how do i ask a girl if shes in a relationship indirectly

[instant]

hello you all i am a driving instructor i teach lil women how to drive im 21 myself i have alot of 18-25 y.o. students what are some smooth ways to ask them if they are involved with someone what are some clever ways to gauge thir intrest levels what can i ask just leave any clever advice that will help me get more of these chicks i do get a few but im trying to maximize on this

Thanks DJs

 

[christz]

the easiest most indirect way to see if a girl is seeing somebody AND to gauge intrest at the same time on a small level is to pose a question about their boyfriend.

like this, this is lame but you'll get the picture

"wow you took that turn fast, you probably make your b/f nervous when you drive like that"

she'll say something like

"haha, yeah he does get pretty nervous"

OR

"yeah if i had one"

 

[DJHoolahoop]

i've had girls lie to me when i've done that. Why? because assumptions are another thing they think is a way for guys to indirectly ask them if they're in a relationship.

Chances are they'll speak truly of it, but I've had experience where the girl didn't have one (found out later) and that she said she did anyways.

but that don't mean it won't work

 

[sapphire]

It is very simple and effective:

Me: Do you have a BF?

Her: No

Me: Are you married?

Her: No

Me: Good, then give you your number cause I want to take you out sometime.

Direct and to the point and gets them all wet.

 

[flexion_]

Just starting talking to them about what they do for fun or what do they have planned for the rest of the week or weekend at a conversational level.

They'll usually tell you in some way.

 

[squirrels]

Originally posted by instant
hello you all i am a driving instructor i teach lil women how to drive im 21 myself i have alot of 18-25 y.o. students what are some smooth ways to ask them if they are involved with someone what are some clever ways to gauge thir intrest levels what can i ask just leave any clever advice that will help me get more of these chicks i do get a few but im trying to maximize on this

Thanks DJs

1) It may not be a good idea to hit on customers...it could easily put you in a bad professional situation.

2) Why do you CARE if the girl is in a relationship? Just act as if she's not. If she IS, she'll let you know. If she IS, and she DOESN'T let you know...well, she must not have liked him very much anyway.

 

[DrSoSuave]

Wow, a person who is in a position of power (driving instructor) who thinks he can pick up women because of that.

Clap clap, work related post again.

 

[ScrewIt]

Originally posted by christz
the easiest most indirect way to see if a girl is seeing somebody AND to gauge intrest at the same time on a small level is to pose a question about their boyfriend.

like this, this is lame but you'll get the picture

"wow you took that turn fast, you probably make your b/f nervous when you drive like that"

she'll say something like

"haha, yeah he does get pretty nervous"

OR

"yeah if i had one"

it's pretty obvious when someone says it that way. Oddly i've had people i meet do that to me quite often, bringing up the question of a gf indirectly.

but unfortunately tahts as good as indirect goes.

you know what they say, curiousity killed the cat.