How can you disinterest a girl who is obsessed with you? ANY advice will help!

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I have a problem... Theres this girl that likes me. People have told me since they first found out, now these are people I can trust I mean close friends, regular friends, people I barely know etc. I guess shes too shy to talk to me and I have noticed she does like me but my close friends who are in the same extra ciricular program as her tell me that I need to do something about it because its getting to be too serious of an obsession. I don't like her and I want her to stop liking me. Today after school I was going to my locker and my friend had already opened it and he told me she was going through my stuff I was really pissed about that and really bi*ched him out because he let her but anyway you see how crazy this girl is? I need some help fast because she hangs out with some crazy people too and I need advice on how to stop her from liking me. I mean I talk to her like once a month so it isn't like I am an ahole and she likes that. Its been a long time since I found out she liked me but my friends sasy she gets more serious everyday about it and they said I need to do something about it. Do you guys have any much needed advice? I was thinking about acting like I was going out with one of her non-crazy friends so she could see I didn't like her and she should leave it alone or is it a bad move? Any advice would help thanks.
 

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wow, this is a unusual situation. Usually its the male obsessing over the female. I find it weird that she is obsessed with you yet you only speak with her about once a month.

I know a girl who is obviously likes me who i do not like back in the same way but I see her every day. She is my lab partner in chemistry and she is constantly using kino on me. I just don't respond to her avances and talk about dates I had the weekend before and how much fun I had with the girl.

I however have no clue what you could do. The best I can think of is a little contact as possible with her and over time she will get over you. However if this is a really severe case this might lead to her commiting suicide so I'd be careful.
 

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To add some info on the situation a couple months ago about Oct or Nov. 03 me and 3 girls ditched school and rid in two cars mine and this other girls, well anyway she rode with me for about 10 mins since then I haven't said much like I said I talk to her very rarely. Well I knew she liked me like a little after that and some times my friends tell me hey she likes you and blah blah even though I already know well today they said it again and im like wtf is the big deal? So they started telling me that she is obsessed so its been going on but I just found out today about how serious it was. If I talked to her at all I would use your technique on telling her about dates I have had and stuff but I don't talk to her. Plus I have stayed away from her for a while a long while I mean I told you I don't talk to her and she still hasn't got over it so I don't know...
 

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I really don't understand how a girl could be so obsessed with you so much and hardly knowing you at all.
 

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Originally posted by SoonToBeDJ
I have a problem... Theres this girl that likes me. People have told me since they first found out, now these are people I can trust I mean close friends, regular friends, people I barely know etc. I guess shes too shy to talk to me and I have noticed she does like me but my close friends who are in the same extra ciricular program as her tell me that I need to do something about it because its getting to be too serious of an obsession. I don't like her and I want her to stop liking me. Today after school I was going to my locker and my friend had already opened it and he told me she was going through my stuff I was really pissed about that and really bi*ched him out because he let her but anyway you see how crazy this girl is? I need some help fast because she hangs out with some crazy people too and I need advice on how to stop her from liking me. I mean I talk to her like once a month so it isn't like I am an ahole and she likes that. Its been a long time since I found out she liked me but my friends sasy she gets more serious everyday about it and they said I need to do something about it. Do you guys have any much needed advice? I was thinking about acting like I was going out with one of her non-crazy friends so she could see I didn't like her and she should leave it alone or is it a bad move? Any advice would help thanks.
I feel you bro. For one, I would personally break my friends face for letting her go through my stuff. I"m very secure about my properties.

Other than that, there was this girl I was seeing. I made a mistake to lie to her too much and for dat cause, she was so obsessed with me that she would call my house, taxi me to her house, I'd fuk her, and on d way back, she'd pay me 20 bux so I could get some food plus the taxi money back again. She wasn't even rich. But she was spending every last penny on me.

Wat I realized after a lil while is dat I"v become a slut, and even worst, shez soo attached dat nothing I tried was working. She knew I'm banging other girls and she'd cry all day infront of me (eventhough she knew i didnt care and i showed no care) den she would go try to kik dat girl's ass if she found out. She'd try REAL hard to find out.

SHE WAZNT EVEN MY GIRLFRIEND. infront of her I told a thousand ppl shez not my gf.

Well d story doz end up with happy tears. I did manage to get away from her. (she'd tell me she'd kill her self if i ever left...) But once I juz straight out, with a COMPLETE serious face told her, look, you used to be my booty call, but now I dont even like you. I dont like you so bad dat I cant even fuk u. U turn me off and you have no life. (I still loved to tap her but I knew i' shouldnt continue it). Try it man. You won't be an *******.
It's bothering you that shez being so protective and all. So do something about it. Go to her, say look I know u might have feelns about me but I dont. I dont wann be mean, but I see no future in u and I and dass d bottom line. I'm sorry and take off. Dis way, you wont have to stress her anymore, and she wont waste her time either.

:D good luk
 

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Originally posted by RaMar
I really don't understand how a girl could be so obsessed with you so much and hardly knowing you at all.

I only told you the problem not the whole story my post was already long. Anyway last sem. we used to have lunch together and even though we didn't sit close to each other after lunch I would chill by these stairs since they would let us out a couple mins early and her and her friend would usually walk by and stop and talk to me for a min or two.
 
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