I've been seeing this girl for about 3 months now, no major red flags have popped up (obviously or I wouldn't still be hanging around after 3 months). Recently she tells me about this girl who has all of a sudden become her "new best friend". Turns out this girl is a HUGE slvt, I mean she had an abortion last week and is back banging random dudes this week. She even banged her ex's roommate because he dumped her. This girl takes hoe'ing to a whole new level, my friends. Not only is she the world's biggest hoe, she's always whining and has a ton of drama and the worst is when I'm around my girlfriend her phone constantly goes off from this girl texting her. I told my girlfriend I didn't appreciate that crap at all and it was disrespectful and she stopped it....at least while I'm around anyways. Anyways, we were out last night and guess who shows up? The hoebag friend. I wanted to tell her off so bad and call her out but my girlfriend would have been pissed if I'd done that so I just sat there quietly. This girl is a bad seed to say the least and I think my girlfriend feels sorry for her or something. Well this isn't a charity an she needs to cut ties with this hoe because this girl is nothing but trouble. Any tips on how to get her to get the heck outta Dodge? I don't want this hoe infecting my girlfriend with her hoebag slutty ways.
How do I get rid of a hoebag that keeps trying to befriend my gf?
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Not a good situation to be in. They say you are the company you keep, that goes ten fold for chicks being the herd creatures they are. They've all got slutty friends but to continually hang out with the same one?
If it was me I'd be straight up and ask her why she's hanging around a known hor, then I'd pose the question "you're better than that surely?" maybe even throw in a " you realize this makes me look bad?"
See what happens. If she continues I'd be looking at cutting bait. I'd also be asking myself the question (for next time) why my woman would want to befriend a hor and what made her so comfortable to think she could get away with it in the first place. Where did I drop the ball.
If it was me I'd be straight up and ask her why she's hanging around a known hor, then I'd pose the question "you're better than that surely?" maybe even throw in a " you realize this makes me look bad?"
See what happens. If she continues I'd be looking at cutting bait. I'd also be asking myself the question (for next time) why my woman would want to befriend a hor and what made her so comfortable to think she could get away with it in the first place. Where did I drop the ball.
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If you're girlfriend doesn't have better judgement of her friends then she is one and the same. Do non drug addicts hang out with drug addicts? You can't tell her not to hang out with people she wants to hang out with. That will make her want to hang out with her even more. If you don't like who she hangs out with dump her, that's what you do to get rid of the garbage in your life.
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Robert28 said:
Well if that is the case, then you shouldn't be worried.
Do they have any favorite shared activity?
You better find out, because that favorite activity could be getting as$ pounded by multiple guys. And no this isn't charity work.
Just pay attention to her actions going forward. From experience, women WILL be easily influenced by the company they keep. If she starts to exhibit questionable behavior, drop her. It will help you in the long run... because this can easily be a toxic situation where she feels like she's choosing between you and friend. You'll lose every time; even if you 'win'.
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Yeah bro, this guy here is right. You're in a tough situation here. You can't necessarily make her not hang out with someone she wants to. All you can do is express your disapproval and go from there.Leif_Johnson said:
If she's into you enough, eventually she'll back off like: Okay, my friendship with slutlord is ruining my relationship with Robert28, and I don't want to lose him
If not... You better look a finding a replacement.
Good luck Fam.