How could I have approached? (girl with guy and girl)

[One on One]

I was at Starbucks today and as soon as I walked in I saw a girl that looked exactly like my type and she noticed me. I walked in with perfect posture and made eye contact with her making her look away...like I owned the place. Anyways, I wasn't ready to approach since she was with 2 friends, a guy and a girl. I don't want these obstacles to slow me down in the future though. If she was alone, I was going to ask if she went to the local college or where she went to college since I'm almost certain she was in college.

Tips?

 

[iqqi]

doncha know how to flirt from a distance? could've tried that, just to test the waters.

 

[drixsa]

Originally posted by iqqi
doncha know how to flirt from a distance? could've tried that, just to test the waters.

thats a good option but if he doesnt have the confidence to approach then your idea will prolly be harder

you dont really need a reason jus go over

"excuse me i just wanted to let you know that i really like your shirt"

"oh thankyou"

"by the way im Drix, and you are?"

 

[uniassign]

Anyways, I wasn't ready to approach since she was with 2 friends, a guy and a girl. I don't want these obstacles to slow me down in the future though.

All I am hearing is an excuse.

You just undid all the good work you did on her. Your first impression on her was good. But when you failed to approached, you did not live up to her expectation.

Next time, talk to the GUY. Ask him about anything. Talk to him for a while, then talk to her friend. Sit down and continue friendly conversation.

 

[dionysius_d]

Originally posted by uniassign
Next time, talk to the GUY. Ask him about anything. Talk to him for a while, then talk to her friend. Sit down and continue friendly conversation.

That can work sometimes if the people are polite.. but be prepared.

I was in a club with 2 j-girls once, and this guy walks up, and says "Ni Hao" to the J-Girls who look at him blankly (haha).. then starts to talk with me.. I look at him like he has a c0ck attached to his head.. then he asks "Do you know the manager of this club?", I tell him "No", and he walks away. Not comfortable.