How do u make a woman feel safe / protected with you?

[Blinky]

I've heard this lots of times from woman that they like a man who makes them feel "safe" or "protected"... but thing is , I don't know how u'd go about making her feel like this with you, I mean if your not a giant.

Any tips?



Cheers Alex

 

[Deep Dark Steel]

Well I personally don't have the problem since I am a giant...but anyway I'd simply carry myself tall. Gain good posture, military stance and whatnot and stick close to her. It seems good enough to make the woman ignore a good deal of the outside world and be wrapped in you.

 

[A-Unit]

Re:

Assertiveness.

Take charge.

Subvert the little voice decrying: "Stop don't, it might hurt!"

Be a rock, emotionally.

Testosterone is the balance to her estrogen. When she's out of whack, don't swing that way. Maintaining cool under most circumstances is a much better way to remain.

It comes down to philosophy on life. It will throw millions of curve balls, will you be rattled everytime one comes whizzing by your head?

I should hope not.

Don't be a chicken little. Nothing is the end of the world, because life is infinite and forever. Were this world to end, there's another thereafter.

Let go of control.

Seek solutions.

I met a girl the other night at a volunteer event/fundraiser. Repeatedly she lost her earrings, and at one point lost her purse while drinking. For any woman, losing a purse is tops of anything to lose (next to virginity), so needless to say she was nervous. When a person enters that state, they don't think about where it was left or how to find it, they think about all the what-ifs. About what COULD happen.

I just went around all the tables and all the people and asked if they found a random bag. Then I asked if the random bags lying around were hers. And went under each table. In about 2 minutes we found it and I received a big kiss for it.

If you don't know the answer, you'll find it.




A-Unit

 

[DeathDealer]

Hold a gun to her face and tell her sternly "NOTHING WILL EVER COME BETWEEN US" - that should make her feel safe.

 

[wildchild]

What you have to do is do little things like open doors for her pull her seat out for her when shes sitting down and make a point of walking on the outside of the road i think this is called chivalry - just dont go over the top.

 

[HKgunslinger]

It's really quite simple. This is the perfect weather for making a woman feel instantly safe (providing you don't live in Florida, Mexico, or Africa, etc.) take a walk with her, or just be outside in the cold weather for an extended period of time. She will get cold. She WILL get cold. Ask her "You getting cold?" "Yes." "Well let's take a break and warm up then." at this point you give her a long warming up hug, paying attention to warming her face, neck, hands, etc. with your chest and arms. This will make her feel about as safe as any woman can ever feel, and will get all kind of romantic thoughts racing throgh her head. Trust me this works, and in ALL cases I have used it it leads to heavy making out and groping. This is probably the main reason Fall and Winter are my favorite seasons, and why I hate Florida.

'Slinger

 

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Originally posted by Blinky
I've heard this lots of times from woman that they like a man who makes them feel "safe" or "protected"... but thing is , I don't know how u'd go about making her feel like this with you, I mean if your not a giant.

Any tips?



Cheers Alex

simple...confidence is all you need...always be optimistic around her..almost with a dont care what happens attitude...avoid fretting around her whether some shyt is rising around the corner....like just be easy never worrying...

another thing is the quality of your hugz...av got a technique of huggin that always works...almost a bear hug ....but dont smother her ..lol..ok ...one arm above her shoulder curving round from one shoulder to the other and the other arm around her waist and draw her to you...

i bet result will be.. like she dont wanna let go...and verses like "i feel safe in yo arms...

ama a slender type a brother by the way but ma galz alwayz come runnin for that all time...swear...

 

[ScrewIt]

once a girl says "you're mean" in a pouty way, then u know u did your deed.