Got a first date tomorrow, and I'm fairly excited for it. And I'm pretty sure she's not gonna flake on me (yes, finally) since she called twice in the last 2 days to make sure we were still on (though we did need to postpone our meeting til later in the evening since she had a late meeting come up). But anyways, I don't think I should be too excited when I meet her (I know I'll screw up somehow), so any ideas guys?
How do you calm yourself before a first date?
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The Comeback Kid
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I can help you out here, as I just went on a first date last week:Kal0051 said:
1.) Be mentally prepared. Know where you're going, what you plan on doing, etc. Think of some good conversation starters. If you try to wing it, you're going to be more nervous.
2,) Get a good night's sleep beforehand. Rest will calm you down.
3.) Before the date, play some music you like that gets you ready to go. I wouldn't recommend something like Metallica or Iron Maiden, but something that puts you in a good mood will do the trick.
4.) Take a deep breath. You're the one in control. No way you can go wrong.
Good luck man, let us know how it goes.
scrouds
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booze. 1, maybe 2 drinks if you're really frayed.
chiraag2000
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I agree with comeback.
Just plan some conversation startes. but WING it as well.
dont forget to LISTEN to her. so she knows ur a good listener.and u can continue with the next topic depending on what she says.
try not to be nervous. itll show
Just plan some conversation startes. but WING it as well.
dont forget to LISTEN to her. so she knows ur a good listener.and u can continue with the next topic depending on what she says.
try not to be nervous. itll show
Bible_Belt
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1.) Be mentally prepared. Know where you're going, what you plan on doing, etc.
Agreed. Not only should you plan, but also make backup plans. When taking a girl out, always have a Plan B in case sh!t happens.
Then of course never talk about any of your preparation while with the girl. It will be obvious when things go well. Always know what you want to do. Women are natural followers.
Agreed. Not only should you plan, but also make backup plans. When taking a girl out, always have a Plan B in case sh!t happens.
Then of course never talk about any of your preparation while with the girl. It will be obvious when things go well. Always know what you want to do. Women are natural followers.