How do I attain a Social Life

[kulowiper]

How do I attain a Socilial Life like going to Parties? I need help guys.
I am that type of guy that jacks off to Maxim magazines every Saturday night . I have never gone to a Real Party. By Real Party I mean an unsupervised one by adults (you know were theres Boze,Sex). I have gone to famaly parties but not Real Parties you were you dont know anyone execpt you and your friends. I am 17 Because I had parents that care toooooo much about me dont let me go out anywhere.

I never really went out with my friends beacuse my Dad would get pissed for some ****ing reason if I went to a party by myself. I have an over protected Dad that has been sheltering my growth for the past teenage years and (I know this is way off topic but bear with me) by not leetting me go to parties. He gets mad and starts screaming at me just beacuse I want to go to a party instead of going to with them.
So now that I am 17 years old the same **** happens but to a lesser extent so (& IMA ****ING GUY NOT A GIRL) . He starts telling me a this bull**** in spanish

Dad: You think you are a man and you can do whatever you want!!!!!!
He starts getting mad and furuis just because I want to go out.
My mom is like whatever and lets me go out.

Now back to the problem LOL I was talking too much **** about my dad about hes overprotected and my mom sadi it would of been a lot worse if I had been a girl. Okay guys lets not imagine it.

Got waay of topic, So i need help getting a life going to a Saturday night parties not spending at home jacking off.

Let me tell you guys about myself, I have friends at school but I dont meet them outside of school. I dont have a Car. Ima get my lincense at the end of the year. The Big Q guys, In the beginnign when you had no life, you didnt hang around with friends outside of school, what steps did you guys take to get a life and actually attended a party.

Now lets talk more ****tttttt about DAD!!!!!!! LOL

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As I always said " Dont blame others for your ****ed up life, Blame yourself"

Also can anyone link me to a video that says its okay to let your kids fly and to stop being so god-damm over protective it is the ****ing mothers job not he fathers. BAck to the Q guys never mind my dad.

And for some ****ing reason they let my brother go out more than I. and he is 3 years younger than me. They trust his ass more.

BY THE WAY I LIVE IN LOS ANGELES WINK WINK FOR THOSE WHO DONT HAVE A LIFE. :wink: :wink: I live in the upper part of Los Angeles, the San Fernando Valley, Sylmar, Mission Hills Area are easily accesible by Me

LOL i got severly off topic Okay here are the questions
In the beginning when you had no life, what steps did you guys take to get a life and get away from the house on a Saturday Night.

Anyone that lives in my area Pm me and Hit me up for a get together.

Can anyone link me up to a video to show parents

especially dads
to learn to let go and let theri children fly freelyyyyyy

 

[gimmeyofonenumba]

I only read the first 3 sentences, and im gonna tell you this. Highschool is soooooooooooooooooooo fvckin easy man. I wish i could go back. Just dress well, and dont be shy, speak out in class,be ****y and talk to the popular people. Be even ****y to the popular dudes. You'll earn alot of respect quickly and then start talking to the hot b!tches.

 

[kulowiper]

so how the hell do I get invited to parties I'm in my senior year and I havent gone to a party.

 

[griffon65]

Well the first thing is you need to move out as quickly as possible. Your dad is totally gonna destroy your social life. My mom is a lot like your dad and it set me back a couple of years before I figured out how to deal with her.

As for getting invited to parties, thats easy. Socilize more with as many people in school as possible. Concentrate on people who are interested in you and who look like they party.

Then in a conversation with each of them bring the subject up. If they are a partier chances are you will be able to tag along with them next time and they will be ahppy to take you.

 

[Arioch]

It doesn't sound like you have nothing to do on a Saturday night. It sounds like you have an over-protective father. I knew a guy like that once. He went to college and went crazy with the booze. Now he's a drop-out because he didn't know how to handle himself without his over-protective father preventing him from having fun.

Really, I have no idea what to do about an over-protective father. Just stop jacking off to Maxim, because that is defeat. Focus on making it unpleasent for you to stay at home all the time. I got a large stereo system in my youth and played my obnoxious music at volumes where everyone could hear it. What parents want teenagers to be home that much?

If your Dad won't let you go to parties by yourself, get some friends to go to parties with. Don't even talk about going to parties with Dad, talk about hanging out with friends.

And think up a good rebuttle for that "You think you are a man and you can do whatever you want" line. And start meeting your friends outside of school. What sort of town do you live in? In my small town, I could just walk out of the house with no plan and meet up with some people downtown and stuff would happen. High school was pretty cool, but it would have been better if I knew anything (I wish I had an older sibling or cousin or something).

 

[cinephile]

Just do what I did, find a friend with a car and hit all the parties y'all can find whether invited or not. You will know real quick if you should stay or go. In LA there are a ton of parties everywhere.

As far as having a mexican dad, man do I know the hell that can be. Just lie to him and cover up your tracks well.

 

[kulowiper]

Thank You guys for your info I need more friends and I need to hang out more after school and Im joining the Fuvking Marines so I can get away from my parents

I will stop masturbating guys to maxim guys

 

[rockstar88]

who cares if your invited or not. just show up and have fun. 99%of the time people dont invite people to parties. not unless your in the 4th grade and it's a party at chuck e cheeze. just go. if that falls. wait till your 18. learn how to bartend or bounce get a job in a niteclub. there are always bad ass after parties with niteclub staff that anyone who works at the niteclub and all the hot girls that partied at the club go to after hours.

and invest in some better beating off material

 

[Keeper]

Why the big focus on parties?

If I were you I would get into new trades/sports and meet people there. I for example started riding horses - and met MANY cool attractive girls there, as it turned out they were also quite the partying bunch.

 

[Q-Pid]

Just tell your dad that you're not trying to be a man - you're just trying to be a normal sociable teenager. And tell him you want his support in that.

 

[diablo]

AE...

 

[spider_007]

what ever you do, do it now. once your out of highschool it's 10x harder.