How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"?
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abe0
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I tend to respond to the first text by being polite...."doing well, thanks for asking"....I do not ask how they are doing nor ask any further questions to invite a wasteful conversation. If they text back again...I ignore and hopefully they get the message. If I really do not care at all because she is truly an attention grabbing b+tch....then I totally ignore so that they GO AWAY. Abe
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How do you deal with girls that just want to be "friends"? --> YOU DON'T.
Men with options who are spinning plates don't have time to be a faggot beta orbiter for some arrogant attention wh0re.
Men with options who are spinning plates don't have time to be a faggot beta orbiter for some arrogant attention wh0re.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
TheGambino
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Dude spin plates, I got so many plates going on I don't even remember who I put on the backburner, all uninterested ones or the ones that give me a hard time are on the backburner. Find interested girls man, hot interested girls are everywhere, approach and get what you want bro.
Chasing a girl that's giving you a hard time in any way isn't worth your time.
And tbh, I was friendzoned many times in the past coz the girls liked my company but I never made moves or was sexual so that was my own mistake. If you make sexual jokes, kino her, kiss her, seduce her, basically making moves you can't be friendzoned coz every girl will feel you want to nail her. She either goes along with it or comes up with excuses, flakes or ignores you (NO INTEREST). They will go ghost on you or bang you, it's that easy man. Guys friendzone themselves.
If you want this girl you gotta make moves. Hook up, kino, tease, escalate. It's that easy, if she refuses or declines or says 'stop were just friends' you either accept that if you can handle it and you keep her around so she can introduce you to her friends. Or you just cut contact, you reply very short and always be busy when you see her or she contacts you. She will eventually feel like you got other women in your life going on and stop chasing you. Whatever happens this girl is giving you a hard time so do what works best for you, she's toying with ya
Chasing a girl that's giving you a hard time in any way isn't worth your time.
And tbh, I was friendzoned many times in the past coz the girls liked my company but I never made moves or was sexual so that was my own mistake. If you make sexual jokes, kino her, kiss her, seduce her, basically making moves you can't be friendzoned coz every girl will feel you want to nail her. She either goes along with it or comes up with excuses, flakes or ignores you (NO INTEREST). They will go ghost on you or bang you, it's that easy man. Guys friendzone themselves.
If you want this girl you gotta make moves. Hook up, kino, tease, escalate. It's that easy, if she refuses or declines or says 'stop were just friends' you either accept that if you can handle it and you keep her around so she can introduce you to her friends. Or you just cut contact, you reply very short and always be busy when you see her or she contacts you. She will eventually feel like you got other women in your life going on and stop chasing you. Whatever happens this girl is giving you a hard time so do what works best for you, she's toying with ya
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You ignore these attention wh0res. Simple.
Case closed.
Case closed.
Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
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So if you're her friend you're automatically a level 60 beta orbiter? Ahaha. OP if you want to be friends with them then be friends with them. If you get friend zoned then stopped talking to them.PlayHer Man said:
Simple.
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Good one bro.....lolskinnyguy said:
PlayHer Man
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Let them try. Why would you care what a woman you're not f*cking thinks?teddy said:
That's a serious question you should ask yourself.
VladPatton
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As the other guys said, you simply don't deal with them. There is NOTHING in it for you except time lost and empty infatuation. Hey if you like them talking about how they just blew their cool new boyfriend while you hold their bag in front of Victoria's Secret as she goes shopping, more power to ya.
For the majority of us, we find that en exhausting waste of time.
Next time just say you can't make it because you met a new chick and she's treating you to a night of hot, wild hotel sex. Give zero details and say you gotta go. No details when they ask about it later, either.
For the majority of us, we find that en exhausting waste of time.
Next time just say you can't make it because you met a new chick and she's treating you to a night of hot, wild hotel sex. Give zero details and say you gotta go. No details when they ask about it later, either.
