How do you deal with AFC's who raise women to an even higher pedestal?

[coh]

It's clear that women are in fact on pedestals, and I think "pedestal" is on the top 10 of the most used words on these forums.

Problem is, how do you deal with guys who think that girls should be treated better? it's hard to turn an AFC into a DJ in a single conversation, and it really gets on my nerves when some stubborn AFC acts like he "understands" your point of view on this subject, and then goes back to treating all women like queens and ****.

 

[Kineti[C]harm]

Challenge him for a duel.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by GigaloDJ
I don't bother with trying to explain to them.

But go to the mall with them and bet them money who can pick up the hottest girls.

I agree, some people aren't meant to understand. Don't feel that as a DJ it is your job to convert them. Understand that DJs have nothing to prove, they let their actions speak for themselves.

 

[OpenMind]

Why even care? Take care of yourself first, if someone wants to change they will let you know.. you can lead a horse to water but you cant make him drink.. more AFC's = more women for DJ's and less competition

 

[NewMan]

who cares? that leaves less competition.

 

[Oxide]

Trust me man, DO NOT PAY ANY ATTENTION or try to change him.

I have oh so many experiences with trying to turn AFC's in one night. guess what, most of them are negative.


Why? Well,first. when u are trying to HELP someone without them asking for help, the person feels defensive, becuase he doesnt wish to change just yet.

then, remeber when u got to this board.. u didnt change in one day,. so u wont be able to change the person in one day either.

Just keep it cool, dont boast about ladies, dont show off (u should know this) resepect the guy, dont make fun of him or hate him for being blind ( i used to...)


As long as u keep to yourself and get the girls, they will be the ones coming ASKING u for advice!

 

[trevor2003]

it pi$$es me off

there are so many AFC's who have one-it-is with a few girls i know!

these guys are making these girls have even bigger egos than they already have........it sucks!

i wouldn't tell any of the AFC's about this site though, nobody showed me the way, i had to find this site/learn the rules by myself!

it's dog eat dog, survival of the fittest

 

[Oxide]

trevor. read my post again.

 

[legolas]

Originally posted by coh
It's clear that women are in fact on pedestals, and I think "pedestal" is on the top 10 of the most used words on these forums.

Problem is, how do you deal with guys who think that girls should be treated better? it's hard to turn an AFC into a DJ in a single conversation, and it really gets on my nerves when some stubborn AFC acts like he "understands" your point of view on this subject, and then goes back to treating all women like queens and ****.

Remember, AFCs who raise women to a really, really, realy high level are gay. Just think of why gays just love Cher, or Barbara Streisand, or Oprah, all women with glamorous careers. My theory anyway. So use that to your advantage.

 

[Player_Supreme]

Originally posted by coh
It's clear that women are in fact on pedestals, and I think "pedestal" is on the top 10 of the most used words on these forums.

Problem is, how do you deal with guys who think that girls should be treated better? it's hard to turn an AFC into a DJ in a single conversation, and it really gets on my nerves when some stubborn AFC acts like he "understands" your point of view on this subject, and then goes back to treating all women like queens and ****.

You don't. You let them stay in their own little worlds. It's not up to you to save your friends. I have an old friend who thinks I'm a dog....and he is black too...but unfortunately he was raised in a catholic school....and forgot what color he was...

Leave em alone eventually they will either get married and symped out or they will wake up to reality one day.

 

[dietzcoi]

I would not try to change the AFCs... no point to trying it.

BUT, the problem is the AFCs are in the way. They flock to women and c0ck block. That is the issue here. I don't know the solution but I feel the frustration. I go to my ski club meetings and the AFCs surround the hot women six deep... you physically cannot penetrate thru them. They are chumps and they are in the way.

No answers but I understand the frustration. These AFCs are the ones who give the HB b1tches their attitudes to begin with

Dietzcoi

 

[( . )( . )]

I go to my ski club meetings and the AFCs surround the hot women six deep... you physically cannot penetrate thru them.

LOL so true, i picture them as hungry wolves..........except wolves have a clue.

 

[Cremasta]

Don't try to deal with anything.

Let them fawn over and compliment all these beautiful women while you pull the pi$$ out of them (the women I mean). Watch you friends scratch their heads when the hotties all come and talk to you instead of them.

If these AFC's ask 'just what is it about you?', tell them upfront what your mindset is when talking to women, but don't bother trying to convince them to do the same, they need to teach themselves. In the meantime... more for you!