How Did You Get Out of the FRIEND ZONE?

[Pure Drive +]

Hey. Share your stories on how you got out of the friend zone.

I'm interested in that, and please share your stories ok. Thanks.

 

[Mack 86]

You don't. The End.

 

[Pure Drive +]

Well, I am on the verge.

So yeah, don't be all hateful because you couldn't get outta the friend zone and get outta my thread.

Anyone with stuff worth reading?

 

[Kidd]

There is a post by senor fingers on how to escape the friend zone. It is remarkable, worked for me.

 

[Ian Gots Game]

I just got home from hanging out (date-ish) with my best girl friend. I like her and I now know I have blown the opportunity to hook up with her. I gave her a lot of kino walking through the mall and she kinod back. I refuted any of her attempts of emotion outpouring. I did EVERY thing I could. I treated her like my girlfriend. When we were home she was laying on her back, I sat over her legs and kinod her legs with one hand and back with the other. She then got a text from "Cals Friend" kid that said they wanted to chill and he would come to her house. She implied to me that she wanted to go home and could hang out with them but she wouldn't just ditch me for them. So she said no thanks to him. I was just like screw it and took her home. It sucked, its cool having girl buds but don't become that type of friend unless you will never like her.
MORAL OF THE STORY: LJBF is final
BTW has anyone seen Chris Rock's piece on platonic friends? If you have there's truth to that.

 

[Mack 86]

Originally posted by Pure Drive +
Well, I am on the verge.

So yeah, don't be all hateful because you couldn't get outta the friend zone and get outta my thread.

Anyone with stuff worth reading?

Everyone that has ever been in the friends zone was "on the verge" of getting out of it. Guess what though....it's not going to happen you shouldn't even waste your time. If she is serious about what she said then it's not going to happen. If you are with a female that plays a lot of games I could see her possiby saying that you were friends just out of stupidity and then falling for you later but in that case it was never a true "friends zone" placement. Girls that have you in the friends zone love to flirt with you and play around just enough to make you think that something can happen but they know that they'll never give you the p*ssy.

 

[Pure Drive +]

Originally posted by Kidd
There is a post by senor fingers on how to escape the friend zone. It is remarkable, worked for me.

What happened?

I'm getting mixed messages. Something tells me i'm going to miss out on somethign great.

 

[LikRetsam]

Mack, please remain silent in the discussion of a concept you have never experienced.

Pure, Senor Fingerz all the way.

Edited for friendliness.

 

[Sammo]

There has been a MASSIVE dilution of what the 'friend zone' is on this board. People read the definition of it and believe they are in it with a bunch of chicks.

Girls TEND to decide wether or not they like you AFTER you have first shown interest in them. So what does this mean? You can't get sent to the friends zone until you have shown interest (IE written a gay love note). Your probably NOT in the friends zone unless she has told you directly after you have asked her out.

If its an aquaintance, then simply work on yourself a bit and then show interest.

 

[kiz]

i did get out of the friends zone with this one girl i was sort of hookin up with back in my super AFC days. she hinted to LJBF and i got the picture and forgot about her. now she likes the more DJ me, and i was about to hook up with her (faces 2 inches away from each other, she thought i was about to kiss her) and i just left. didn't want her anymore. this doesn't really count though. this girl was pretty ugly too but it was all i could get in my AFCness.

even if by some small chance you do get out of the friends zone, i doubt you'll want to be. just move on, there are tons of girls out there.

 

[Mack 86]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Hey Mack, shut the **** up. When you don't know what you're talking about, shut up. You just make yourself look like an idiot. An idiot that pisses me off.

Do not assume because you have no skills that no one else does either.

Pure, Senor Fingerz all the way.

I'm pretty sure that you have never had a girlfriend now because you take this way too seriously. I'm very successful with the ladies that's why I know the friends zone is a brick wall. Just like Sammo said above "Your probably NOT in the friends zone unless she has told you directly after you have asked her out." Many people assume that they are in the friends zone and then magically get out of it because they were so smooth but I'm sorry to bust your bubble...you were never in it. There's no need to instill hope into these guys minds on the subject, if she says "we're just friends" leave it alone don't pursue her anymore.

 

[sinner]

yup.. in most cases its impossible to get out of the friends zone..

 

[LikRetsam]

Originally posted by Mack 86
I'm pretty sure that you have never had a girlfriend now because you take this way too seriously. I'm very successful with the ladies that's why I know the friends zone is a brick wall.

Now if you knew anything (I.E. read up on posts past page 1) you would know that I contradict both those statements. In fact, you can not even begin to fathom what 'very succesful' means.

Just because in your 'very succesful' history with women you did not have the skills to get out of a LJBF situation doesn't mean you should lecture us about the impossibility of it.

 

[davester88]

Originally posted by Sammo
Your probably NOT in the friends zone unless she has told you directly after you have asked her out. [/B]

Well I asked a chick out, and she said not right now, but I know I am not in the friends zone with her, I could be more, but I think I jumped in too quickly.

Anyone have a good c and f line to use when she asks me for gum, which happens every day ( I have a few but they'll start to get stale )

Thanks

 

[Prophett]

forget her

 

[Pure Drive +]

ok I'm going to follow Fingz's post.

Golden Rule as always.

If she asks me, "Pure, do you like me?"

I'll just slowly kiss her, and say, "does that answer your question?"

OTherwise, I'll take it slow like Fingz. I did some kino today. Kinda lame kino, but kino nonetheless heh.

 

[Mack 86]

Originally posted by LikRetsam
Now if you knew anything (I.E. read up on posts past page 1) you would know that I contradict both those statements. In fact, you can not even begin to fathom what 'very succesful' means.

Just because in your 'very succesful' history with women you did not have the skills to get out of a LJBF situation doesn't mean you should lecture us about the impossibility of it.

I just saw your age and it explains it all. You're at the age where you know everything about nothing. You are barely starting to get hair on your scrotum and you want to act like The Bishop Don Juan, don't you have homework to do kid? I don't think your mom would be too pleased if she saw what she was paying the internet bill for.

 

[Pure Drive +]

I think I need to pull back a bit. I feel like I'm trying too hard and not being myself around her. I'm trying to impress her and stuff and it just doesn't feel natural....doesn't feel right.

You know that feeling like when you don't breathe completely? It's like you're holding your breath and letting it out slowly cuz you're afraid you breathe too loudly or something. That is how I feel.

I should just get on with my life and do a little flirting, but stop thinking about her all the friggin time you know.

 

[sinner]

yah.. go flirt with other girls for a change..

 

[LikRetsam]

Originally posted by Mack 86
I just saw your age and it explains it all. You're at the age where you know everything about nothing. You are barely starting to get hair on your scrotum and you want to act like The Bishop Don Juan, don't you have homework to do kid? I don't think your mom would be too pleased if she saw what she was paying the internet bill for.

As I said, go past page 1. I have alot of posts on how I got out of the friends zone, had her ask me out and had the greatest relationship of my life.

You buddy need to shut the **** up. Don't call me kid when you are in this HIGH SCHOOL forum. And while you're at it, go ahead and post your age. And while we're at it, why don't you post a field report and show us what you're made of tough guy?

You're all talk so far bro. Weak talk at that. Go ahead and back up your point in regards to this thread's topic.

Please note, when communicating with people over the internet it is not wise to assume things.

Please, I'm waiting for the field report. Feel free to check out mine.