How can I tell a friend that the chick he likes..

[secretfire222]

..doesn't see him as a bf?

I always like to have hope, but sometimes you need to close shop and try some new things. She gave him the "ljbf" talk, and yet he still insists on trying to get with her. She's very flirty with him but has made it clear that she doesn't like him. It's just sad to see him trying to catch a fish that keeps on going in circles around his bait.

 

[SynapsyS]

Just tell him exactly what you just said.

Harsh, but he'll thank you for it.

Syn.

edit: For clarity:

I always like to have hope, but sometimes you need to close shop and try some new things. She gave you the "ljbf" talk, and yet you still insists on trying to get with her. She's very flirty with you but has made it clear that she doesn't like you. It's just sad to see you trying to catch a fish that keeps on going in circles around his bait. Sorry man.

 

[LikRetsam]

You don't tell the friend. You sit back and watch the show!

 

[penkitten]

sometimes when you say something, a friend will see it as you are jealous and whatnot and it doesnt come out like you meant well by telling them.

decide on your choice of words if you are going to tell him, perhaps... i like it when the chicks chase me . its fun.

see if he will start asking how to make them chase him instead of him jumping thru hoops for them.

this is a good start.