How do I avoid becoming Mr. Rebound??

[bignick79]

Long time, no see. Anyway, here's the situation. I went to school with this girl who is killer hot! She had a boyfriend back in college so nothing ever really happened between us, but there was always lots of touching and flirting! She invited me to her birthday party, which included plenty of drinks!! But turns out Mr. Boyfriend has been kicked to the curb! =) So we spent a good part of the night, flirting, dancing and, as the kids call it, Freakin' There was always a lot of eye contact and just a strong attraction between us, but i dont wanna be Mr. Rebound? I got in touch with her 3 days later and we both agreed, we had a blast. How should I proceed with this one guys?? Give her space and some time, or go after it??

Big Nick

 

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"Space", "Time" and "Rebound" are all meaningless chick words. Dont be drawn into this fantastical nonsense reality.

 

[Kenturkey]

tits is right.

My last girlfriend and I got together RIGHT after we both broke up with our respective LTRs. We dated for two years and had a great time. Rebound is BS, you either like each other or you don't.

Think about it this way... If "rebound" does exist, and you get some pvssy off this chick then she gets all distant and embarrassed because you're mr. rebound, i think you were lucky to get that sex. Right? I think the rebound terminology is ******** for "I had sex with someone I really didn't want to". So hit it, enjoy it, if something pans out, rinse and repeat.

Chris