How do I confront my roomate on this one. ($hit talking)

WillieSacks

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2001
Messages
290
Reaction score
1
Location
Don't worry about it
So I move into this 4 bedroom house with this one guy (5'3" black guy 30 y.o) and this other dude (punk rock guy 21).

Anyway I moved in around April and my g/f (HB 9.0) comes over a lot and spends the night or whatever. I made it known to the black guy (who is on the lease) that my g/f would be coming over a lot. Anyway May comes around and my g/f is spending a lot of time with me and even taking showers at my house so my g/f OFFERS HERSELF to go half on the bills with everyone else. So anyway late July comes around and the black guy is getting pissed that my g/f is always over, (he has no g/f btw) and he throws a fit saying that if she comes over as much as she does then she needs to start paying rent WTF. When she comes over she stays in my room 90% of the time and comes out if she wants to cook or do laundry or use the bathroom.

Anyway I tell the dude that my g/f won't be coming over as much anymore if she has to start paying rent (btw it's a 4 bedroom house at 250 per room, dude wanted to start charging me 350 with my g/f staying over)

He came up w this idea mainly b/c one of the rooms wasn't occupied and eh would have to start paying for the unoccupied room.

Anyway this chinese girl moved into the vacant room and the black guy backed down on his decision to charge my g/f rent and said it was ok if she stayed over.

Anyway this black guy (im black by the way 6'3" unlike my 5'3" roommate who my g/f is taller than) is a real snake, he's a fukking miserable loser. He tried being nice to the chinese girl hoping to hook up with her and once she didn't want to hook up with him he started being a biitch to her. Dude is always biitching about the A.C. people eating his food . For example my g/f woul;d buy chicken and we would eat it then a week later the black guy would say he bought chicken and someone ate it and he wants to nkow who :rolleyes:

Anyway fast forward to last week. Dude tells me and my g/f that the lease is up in December and he doesn't want to renew so we all have to find a new place to live. I'm cool with that but all of a sudden this past week, the chinese girl decided to move out and he moved some other chick into the vacant room. I told the new girl that we would only be here for 2 months and the new girl told my g/f that she was never told about that and he wouldn't havemoved her in if it was only for twom months.


Fast forward to last night, the chinese girl was moving her stuff out and she was telling my g/f that the black guy was plotting to have us move out by December and that the elase wasn't up but he just wants me and my g/f out of the house.

He said the lease story was only made up b/c he wanted us out. The chinese girl said that he was talking $hit about me and my g/f about her laugh, about how her shoes cackle wehn she walks, and about how I'm home all the time WTF. HELLO I LIVE THERE.

Chinese girl said that the dude is just jealous of me and my g/f being a happy couple while he's just miserable and about how the dude is really creepy. My g/f and the chinese girl were talking about how creepy the guy is and how he reeks of desperation.

Anyway...


...continued from last night

So anyway, the chinese girl was saying that one night her, the 5'3" guy, the punk rock guy and his g/f (whose over a lot also) were all playing poker and they were plotting to get us out and they came up with the plan.

It didn't really bother me but it bothered my g/f, then I thought about it more and it really started to bother me. This guy (5'3" black guy) has borrowed my car twice when his car broke down, woke me up at 6 in the morning to take his a$$ to work a couple of times, I have given him rides, I'm always nice to him. I'm always on time with the bills but yet he still is trying to pull this $hit on me.
He also like s pawning stuff on other people. For example, about my g/f paying rent, he said it was the landlords idea and he was just following through on orders (B/s, landlord don't care how the rent gets to him as long as it gets to him)

My car had a leak and he told me to park on the curb saying the landlord didn't like leaks on the driveway even though his car leaks worse than anyone elses.

Well I got something for him. I know where the Landlord works (he's a manager of this restaurant) and I'm gonna go there and eat and talk to him and ask him when the lease is really up, then I'm gonna confront my roommate.

I don't want to confront him now and have him blowing up the chinese girls phone so I'm gonna wait it out for a week or two then confront him. Anyone else have any other ideas on how to confront this snake. BTW I plan on moving out anyway. If they don't want me there then why would I stay there.
 
Last edited:

Scrumtulescence

Master Don Juan
Joined
Sep 23, 2004
Messages
947
Reaction score
3
Age
43
Location
Inyurvij Eina
Hmmm. That's a sticky situation, your course of action depending on a number of important factors. First and foremost: how tall is everybody else?
 

AcknowledgeDaRep

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 12, 2005
Messages
13
Reaction score
1
lol!!!

gotta give you props Scrumtulescence, it's not easy to make me laugh, but that comment was hilarious.
 

C00L

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 9, 2005
Messages
278
Reaction score
0
i was thinking of moving into one of those big 4/5 bedroom places you share with other people, but now im not so sure.
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,264
Reaction score
244
Age
47
Location
at our house
evidentally the guy is jealous of you two and he couldnt stand the chinese chick turning him down which is probally why she is moving out.
get a place for you and your gf to live and share the bills. you will be much happier.
this guy, well heck, he probally is not so much of a people person and hates living with people because he doesnt know how to socialise.
living with strangers is hard, living with friends is hard, living with family is hard , thats life and he will still be trying to figure that out in ten years.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

WillieSacks

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2001
Messages
290
Reaction score
1
Location
Don't worry about it
Originally posted by penkitten
evidentally the guy is jealous of you two and he couldnt stand the chinese chick turning him down which is probally why she is moving out.
get a place for you and your gf to live and share the bills. you will be much happier.
this guy, well heck, he probally is not so much of a people person and hates living with people because he doesnt know how to socialise.
living with strangers is hard, living with friends is hard, living with family is hard , thats life and he will still be trying to figure that out in ten years.
good points penkitten. I'm not so sure about me moving in with my g/f, she wants to but I don't know if I'm ready for that yet. One could argue that we practically live together anyway since she's always over but I dunno yet.

The chinese girl is moving out because she is so uncomfortable around the guy, she said he creeps her out.

Most likely the dude is gonna try to make a pass at the new girl that just moved in and get turned down again :crackup:
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,264
Reaction score
244
Age
47
Location
at our house
i agree with the guy trying that haha

well you dont have too long to decide on what to do about a place to rent

id be mean as can be and leave early without a word to him , leave him in a money bind. i mean come on, here he is thinking hes kicking you out and can rent your room in dec so hes got that much time to find someone to cover the rent in that room . id leave early and leave him hangin lol if there is no rental contract.
 

WillieSacks

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2001
Messages
290
Reaction score
1
Location
Don't worry about it
only reason why I don't want to do that is because he has my deposit. I put down $150 before I moved in and he said if anyone is moving out that they should give him a notice b/c if someone just left him high and dry then he wouldn't give them their deposit back.
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,264
Reaction score
244
Age
47
Location
at our house
i wasnt aware of the depoist
i would give him anotice in writing saying you will be out on dec 1 or whatever and make a copy of it to keep for yourself.
you can certify mail it to him for about five dollars and that way he has to sign a card to recieve the letter and you have proof you mailed it to him.
if he doesnt give your security depoist back when you move, you have good grounds to sue him in small claims court. the bad thing is , with court costs and such, its going to cost more than 150 to do that. maybe you could ask he reimburse all those fees , but is it worth it?
 

penkitten

Master Don Juan
Joined
Nov 14, 2001
Messages
8,264
Reaction score
244
Age
47
Location
at our house
also rent is 250 and security deposit is 150. if you skip out now, you saved 100 bucks right?
 

Create self-fulfilling prophecies. Always assume the positive. Assume she likes you. Assume she wants to talk to you. Assume she wants to go out with you. When you think positive, positive things happen.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

OneArmDeeJay

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
378
Reaction score
0
Location
Arkham
First off I don’t blame him for wanting to charge your g/f for rent.

She is practically living there if she’s cooking, cleaning, eating, and bathing there and always over.

You own the room not the house.

If he’s not treating you with respect then show him the decent respect a human being deserves but that’s about it. That means if he wants a ride to work you flip him a quarter and say hope you catch the bus on time.

Man up or move out.

So what if he is jealous

So what if the other guy has his g/f over probably not as much as yours that’s why he isn’t getting hassled.

If your gf is over so much why don’t you move in with her?

Personally I think it’s a bad idea in the first place but hey that’s you.

You live and learn.

Know everything and all the rules before you sign anything.

The Asian chick gave you a warning they are plotting. Its 2 against one odds are against you.

Either stay and fight or move out.

Probably best just to move out.

And I don’t think it would be a good idea to bug your landlord at his work. There is a time and place for everything so use discretion.
 

WillieSacks

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2001
Messages
290
Reaction score
1
Location
Don't worry about it
Well I planned on moving out by Jan 1st and thought about just paying $100 for rent the last month but what I really want to know is how do I confront the guy?

Should I go with the plan about actually talking to the landlord and then surprising the roommate or should I just confront him telling him what I heard?
 

WillieSacks

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Sep 1, 2001
Messages
290
Reaction score
1
Location
Don't worry about it
Originally posted by OneArmDeeJay
First off I don’t blame him for wanting to charge your g/f for rent.

Why would he charge her rent, she stays in my room, dude has a master bedroom and he's paying the same as everyone else. He already understood that she would be there a lot

She is practically living there if she’s cooking, cleaning, eating, and bathing there and always over.

That's why she is paying utilities, instead of rent



So what if the other guy has his g/f over probably not as much as yours that’s why he isn’t getting hassled.

his g/f up until a week ago was over more than my g/f was. The only thing she doesn't do is shower at the house, she goes home to shower but for the most part she is there just as much as my g/f He just likes her more b/c the punk rock dude wants him to be in a threesome with his g/f and the other girl is a fukking pushover, my g/f is a biitch and could care less about my roommate while my roommate is buddies with the other couple [/b]

If your gf is over so much why don’t you move in with her?

I ain't ready for that and I told her that, she's over a lot this week b/c of some personal issues going down at her house so I'm helping her out.



The Asian chick gave you a warning they are plotting. Its 2 against one odds are against you.

Either stay and fight or move out.

Probably best just to move out.

And I don’t think it would be a good idea to bug your landlord at his work. There is a time and place for everything so use discretion.
I'm moving out, no question, BUT I REALLY WANT TO CONFRONT THE GUY ON HIS B/S. What's the best way to go about doing it.
 

OneArmDeeJay

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 18, 2005
Messages
378
Reaction score
0
Location
Arkham
I personally wouldn’t do it until I am just about moved out.

Because having words won’t solve anything just escalate.


Talking about the situation and trying to solve the problem will.


So considering you have made up your mind to move then just be cool, drop it, have your gf not come by so often and find a new place. And when you got all your stuff out then say what you want.

I can just see though telling this guy off or calling out his BS like a woman isn’t going to go over very well.

Remember the odds are against you. And I’m not just talking about azz kicking her I’m talking about these idiots could go elementary on your azz and throw all your stuff out or sell it or just mess with you. And just so many things can go wrong period. And I’ll be damn if I go going to jail or having an assault and battery charge over a stupid boarding situation.

So just Find a place, get out, and let it go.

Live and Learn.
 
Top