.

Get her off before intercourse and all your problems are solved.

 

[Bible_Belt]

That's good advice. Make her go first, even if she has to rest a little afterward.

When you get her off with your hands, are your fingers inside her or outside? afaik, most women tend to be most affected by either inside/G spot/vaginal stimulation, or outside ****oral stimulation. Whatever you are hitting to make her cvm with your hands, G spot or ****oris, try to do the same thing during sex, even if you have to use your hands at the same time.

 

[Shiftkey]

Learn about the g-spot and angle your d1ck so that you're hitting it.

 

[GirlCrazy]

Get her off before intercourse and all your problems are solved.

Put a different way:

Get her off before intercourse, and the whole experience for her will be one continuous orgasm.

Learn about the g-spot and angle your d1ck so that you're hitting it.

Most women I've talked to about this have never had a "g-spot orgasm" which is a shame. It takes a while to perfect the angle, but it's well worth the learning curve. Also depending on a few factors, sometimes you can get to the g-spot with your finger(s).

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

1. Women *** from all the things OUTSIDE of sex. If you prime her pump, then she'll get off later. Picture her like a bullseye and tantalize EVERYWHER but the DEAD center. When that's so hot and warm and expecting, STILL delay touch. Only when she's begging, MIGHT you give in. You might not give in and continue to bang her mind, and heighten her emotions. Sometimes, of course, it's nice to have a quicky, but this is for those moments you don't WANT a quicky and she can get off.

2. Sex is everything BUT getting off. Think about it...When you're shagging, the END is perhaps the worst part, UNLESS she's teasing you with a facial or she wants to drink your man juice. Other than that, as a man, you're delighting in her bouncing breasts, her wobbling ass, the penetration. All that. As is she. Keep that going. The act of having sex IS way more fun than cumming because if it was only about cumming, then it would be comparable to jerking off with a cute girl.

3. Incorporate a vibrator you can put on her **** somehow.

4. Don't use routines. Mix it up.

5. Read about the female anatomy.

6. IF she's a clean chick, or a nice girl, start off where she's comfortable, BUT push her ecstasy limits. If she ONLY likes missionary in a bed room with the lights off...then make it the BEST she's ever had. Over sessions, incorporate adventurous and exciting things. See if she fantasizes. Most women do. I have a buddy who makes women into SPERM vampires, and does so by gradually racheting it up. He'll find a girl who doesn't like HEAD, who then LOVES sperm on her ice cream sundaes! And believe me, he understands the psyche well enough to do this and replicate it. Mostly he begins by JUST giving, and giving, and giving to her. Eventually it's the point she breaks and wants to give back. He also ties HIS giving with HEAD, and pleasure, so she associates (like Pavlov's dogs) PLEASURE of getting, to GIVING. The ever-increasing head she receives dwarfs the head she GIVES.

Most times, a woman's aversion to something is JUST BAD PROGRAMMING. If she can't *** from sex, normally it's b/c sex is all wrong in her head, or she had a bad 1st time, or she may have even been abused. If she doesn't like giving head, then perhaps it was because her old bf forced her to do it, or never responded by giving back. Many times what IS pleasurable is deemed not pleasurable MERELY by our associated MEMORIES and FEELINGS of it. Some girls don't like the idea of ANAL just because it sounds dirty. But there's LOTS of dirty things people do that have some pleasure to it. Drugs, smoking, drinking, even drinking games which are very gross (like beer pong), are very dirty, but to those who love them, they've made great memories of these acts.



A-Unit

 

[Vulpine]

Most women I've talked to about this have never had a "g-spot orgasm" which is a shame. It takes a while to perfect the angle, but it's well worth the learning curve. Also depending on a few factors, sometimes you can get to the g-spot with your finger(s).

Gave a chick one last night. She said, and this is a direct quote:

HBRose: "I've never felt like that before."
V: *Burrrp* "Hmmph. You're welcome."

I don't think it's a shame, in fact, I'm glad. If everyone could hand out O's to chicks, my value wouldn't be nearly as high.
:nervous:

 

[Brian20o2]

V: *Burrrp* "Hmmph. You're welcome."

:crackup: Best reponse ever!