How do I avoid b1tches like this in the future?

Desdinova

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Quit taking these bytches to nice places. First meeting should be someplace cheap. If she orders food and expects you to pay for it, don't fvcking drive her home, take the small hit to your wallet, and delete her number. A chick who's actually interested in meeting a man will pay for her own 5hit and won't mind meeting you somewhere cheap.
 

Knight of Roses

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Lol, I ain’t chasing Susan Boyle’s but it’s hard to walk out the date when she rolls up not looking as you expected. Happened to me a few months ago too. B1txh used angles in her profile pics to look good but in person she had those doughboy rolls on.
 

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I just don't agree to wine and dine girls in the first couple of dates. Your personality and game is meant to be enough in the first couple of dates, this isn't the time to throw cash at the situation and spoil her, this is the raw, balls out, this is me stage. She either takes it or leaves it. If things progress then yes you can wine and dine and be a gentlemen, but why waste that on someone you don't know? Being a bit selfish works in your favour early on, it's alpha, girls know this.
 

soulforge

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Again... the chick has no manners.... just next her. You can do what you want. You can call her out on the spot and say you are not paying... nothing wrong with that. I'm just saying what I would do, I would NOT myself order food, and if she did not take the hint, I would go ahead and pay then never call her again.

Dating is all about finding chicks that are right for you, if on a date, she does not behave herself then chalk it up and move onto the next one. I agree there are TONS of chicks that have no class and do not know how to behave. My guess is that if you make a date from some online service, you will find more chicks like this than not. SO back to my advice.... do not use on-line dating, but if you do... expect that sh!t like this will happen.
I treat real world chicks very differently from online chicks..

With online chicks, my main goal is to BANG with putting in as LITTLE effort as possible.. why? Because I have come to realise that online chicks are simply not worth it.

Would I pay fo there meals? FUK NO!

I usually arrange dates very close to my house, so I invest as little time as possible when it comes to travelling.

I only meet in a bar that does not specialise in food.. I always mention its a brief meet for a Drink.

Most times, I ask her to come straight to my house for drinks.. If she refuses and wants to meet me somewhere local to my house then fair enough..

If I have to travel more than 5 miles to meet her... THEN NEXT

Loads more online chicks to game after her.. NO BIG DEAL
 

ohrein

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I just don't agree to wine and dine girls in the first couple of dates. Your personality and game is meant to be enough in the first couple of dates, this isn't the time to throw cash at the situation and spoil her, this is the raw, balls out, this is me stage. She either takes it or leaves it. If things progress then yes you can wine and dine and be a gentlemen, but why waste that on someone you don't know? Being a bit selfish works in your favour early on, it's alpha, girls know this.
This. It should be face to face interaction with no distractions straight up. First dates should be auditions, not dates.
 

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Her orbiters all do the same things. You need to break that pattern early.

Else she'll expect you to fall in line, like all the other chodes.
 
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