How Do I Respond To "I love you"?

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I've met this girl a few months now and she's hinted a lot that she's "falling for" me, and phrases like that.
I'm pretty sure soon she's gonna tell me she loves me, and although I feel that also, (I'm pretty one-itis tbh) I don't know what the best way to react would be.
I think she has a feeling I love her too, but I've never said that, but she's shown it more than me with things she has said.
If she does say this to me I don't want it to be awkward, and I don't want to just make her feel like she has won me and doesn't need to try anymore.

Will I just say it back straight away, or just ignore and kiss her. I have no idea how to respond if this was to come up...
 

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With a smile, "You're not so bad yourself"

If she keeps pressing you for an answer, act like it's uninteresting and be more curious why she cares so much.
 

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Please on behalf of every guy who has ever been or ever will be friendzoned.

Tell her "Let's just be friends."
 

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Albatross953 said:
Please on behalf of every guy who has ever been or ever will be friendzoned.

Tell her "Let's just be f**k friends."
FIFY
 

CrimsonPanther

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being a guy that rarely says ILY, my response is to simply kiss her when she says it. seems effective.
 

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Albatross953 said:
Please on behalf of every guy who has ever been or ever will be friendzoned.

Tell her "Let's just be friends."
:crackup:
 

SmooveMooves

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Say "I care for you but I'm not sure if I still believe in love. I've been hurt "

Makes you a challenge because now she must "prove love exists"

Creates mystery which in turn sends her interest level through the roof.

Note: Nothings wrong with saying Ily, but I would make sure these conditions are met
1. She says if first
2. You've spent a decent amount of time together
3. You're aware of the emotional attachment these words hold
4. She's high enough quality
5. Number 3 ×'s 2
 

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If a girl tells me ILY and it makes sense i'll say ILY back. To me it really means something if I say it of my own accord. So in reply it's more a courtesy to me lol. It really is a relative term if you think about it. 1 year love is really not the same thing as 10 year love.
 
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