How do you deal with a girl who is hot and quiet?

[nsxjg80]

I'm at a loss here. I know that to go out with a hot girl, it's different and you have to get them to want you but I don't know how to get a hot girl to want you so anyway, I've been talking to this girl a little, just being nice and stuff since I don't really know her, she is really good looking and a lot of people think so, but now I want to start picking up the pace a bit but I don't know what to do. I don't know how to deal with a girl who is hot and quiet. What should I do? What should you do with a girl that is quiet? All help is greatly appreciated.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

any other details?

she can be quiet and... nice... or sassy... or a b1tch...

more details please.

i can help maybe since i had a KINDA similar thing.

 

[nsxjg80]

any other details?

she can be quiet and... nice... or sassy... or a b1tch...

more details please.

i can help maybe since i had a KINDA similar thing.

I've talked her a few times and she seems incredibly nice, she's just quiet. When I talk to her she doesn't really ask me any questions but elaborate a bit on things I asked her. This kid told me she's a preppy b1tch, but I've seen no evidence of that, at least when I talked to her so I want to keep talking to her and find out more.

 

[Michele l'Arcangelo]

not much to say to you.

either...

1) she doesn't like you... in that kind of way.

or

2) you need to GET HER talking. read www.sosuave.com's Articles, Quick Tips, and/or Hall of Fame ... and conversation topics in the The DJ Bible

here's a hint... people LOVE talking about themselves... now read the above links to learn how properly converse about the person you're talking about. (some people have no idea how... and ask RANDOM questions in a row that aren't relevant to the previous question... they have horrible game.)

pretty much read up on it before you force her to lose interest with boring conversations.

 

[The Shocker]

with quieter girls it's better to turn down the C+F and turn up the rapport/comfort. Advice I need to remember, because I have trouble decreasing the C+F...

 

[Themanthatcan]

Make fun of her LIGHTLY. You know your in when she slaps your arm or dishes out any kino.

 

[rottweiler_273]

Make fun of her LIGHTLY. You know your in when she slaps your arm or dishes out any kino.

intersting...does anyone think this is the case even when uve been in the friend zone for a long time?

 

[Berlex]

talk to her?

 

[nsxjg80]

talk to her?

I do talk to her when I can. It's kind of rare that I get a chance though, because she is just a pretty quiet person. And since she's naturally a quiet person, I just don't really know what to say.

 

[nicenomore]

Another line you can tell her:

I've noticed you're kind of shy , people may think you're a ***** , but i think you're really a person who likes to know people before revealing themselves to others.
(The point is that you're not afraid to call her out on a *****iness)

Its a golden line from Tyler D , worked for me too...

Explaination by Tyler :
If shes actually a shy girl , she will think "OMG , this guy really understands me

 

[Berlex]

Another line you can tell her:

I've noticed you're kind of shy , people may think you're a ***** , but i think you're really a person who likes to know people before revealing themselves to others.
(The point is that you're not afraid to call her out on a *****iness)

Its a golden line from Tyler D , worked for me too...

Explaination by Tyler :
If shes actually a shy girl , she will think "OMG , this guy really understands me

I gotta watch that movie again, I don't remember that line.

 

[Berlex]

do you have class with her? start talking about the class...ask her if she knows how to do number x on the homework then take it from there

 

[Sachiel]

I say at first, be a bit ****y and Funny, but don't be as full-fledged as if you were talking to a more outgoing gal. Almost every woman has enough of a sense of humor to appreciate such humor, but some need it in smaller doses. As she warms up to you, turn up the dial on C+F slowly to keep her interested. Don't go wussy-boy on her just because she's not exactly outgoing. She just doesn't know how to express herself. You can break her out of her shell through this method.

-Sachiel, DJ in Training

 

[nicenomore]

I gotta watch that movie again, I don't remember that line.

Dude , the Tyler I refer too, is Tyler D , founder CEO- Real Social dynamics.
Its not the one from Fight club