How do women really feel attracted and choose a man

[latino158]

Contrary of what some might say, this is really how a woman feels attracted to a man even though they would never admit it.

What a woman evaluates, even before you think about approaching her, is at first: height, hair, eye color, muscle mass, beauty of the face, chin, jaw and volume underneath the pants. Second step, she observes details that give clues of your financial situation such as, an expensive watch, your phone and your car (she will try to find clues of your financial position even in times of dialogue: she wants to know if you know many places, exotic food, etc.)

Then she compares you with other possible male competitors that surround her, to know if you’re among the best, among the average or among the worst. In less than three seconds, she has evaluated all these factors from you, now she’s done with this diagnosis.

If you passed the first test, she will let her guard down and be easy for you, and will let you get close and talk a little about you. What she wants is to look at other factors, to whether you are a sucker, or if you’re for months without sex. It comes down to feel whether or not the guy has other women at his disposal. They have a special scent to detect men who are there some time without having sex, and run away from these thirsty seedy men!

If the guy passed these tests, she simply will pretend she was enchanted by his talk and will let you make advances! No mystery!

What if the man failed in preliminary testing? Can he not reverse the situation in approach??
Hardly!

If she felt disgusted and you realize that you are a loser who has no pot to piss on or a beta that is lacking years without sex, her brain has created a lock on you, and she will be angry and irritated at anything you say! She herself will do everything to make you feel embarrassed, she will make jokes after jokes about you, will humiliate you and will leave you dropped without much explanation. She will do anything for you to feel bad for approaching her!

Some may even try to argue: yeah, but some women are harder than others

Bull****! There’s No hard woman out there! What exists is a woman who did not like you, and she will do everything to make your life difficult! If she liked you, she herself will skip some stages of the conquest just to give it up to you fast!

Others argue still: and if I insist, have patience for an hour she will not notice me? I know guys that would be persistent !

If she did not approve of you in the first three seconds she saw you, there is still the possibility that she does not dismiss you completely. You may not be an ideal male for sex; but who knows? You may serve as a sexless spare male, in case her thing with the stud in college, or ther new boss at work doesn’t work out.

Another possibility is to put you in the friendship zone, so she has a male to do favors for her (e.g. dinners, gifts, attention, etc) without her giving anything in return.

 

[Suspens]

Wrong order. It's: height, jaw/chin, muscle mass, hair, volume underneath the pants, eye color

 

[Tictac]

So you're a woman?

LOL.

 

[Suspens]

ja.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I posted a survey and Body physique was number one, face was number 5 out of 8 and hair was 4

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Here it is, not saying its accurate or anything, I do find it interesting
http://i.imgur.com/NqWhhhS.jpg

 

[Suspens]

Interesting results about us short men.

 

[Mike32ct]

Add in hair and skin tone, but otherwise quite accurate.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Agree with the message and the details, especially the part about "hard women".

There are no such things like "hard women" or "aggressive men", it all depends who they have in front of them.

A hard woman to an average joe becomes a flirty one to brad pitt, whoever attend clubs probably saw 100 times the girl sitting glued to her phone with a p1ssed off face which push away dozens of men suddenly put the phone back, smile and dance with a guy that qualifies certain standards with no particular effort from him.

 

[thatfeel]

It's always disturbed me how shallow women are when it comes to sizing men up for sex; the fact that they try to get an immediate grasp on your financial situation to determine your sex worthiness is and will continue to be something that just makes me gape in awe.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Height is overrated....always see the hottest chicks with medium and short sized guys. Hair loss is so common nowadays men can work around that. I see bald dudes bagging chicks left and right and god bless their confidence.

Your physique is the most important factor. I agree with the survery when I see a woman I like I check out their physique first then their face.

 

[Poon King]

Too complex of an analysis by far.

You are spot on when it comes to the physical stuff. But the rest depends on many factors such as the woman's self-esteem, experience, age, attractiveness, etc. compared to you.

I like to keep it simple because men waste WAY too much time over-thinking what makes women tick. AND this is exactly what women want you to do: believe they are complex and unpredictable. WRONG. They are not complex.. just manipulative. If a woman is confusing you.. then you are being manipulated. Simple.

All men need to understand is this: Women care ONLY about your ability to give them what they want. Whatever that may be. All women care about is what you can do for them.

Per example:

-Woman wants kids: Seeks attractive fertile male
-Woman wants resources: Seeks beta male with good career
-Woman wants loyalty and control: Seeks co-dependent emo beta b!tch
-Woman wants safety: Seeks thug or tough guy
-Woman wants status: Seeks famous men, artistic men or powerful men
-Woman wants hot sex: Seeks best looking or most masculine looking man available

And the list goes on. Unlike men who primarly want sex from women at all stages of their lives.. women want different things at different stages.. which explains their hypergamy.

 

[Skyline]

Just remember... Women have different standards on what they find attractive compared to men. Meaning you don't know if you're attractive unless you're gay AND a narcissist.

You can't really look in the mirror and say you're ugly or hot, that would be a little weird because you're qualifying yourself sexually.

Were all greedy and selfish, be the best you can be. Who cares if women are more 'x' than men, that's not what you should even be focusing on.

 

[thatfeel]

Your physique is the most important factor. I agree with the survery when I see a woman I like I check out their physique first then their face.

When you say your physique is the most important factor and then back that up with what YOU like about a woman you're illogically projecting male values onto women.

 

[thatfeel]

just because you have been "quit" happy being single and alone does NOT mean you are still not a needy fvcker.

 

[RangerMIke]

Poon King is correct. Women only really care about what you can do for them, and if you me HER needs. Another thing to keep in mind is that women do not place as much value on honor as men do. Men might feel obligated to do something for someone because of past action.

Not so with women, it really doesn't matter how much you have done for a woman in the past, it's only the now, and what you WILL be doing for her in the future that matters. You do not BANK credit with women, it doesn't matter what you've done in the past, unless it's negative, then it's just ammo for fighting.

Women will start to lose attracting and interest in a man when he STOPS giving her what she wants from him. It doesn't have to be money, it can be sex... heck anything really.

The important thing to know is that there is SOME reason she is with you, if you don't know what it is, then you are one step towards getting pushed aside.

 

[Alexandar]

the girl im currently dating is head over heels into me and i dont give her anything other than sex, i even smoke weed and borrow money from her both of which she despises. and if i stop giving her sex, she will not leave or push me aside cuz she thinks im gorgeous.

so help me figure out what is the SOME thing. Maybe shes just shallow and just my looks is the thing for someone like her? she does tell me i make her feel super sexy cuz of the way i talk about her body and the way i touch it. maybe thats what it is?

 

[Poon King]

Poon King is correct. Women only really care about what you can do for them, and if you me HER needs. Another thing to keep in mind is that women do not place as much value on honor as men do. Men might feel obligated to do something for someone because of past action.

Not so with women, it really doesn't matter how much you have done for a woman in the past, it's only the now, and what you WILL be doing for her in the future that matters. You do not BANK credit with women, it doesn't matter what you've done in the past, unless it's negative, then it's just ammo for fighting.

Women will start to lose attracting and interest in a man when he STOPS giving her what she wants from him. It doesn't have to be money, it can be sex... heck anything really.

The important thing to know is that there is SOME reason she is with you, if you don't know what it is, then you are one step towards getting pushed aside.

REALITY

All men read this post multiple times until it burns into your brain. All women.. yes ALL women are hypergamous and choose men based on their needs and priorities AT THE TIME... which can easy change later and usually do.

You must remain a woman's BEST option indefinitely in order for her to stay committed. Such a thing should NOT be your goal. You should do whatever the f*ck you want at all times because no woman's twaht is worth the level of slavish devotion some co-dependent betas are willing to provide in order to keep a woman from straying.

I say.. when a woman leaves she is doing you a favor. Unless of course.. you were dumb enough to get married. :crackup:

 

[prison/con.net]

yannick, either your English or your grammar/syntax or both, suck so badly that your posts are mostly incomprehensible. and you'll say such a thing to ME at the risk of your being in a wheelchair for the rest of your LIFE.

 

[Poonani Maker]

Pre-1750s, Women, in France especially, would be betrothed to a totally unknown/unSEEN man that her father wanted her married to (maybe the father of the boy he wanted his daughter married to helped him out (politically/financially) in earlier life). All they had were miniature pictures to go by. When they got to America, she would be willing to RUN AWAY and/or disobey or Question her father's wishes rather than to marry some unknown man. HERE is where the chasing after the wild, philanderous dudes came from. She'd have a perfectly "good" boy before her to marry, but would EASILY be caught by the eye of a handsome dashing, daring bloke, who was quick to fight, quick to violence. There was no "in-between." She Now had to have the most edgy most dangerous and most self-destructive guy out there. Maybe he had his own ship (to sail the dangerous seas). With their FREEDOM of thought/action came totally ridiculous expectations on a man.