How do I help ditch the AFC bugging my girl?

[Hollowpoint]

(Sorry if this has been done before!)

Turns out this thug Asian guy has interest in my girl. We've been going out for 4 months and I'm not worried at all about her going off with this loser. Now, I probably can't beat his dumbf*ck thick skull in due to potential legal ramifications and the fact he apparently is in a gang of some sort.

She won't answer the phone (at least when I was there, hahaha!) and got real pissed when he called. So what can I do to help this poor loser stop bugging her? (Haven't met him, don't know what he looks like.)

 

[Tails]

how does he have her number? get your gf to meet him some where and instead, go down there yourself and pound that son of a b|tch! i wouldn't do it, but it's a thought, lol. wow, errm, just tell your gf to ignore his calls, that's what i'd do. try not to worry about it.

 

[squirrels]

YOU shouldn't have to do ANYTHING. SHE should blow him off and be done with him. Her ex-boyfriends are none of your concern.

Now if she's told him to stop calling and he continues to harass her, or he's hanging around where she lives and/or making threats, then you may want to get involved for her protection...either through your own fists or through the cops.

Is he REALLY "in a gang" or does he just like to pretend he is? LOL

 

[Hollowpoint]

Thank you for replying?
Maybe read the first post better?


It doesn't seem that he is doing TOO much to bug her. She does ignore his calls. Doesn't seem TOO buggered about him, if she was more, then I'd try to do something more.


"Her ex-boyfriends are none of your concern."
Not an ex. Never said that.



"Is he REALLY "in a gang" or does he just like to pretend he is? LOL"
Like I said, haven't met him, but I've heard he is in one.

 

[Hollowpoint]

I don't think this is clear enough?

My girl IS NOT attracted to him, and wants that guy to leave her alone.

 

[PRMoon]

If this guy isn't really that smart, and your girl isn't leading him on, then he'll probably get fustrated and stop calling her.

Who would keep calling some one who never calls them back? How did he get her number in the first place? If she thinks the guy is a creep then shouldn't he be the last person to get her number?

Do you own nunchaku's? Probably not but it's just a thought.

Anyway a few more details are needed for an accurate response.

 

[Hollowpoint]

More details?

How he got the number? No idea.
She doesn't call back AFAIK.



"Do you own nunchaku's? "


Nunchaku's aren't that good a weapon anyways.
I'm somewhat proficient in sword, staff, long staff, short staff.
Obviously I know how to use a bat or blade.


I also fight contact fights so when it comes down to it I'm ready to throw anything, against anyone or number of people.







Looks like I'll just ride this one out. I'm kinda amused at that guy calling, pisses my girl off and I laugh at it!

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by PizDoff
I don't think this is clear enough?

My girl IS NOT attracted to him, and wants that guy to leave her alone.

does she give her number out to other guys that she is "NOT" attracted to?

 

[PRMoon]

If I were gonna fight him I'd just go with weighted brass knucks.
I've praticed weapons form too but he'll probably see ya coming with middle weaponry. You probalby wanna think small.

Hmm no idea about the number eh? I'd ask your girl just to be sure. Other then that I'd just say play the waiting game. If she's not going anywhere then there's really no problem here.

 

[Hollowpoint]

I don't think she gave it to him, I think he got it off someone else.
I'll ask her though.

 

[cactus3178]

Why don't you just call him and tell him to leave her alone and that she's not interested? Better yet, have her call him while your there.

Problem solved.

 

[Crank_It_Up]

Originally posted by cactus3178
Why don't you just call him and tell him to leave her alone and that she's not interested? Better yet, have her call him while your there.

Problem solved.

lol, good point... the conversation would be like this:

Him: Hi hottie, let's go out together....

Her: No thanks, I'm simply not attracted to you

Him: Oh, c'mon, you don't even know me yet....

Her: True, and from what I've seen, I have chosen to never get to know you any better, but thanks anyway.

Him: I'll show you a great time, you'll have lots of fun.

Her: Apparantly you have not mastered the English language, so I'll break it down for ya. The thought of a date with you makes me gag and want to vomit and turn gay.

Him: Oh, I didn't know you were gay, well if you go out with me, I can fix that.

Her: No thanks, you are much to ugly for me, perhaps if I die and come back as a 3 legged dog we might be able to hook up then.

Him: Ok, sounds good, will you call me then?

Her: Idiot! (hangs up phone)

 

[Hollowpoint]

So, seems he hasn't called since that last time, Thurs was it?
And he got her number off someone else's cell phone.

Case closed for now?

 

[ultrashogun]

This typw of thing has happend with my girlfirend numerous times, unless he starts getting aggresive dont do anything, he will go away after some time.

 

[NewMan]

She has to sort this kind of thing out.

It shows her character and how strong a woman she is.

She's going to have these people hitting on her throughout her life - and she needs to learn how to deal with them quickly and effectively.

You should only step in if he becomes aggressive towards her - or starts hounding her constantly.

 

[Hollowpoint]

Edit: "omg, I was slightly piz doff at first, but then now I can barely contain my laughter.....due in part to scorn"



damnit, meet another one tonight (haven't met this guy before)
fooking loser calls twice her cell twice, leaves some whiny shakey message where I could barely hear his name


then later on, comes meets us at an internet cafe, watches her play WC3 for 2 hours, me on the other side playing on her team
She has a section on her MSN for people she doesn't like to talk to, he's on it, and he saw! I laughed at her so hard for that one! (later on)




I was able to discern from his body language and looks at her and me that he is interested in her. Him admiring her and "squaring me up."

Can't I just ****ing kill them all?


She said he is friend-zoned and wants nothing more than friends with him to me. I think the worst part is that she told him about me when he asked her "yes, he is my "casual" boyfriend". I told her that was bad because that means he will then think he has a chance with her.

He also calls her dude and tries to give her advice on a game he has never played? WTF? Hahaha!

 

[Hollowpoint]

I was only on her cell becaused she asked me to clear out some messages......while she was driving.....




omg......now we're both both talking on MSN, 2 am, and she tells me she just ignored two of his calls, holy fook that's overdoing it I think


Edit: Grammar me sucks

 

[Hollowpoint]

Ok I had a nice sleep, hope everyone else did too.
Thank you all for listening to my ranting and putting up with me so far, this forum is great.

 

[true|hockey]

as you probably have infered, this guy is ruining his own chances with this chick , without you having to do anything. My opinion, just play it cool, and if things work out, she'll be with you, and you can watch this loser strick out repeatedly.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

i think its great how you handled your problem. i feel ya tho. my girl has three guys going after her right now. im not even bothered. their competing against me when im not even competing with them at all. Betas are funny.