JPlaya said:
I've noticed that most average girls are usually taken but the hot girls aren't.
In my experience most hot girls aren't very good quality in terms of relationships. The ones that are in relationships I can usually tell why the guy is going out with them...they girl is hot. I asked myself the same question you're asking now.
I've gone through a lot of personal growth over the last few years. I wasn't getting what I want out of life and I had to reflect and try to understand why. It took me awhile to realize that I had been getting by pretty well and never really took the time to reflect because things came pretty easy to me. It wasn't until my last breakup that I really realized I had to spend time learning about myself, my weaknesses and opportunities and grow. This website provided some direction to address this.
I find hot girls don't go through this experience, at least not as much as average/ugly girls. Everything comes easy to them because of there looks. They can easily get guys, so why should they improve their personality or try to be a better person? They continually ask why guys keep treating them like **** or they can't get a quality guy, but because new guys keeping coming around they don't stop to take personal time to grow.
Average and ugly girls can't rely on their looks so they must spend the time to grow. On average, they tend to become better people and offer more for relationships.
I personally date girls I find attractive and could care less what others think. But if they're very hot I'm more hesitant and qualify a lot more. I have a lot of friends who are very good looking girls and I see the issues and drama. Life's too short to be dealing with that.